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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Watching a programme there about the attraction of BBW. Some guys loved this and treated these women as a kind of kinky fetish. Others just stated that the term BBW is an excuse fat women use to describe themselves rather than admit that they are morbidly obese. Opinion anyone?

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland

I reckon this one will be a 2 bags of popcorn thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I reckon this one will be a 2 bags of popcorn thread. "

....with butter please. Just fat here....

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

Ooh popcorn .... In in but make mine plain I'm watching my weight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pulling up a chair as we spk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Might as well take advantage of some free advertisment since some BBWS and admirers might look at this post

http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/scotland/266865

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Brave man but to answer you question BBW for me

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By *razy dancerMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Bbw are great i met one today i had to fumble about a bit but she had a great big pussy and very wet she loved the fingering i was giving her

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Watching a programme there about the attraction of BBW. Some guys loved this and treated these women as a kind of kinky fetish. Others just stated that the term BBW is an excuse fat women use to describe themselves rather than admit that they are morbidly obese. Opinion anyone? "
curious as to what your own opinions are ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Watching a programme there about the attraction of BBW. Some guys loved this and treated these women as a kind of kinky fetish. Others just stated that the term BBW is an excuse fat women use to describe themselves rather than admit that they are morbidly obese. Opinion anyone? "

Why don't you tell us your opinion???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He's gone down the chip shop.....

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"He's gone down the chip shop..... "
Damn i never got my order in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pulling up a chair as we spk "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bbw does sound like a term used to make being overweight positive.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"Might as well take advantage of some free advertisment since some BBWS and admirers might look at this post

http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/scotland/266865 "

Shameless plug ....opportunity well taken

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What big bow wearer

Big botty wiper

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Might as well take advantage of some free advertisment since some BBWS and admirers might look at this post

http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/scotland/266865

Shameless plug ....opportunity well taken "
He who dares

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Dunno. Programme was a bit disturbing really to be honest. My opinion is I couldn't give a f##k. One in three of us Scots are over weight anyway due to the shit diets we're all on and the advertising campaigns by all the fast food joints to keep the masses addicted to fatty nosebags.

Eat less and move more? My arse.... 2 out of 3 of you ain't listening anyway

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Dunno. Programme was a bit disturbing really to be honest. My opinion is I couldn't give a f##k. One in three of us Scots are over weight anyway due to the shit diets we're all on and the advertising campaigns by all the fast food joints to keep the masses addicted to fatty nosebags.

Eat less and move more? My arse.... 2 out of 3 of you ain't listening anyway "
Disturbing in what way ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Disturbing..... because it moved on to 30 stone women, practically incapable of free movement sitting on top of wee, skinny, geeky guys eating a family size KFC bucket..... not nice. Put me right off my zinger wrap!

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Disturbing..... because it moved on to 30 stone women, practically incapable of free movement sitting on top of wee, skinny, geeky guys eating a family size KFC bucket..... not nice. Put me right off my zinger wrap! "
Was this a program on feeders ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

interesting points

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Feeders..... might have been. I take this adjective has hee haw to do with fishing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See I always thought bbw meant big breasted woman,

But it's my body and I will do with it what I want,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm just fat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol I couldn't spell that,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm just fat "
great to see an honest woman ...go you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm just fat too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm just fat too "

Me too but hey I'm honest!!

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By *r and Mrs SnogalotCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Surely being fat does not prevent someone from being beautiful though.

Shy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

BBW, Fat, Thin... to be honest it really doesn't matter.

I've met people of all shapes & sizes... personality counts for far more than body shape.

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Its the ones that consider themselves "beautiful" that make me laugh!

Yes...You are big! (some verging on obese) but still BIG!

Yes...You are a women (taking your word for that in some cases)

But beautiful???........Really?

Some people really do need to get over themselves with that statement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd call myself fat and iv got reasonably big boobs so label me how u want lol. At the end of the day on our profile I have pics that let others see me and it states I'm large so each to their own. Everyone entitled to their own preferences so long as they ain't cruel or nasty about it. As for thirty stone that worries me purely from a health perspective because that does impact on mobility and function. Again tho if someone chooses to be that size and others are attracted to that size each to their own.

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By *hybutnaughtyoneWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

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By *r and Mrs SnogalotCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"But beautiful???........Really?

Some people really do need to get over themselves with that statement "

Surely beauty is in the eye of the beholder and therefore subjective?

Shy

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By *hybutnaughtyoneWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Its the ones that consider themselves "beautiful" that make me laugh!

Yes...You are big! (some verging on obese) but still BIG!

Yes...You are a women (taking your word for that in some cases)

But beautiful???........Really?

Some people really do need to get over themselves with that statement "

I agree totally ....this is why I don't like the term BBW. Yes I am big (too big but that is my issue ) , yes I'm a woman but I wouldn't consider myself as beautiful!

Mx

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By *r and Mrs SnogalotCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"

I agree totally ....this is why I don't like the term BBW. Yes I am big (too big but that is my issue ) , yes I'm a woman but I wouldn't consider myself as beautiful!

Mx"

You may not see yourself as beautiful, that does not mean others would agree.

I am forever telling my OH he needs glasses.

Shy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't identify with any labels...I'm just me

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"But beautiful???........Really?

Some people really do need to get over themselves with that statement

Surely beauty is in the eye of the beholder and therefore subjective?

Shy "

I am the beholder....so I will decide who or what is beautiful to me!

Any woman (or man) sitting there saying to others "I am beautiful"...Need to get over themselves!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't identify with any labels...I'm just me "

Just the way it should be!

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

think the point that was being made is those who believe they are bbw and not just overweight was the issue no there is no such thing for me there is a beautiful person or an ugly person but you wont find bbw on the bmi scale

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But then again bmi ain't worth a lot either.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"But beautiful???........Really?

Some people really do need to get over themselves with that statement

Surely beauty is in the eye of the beholder and therefore subjective?

Shy

I am the beholder....so I will decide who or what is beautiful to me!

Any woman (or man) sitting there saying to others "I am beautiful"...Need to get over themselves!

"

As always, straight to the point.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

People are what they are it's quite clear to see when you meet people what they are.

I just wonder if in the world do people get as nasty about it as they do in here?

I mean just last week on these forums someone told me I need a gastric band, would that same person walk up to someone in the street and tell someone they had never met that they need a gastric band? who knows maybe they would. but I doubt it very much.

People are what they are yes there are some very beautiful bbws/fat people and yes there are some pretty ugly ones too.

What category I fall under for one person might not bet the opinion of another.

But i so think a lot of people need to remember that your dress size does not determin your beauty like so many people,on here think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fat is not bbw I love a set big lass but I not so.much into fat girls. I take it your into slim girls does that mean you find every slim girl attractive? No I doubt it.

Size is only one variable of many. Slim and big girls can be hot ugly or in different. I'm a normal guy. Some girls think I'm hot some ugly it's not just about size.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone will have opinions on this subject as it's been all said before

What I don't understand is the more heavier lady putting curvy or average when in their profile with small pics or weird camera angles

How's a guy ment to see that's not really true ?

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Everyone will have opinions on this subject as it's been all said before

What I don't understand is the more heavier lady putting curvy or average when in their profile with small pics or weird camera angles

How's a guy ment to see that's not really true ?

"
the only guys who should matter are the ones these women intend meeting it's then upto the guys themselves to decide.

At least there is something there to see instead of a blank profile because the fact is guys would still make contact whether there are photos or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its like saying I'm bbc..its highly subjective

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow

It's personality that counts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I reckon this one will be a 2 bags of popcorn thread.

....with butter please. Just fat here.... "

Nah toffee is better lol

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire


"Everyone will have opinions on this subject as it's been all said before

What I don't understand is the more heavier lady putting curvy or average when in their profile with small pics or weird camera angles

How's a guy ment to see that's not really true ?

the only guys who should matter are the ones these women intend meeting it's then upto the guys themselves to decide.

At least there is something there to see instead of a blank profile because the fact is guys would still make contact whether there are photos or not. "

ive had that in the past saying you look lovely and ive had no pic!!! cracks me up lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its like saying I'm bbc..its highly subjective"

bbw for bbc lol...

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By *ockandhishenCouple
over a year ago

West Dunbartonshire

We are who we are at the end of the day and if folk dont like us because were "fat or bbw" the jog on!!

If we were all size 0 the world would be a boring place

Hen x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its like saying I'm bbc..its highly subjective

bbw for bbc lol... "

shut it ya filthy pervo x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Omg how crass lol...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We are who we are at the end of the day and if folk dont like us because were "fat or bbw" the jog on!!

If we were all size 0 the world would be a boring place

Hen x"

Size Zero.... ooooft. Not a into that. Cotton Wool diet! Seen a telly programme about that too (need to get out more!) with Louise Redknap. Daft bint did take to eating cotton wool to make zero. Nutter!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bbw are great i met one today i had to fumble about a bit but she had a great big pussy and very wet she loved the fingering i was giving her "
aww really needed to know that. Grabs my sick bag. Yuk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Free Freddo bars to all the girls to help them put on kilo or two.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone will have opinions on this subject as it's been all said before

What I don't understand is the more heavier lady putting curvy or average when in their profile with small pics or weird camera angles

How's a guy ment to see that's not really true ?

the only guys who should matter are the ones these women intend meeting it's then upto the guys themselves to decide.

At least there is something there to see instead of a blank profile because the fact is guys would still make contact whether there are photos or not. "
so if a guy messages a chick who has average or curvy on her profile but meets her and she's a size 20 that's ok?

I think not

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Everyone will have opinions on this subject as it's been all said before

What I don't understand is the more heavier lady putting curvy or average when in their profile with small pics or weird camera angles

How's a guy ment to see that's not really true ?

the only guys who should matter are the ones these women intend meeting it's then upto the guys themselves to decide.

At least there is something there to see instead of a blank profile because the fact is guys would still make contact whether there are photos or not. so if a guy messages a chick who has average or curvy on her profile but meets her and she's a size 20 that's ok?

I think not "
surly if there are photos in their private gallery and the guy is happy to meet then that's upto them?

No one holds a gun to these guys heads and says you better meet me or else.

Again its amazing why so many people get their knickers in a twist over other peoples profiles on here.

If your not interested in meeting them why should it bother you so much is beyond me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes am overweight, yes I have big breasts,

But I have never classes mmyself as beautiful,

To me bbw is big breasted women,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone will have opinions on this subject as it's been all said before

What I don't understand is the more heavier lady putting curvy or average when in their profile with small pics or weird camera angles

How's a guy ment to see that's not really true ?

the only guys who should matter are the ones these women intend meeting it's then upto the guys themselves to decide.

At least there is something there to see instead of a blank profile because the fact is guys would still make contact whether there are photos or not. so if a guy messages a chick who has average or curvy on her profile but meets her and she's a size 20 that's ok?

I think not "

Excuse me I am a size 20 and always let the guy know what I look like naked standing up,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

fabs just a big melting Pot different strokes for different folks1!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

that would do for me

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland


"

Again its amazing why so many people get their knickers in a twist over other peoples profiles on here. "

It seems to be the world we live in though. Other (non sex related) forums I'm on, there are people that say 'I can't understand why people would want to....' etc.

Seems that many people struggle to take in other people's _iews or opinions these days. Not sure if it's an online thing or not but certainly not restricted to this site.

Maybe we are all guilty of it to an extent but would like to think that we personally are adult enough to end the conversation with each to their own.

So, each to their own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone will have opinions on this subject as it's been all said before

What I don't understand is the more heavier lady putting curvy or average when in their profile with small pics or weird camera angles

How's a guy ment to see that's not really true ?

the only guys who should matter are the ones these women intend meeting it's then upto the guys themselves to decide.

At least there is something there to see instead of a blank profile because the fact is guys would still make contact whether there are photos or not. so if a guy messages a chick who has average or curvy on her profile but meets her and she's a size 20 that's ok?

I think not surly if there are photos in their private gallery and the guy is happy to meet then that's upto them?

No one holds a gun to these guys heads and says you better meet me or else.

Again its amazing why so many people get their knickers in a twist over other peoples profiles on here.

If your not interested in meeting them why should it bother you so much is beyond me "
no knickers getting twisted ... Again open forum just saying how I see it

Or is it only BBW that can reply ?

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"

Again its amazing why so many people get their knickers in a twist over other peoples profiles on here.

It seems to be the world we live in though. Other (non sex related) forums I'm on, there are people that say 'I can't understand why people would want to....' etc.

Seems that many people struggle to take in other people's _iews or opinions these days. Not sure if it's an online thing or not but certainly not restricted to this site.

Maybe we are all guilty of it to an extent but would like to think that we personally are adult enough to end the conversation with each to their own.

So, each to their own.

I

"
yeah I totally agree let people enjoy what they enjoy same as each and everyone of us do

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Everyone will have opinions on this subject as it's been all said before

What I don't understand is the more heavier lady putting curvy or average when in their profile with small pics or weird camera angles

How's a guy ment to see that's not really true ?

the only guys who should matter are the ones these women intend meeting it's then upto the guys themselves to decide.

At least there is something there to see instead of a blank profile because the fact is guys would still make contact whether there are photos or not. so if a guy messages a chick who has average or curvy on her profile but meets her and she's a size 20 that's ok?

I think not surly if there are photos in their private gallery and the guy is happy to meet then that's upto them?

No one holds a gun to these guys heads and says you better meet me or else.

Again its amazing why so many people get their knickers in a twist over other peoples profiles on here.

If your not interested in meeting them why should it bother you so much is beyond me no knickers getting twisted ... Again open forum just saying how I see it

Or is it only BBW that can reply ?"
nope not at all forums are open to all but I dont worry about what someone has on their profile if I'm no intrested in meeting them I'd have no need to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a personal thing

Myself n hubby were to meet a cpl with the chick saying she was average

After a very brief meeting in a pub lets just say she .. Erm wasn't

Her pics were of her face and shoulders that's why we insisted on the pub meet now imagine a single bloke turning up at a chicks door thinking he's meeting someone he's not ?

I couldn't give A toss about other folk profiles

Lies ... That's another story

Why can't folk ... Men and women just be honest about who they are ?

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By *1cebren4uWoman
over a year ago

clydebank


"It's a personal thing

Myself n hubby were to meet a cpl with the chick saying she was average

After a very brief meeting in a pub lets just say she .. Erm wasn't

Her pics were of her face and shoulders that's why we insisted on the pub meet now imagine a single bloke turning up at a chicks door thinking he's meeting someone he's not ?

I couldn't give A toss about other folk profiles

Lies ... That's another story

Why can't folk ... Men and women just be honest about who they are ?"

offs Aud plz may I have that shag now ive just lost two stone lol xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Society say im fat but when I look in the mirror i say im just a big girl also but lets be honest real men love curves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ohh dear God did the OP know what sort of potential shit storm they were brewing up with this thread.

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By *ILLY aka SirslagWoman
over a year ago

Land of the Prince Bishops


"I reckon this one will be a 2 bags of popcorn thread. "
or even 3 ( plain not sweet or buttered popcorn)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Society say im fat but when I look in the mirror i say im just a big girl also but lets be honest real men love curves "

Well said,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a personal thing

Myself n hubby were to meet a cpl with the chick saying she was average

After a very brief meeting in a pub lets just say she .. Erm wasn't

Her pics were of her face and shoulders that's why we insisted on the pub meet now imagine a single bloke turning up at a chicks door thinking he's meeting someone he's not ?

I couldn't give A toss about other folk profiles

Lies ... That's another story

Why can't folk ... Men and women just be honest about who they are ?

offs Aud plz may I have that shag now ive just lost two stone lol xxx

"
lol brennie well done you xxx

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

real men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fat.

Bbw is merely a get out clause for being fat.

How can one be classed as obese but beautiful in the same token.

Get over it.

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland


"Fat.

Bbw is merely a get out clause for being fat.

How can one be classed as obese but beautiful in the same token.

Get over it.

"

You do realise your name will be mud and you may cause war haha

Pop corn all around me finks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fat.

Bbw is merely a get out clause for being fat.

How can one be classed as obese but beautiful in the same token.

Get over it.

"
i disagree you can still be beautiful but be overweight a lot of + size models are gorgeous !

Just don't hide the fact your + size

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fat.

Bbw is merely a get out clause for being fat.

How can one be classed as obese but beautiful in the same token.

Get over it.

"

Well as I've already said...I'm fat...but I'm still a beautiful person...why can't you be both??

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland


"Fat.

Bbw is merely a get out clause for being fat.

How can one be classed as obese but beautiful in the same token.

Get over it.

i disagree you can still be beautiful but be overweight a lot of + size models are gorgeous !

Just don't hide the fact your + size

X"

Agreed

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Omg how on earth can't you be big and beautiful at the same time!!

Jesus some of the plus size models out there would certainly give the slimmer model a run for her money

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok here my tuppence worth which I don't suppose anyone will take one bit of notice.

Some of my best friends on fab are women who are plus sizes.

They are all beautiful ladies and have great personalitys.

I never once thought of any of them as being "Fat".

Just lucky to be in there company.

Xxxx you know who you are xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Omg how on earth can't you be big and beautiful at the same time!!

Jesus some of the plus size models out there would certainly give the slimmer model a run for her money "

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"real men "
pmsl quiet you your a fake man apparently

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"real men pmsl quiet you your a fake man apparently "

really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"real men pmsl quiet you your a fake man apparently "
nope he's defo all man ...

I used to watch this legend on cam !!!

Auds xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ffs does it matter? Fat, thin or average its a personality that makes a person not their looks/size/height/colour!!

Rant over

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By *earhugs1Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow

I consider myself fat. Not sure about the BBW label. Sure I'm big and a woman. But beautiful? My man thinks so. But then he loves me! Anyone else's opinion is up to them and is not something I worry about. Guess I think I'm a fat, average woman. A FAW. Lol x

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Come on girls join in and sing lol

Big girl, you are beautiful

Walks in to the room

Feels like a big balloon

I said, "Hey girls, you are beautiful"

Diet Coke and a pizza please

Diet Coke, I'm on my knees

Screaming, "Big girl, you are beautiful"

You take your skinny girl

I feel like I'm gonna die

'Cause a real woman

Needs a real man, here's why

You take your girl

And multiply her by four

Now a whole lot of woman

Needs a whole lot more

Get yourself to the butterfly lounge

Find yourself a big lady

Big boy, come on around

And they'll be calling you baby

No need to fantasize

Since I was in my braces

A watering hole with the girls around

And curves in all the right places

Big girls, you are beautiful

Big girls, you are beautiful

Big girls, you are beautiful

Big girls, you are beautiful

Walks in to the room

Feels like a big balloon

I said, "Hey girls, you are beautiful"

Diet Coke and a pizza please

Diet Coke, I'm on my knees

Screaming, "Big girl, you are beautiful"

You take your girl

And multiply her by four

Now a whole lot of woman

Needs a whole lot more

Get yourself to the butterfly lounge

Find yourself a big lady

Big boy, come on around

And they'll be calling you baby

No need to fantasize

Since I was in my braces

A watering hole with the girls around

And curves in all the right places

Big girls, you are beautiful

Big girls, you are beautiful

Big girls, you are beautiful

Big girls, you are beautiful

Get yourself to the butterfly lounge

Find yourself a big lady

Big boy, come on around

And they'll be calling you baby

No need to fantasize

Since I was in my braces

A watering hole with the girls around

And curves in all the right places

Big girls, you are beautiful

Big girls, you are beautiful

Big girls, you are beautiful

Big girls, you are beautiful

Oh, you are beautiful

Get yourself to the butterfly lounge

Find yourself a big lady

Big boy, come on around

And they'll be calling you baby

No need to fantasize

Since I was in my braces

A watering hole with the girls around

And curves in all the right places

Big girls, you are beautiful

Big girls, you are beautiful

Big girls, you are beautiful

Big girls, you are beautiful

Oh, you are beautiful

Get yourself to the butterfly lounge

Find yourself a big lady

Big boy, come on around

And they'll be calling you baby

No need to fantasize

Since I was in my braces

A watering hole with the girls around

And curves in all the right places

Big girl, you are beautiful

Big girl, you are beautiful

Big girl, you are beautiful

Big girl, you are beautiful

Big girl, you are beautiful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh jacs you now have that song in my head x

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Oh jacs you now have that song in my head x "
great song huh !!

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Dont forget folks the BBW night is on Friday the 12th sept for anyone whos maybe interested in this just drop me a wee email or mail me on this forum

http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/scotland/266865

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dont forget folks the BBW night is on Friday the 12th sept for anyone whos maybe interested in this just drop me a wee email or mail me on this forum

http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/scotland/266865 "

Those who haven't booked your space what are you waiting for always a fantastic night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fat.

Bbw is merely a get out clause for being fat.

How can one be classed as obese but beautiful in the same token.

Get over it.

"
ok does that mean that skinny is merely a get out clause for someone who is anorexic?can they still be beautiful?

get over THAT!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fat.

Bbw is merely a get out clause for being fat.

How can one be classed as obese but beautiful in the same token.

Get over it.

ok does that mean that skinny is merely a get out clause for someone who is anorexic?can they still be beautiful?

get over THAT!!!!!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why does this topic make everyone so defensive?

It's a topic the same as what did you have for your dinner last night .

There's no name calling or abuse

It's seeing everyone's take on a subject ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've thought about this a lot over the last day..its a very emotive subject. I have no difficulty with the "f" word....i know I'm fat. Whether im beautiful or not is not for me to decide. It is indeed in the eye of the beholder.

What I do know...is that during my time on fab I have been in the position of being deliberately hurt and humiliated for being fat...to the point where someone who was on my block list actually created a profile just to be able to make sure that I knew the fact....then deleted the profile.

Interestingly...for almost 20 years I worked with children and during that time I was described as.."the lady with the glasses, the lady who always smells like perfume, the lady with the dangly earrings, the singing lady, the bead lady....amongst a host of others. Not once was I called the fat lady...although that I most certainly was.

The offspring of an anorexic mother, food has, and I guess always will be an issue for me whether I manage to conquer my weight or not. It truly couldn't matter less to me whatever label people wish to use. A beautiful personality is indeed more important. Thats what people remember....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fat.

Bbw is merely a get out clause for being fat.

How can one be classed as obese but beautiful in the same token.

Get over it.

"

Just as you are entitled to your _iew surely I am entitled to mine which I am delighted to say is nowhere near as derogatory, condescending or flagrantly abusive.

True beauty isn't measured in kilos and it's my decision who I find beautiful, not the slavish adherence to the stupid body image culture prevalent these days.

By your mores Sophia Loren and Marilyn Monroe needed to "get over it" rather than basking in the adulation they got as beautiful women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well said

It's such a touchy subject

If it's causing bulling then that's wrong but if your a larger lady there's no hiding the fact as much as some try

Its who you are

Like it or lump it x

And in all my yrs on fab I know it didn't stop anyone having fun x

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

I was one who got defensive and I think I was right to do so.

its bad enough being told to go get a gastric band but then to be told someone cant be beautiful because they happen to be carrying a few extra lbs /stones is just ridiculess .

It leaves me to ask the question if this was a playground and a kid was being picked on and bullied because of their size would these same adults walk up to that kid and tell them to grow a think skin and get over it ? ...i dont think so.

I was brought up with manners and to treat people with respect and thats what ive always tried to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We arnt in the playground tho

If someone was an arsehole and said that to you then report as that is bulling

But it's an open forum and surely we as adults can have a conversation about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why does this topic make everyone so defensive?

It's a topic the same as what did you have for your dinner last night .

There's no name calling or abuse

It's seeing everyone's take on a subject ? "

Like I said earlier, who gives a f**k?? I take folk at face value regardless of appearance. Let's face its once a bitch always a bitch no matter how big or small you are!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thing is,as they say beauty is in the eye if the beholder and what ine person finds attractive isnt always the same for someone else

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"We arnt in the playground tho

If someone was an arsehole and said that to you then report as that is bulling

But it's an open forum and surely we as adults can have a conversation about it

"
Yes i totally agree healthy discussing is always good its when the personal digs start then thats a totally different matter and there are many on these forums who have been bullied before over their weight i always report and im not scared to do so when its needed .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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over a year ago


"Why does this topic make everyone so defensive?

It's a topic the same as what did you have for your dinner last night .

There's no name calling or abuse

It's seeing everyone's take on a subject ?

Like I said earlier, who gives a f**k?? I take folk at face value regardless of appearance. Let's face its once a bitch always a bitch no matter how big or small you are!? "
for a minute there I thought I was getting called a bitch???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fat.

Bbw is merely a get out clause for being fat.

How can one be classed as obese but beautiful in the same token.

Get over it.

ok does that mean that skinny is merely a get out clause for someone who is anorexic?can they still be beautiful?

get over THAT!!!!!"

I can see what you trying to do with the comparison and I like all shapes & sizes but in fairness Anorexia is a diagnosed eating disorder. And most (granted not all) of the people who suffer from Anorexia suffer from very low self esteem & body image, so they would be the very last group of people (male & female) to class themselves using an acronym with "beautiful" in it such as BBW. I may be wrong but a lot of the females classing themselves as BBW appear to be happy & like the way they look.

As long as your pics are an honest representations of you no one should have an issue with anyone else's shape, size or what you class yourself as.

It takes all sorts & everyone can have their preferences but go easy on the slim & skinny body shapes, some of them might just have feelings too.

X

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"real men pmsl quiet you your a fake man apparently

really "
my point is any man who dosnt like a "curvy girl" is fake by your but hey thats fine this comment was said in jest but as is often the case will leave it well alone now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We arnt in the playground tho

If someone was an arsehole and said that to you then report as that is bulling

But it's an open forum and surely we as adults can have a conversation about it

Yes i totally agree healthy discussing is always good its when the personal digs start then thats a totally different matter and there are many on these forums who have been bullied before over their weight i always report and im not scared to do so when its needed ."
as I said befit I have no time for bully's especially here in the forums but iv not saw any personal digs on this post

Well apart from the bitch post in which I hope I'm wrong

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Fat.

Bbw is merely a get out clause for being fat.

How can one be classed as obese but beautiful in the same token.

Get over it.

ok does that mean that skinny is merely a get out clause for someone who is anorexic?can they still be beautiful?

get over THAT!!!!!

I can see what you trying to do with the comparison and I like all shapes & sizes but in fairness Anorexia is a diagnosed eating disorder. And most (granted not all) of the people who suffer from Anorexia suffer from very low self esteem & body image, so they would be the very last group of people (male & female) to class themselves using an acronym with "beautiful" in it such as BBW. I may be wrong but a lot of the females classing themselves as BBW appear to be happy & like the way they look.

As long as your pics are an honest representations of you no one should have an issue with anyone else's shape, size or what you class yourself as.

It takes all sorts & everyone can have their preferences but go easy on the slim & skinny body shapes, some of them might just have feelings too.

X"
Well said we all have feelings so why some are so intent to offend and hurt peoples feelings ive no idea.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"We arnt in the playground tho

If someone was an arsehole and said that to you then report as that is bulling

But it's an open forum and surely we as adults can have a conversation about it

Yes i totally agree healthy discussing is always good its when the personal digs start then thats a totally different matter and there are many on these forums who have been bullied before over their weight i always report and im not scared to do so when its needed .as I said befit I have no time for bully's especially here in the forums but iv not saw any personal digs on this post

Well apart from the bitch post in which I hope I'm wrong"
only the people having the personal digs and the person its aimed at know its personal auds just as im sure you know when something is being aimed personally at you .

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

But btw how you can say you dont notice personal digs on these forums il never know because for some its as clear as the nose on your face at times lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But btw how you can say you dont notice personal digs on these forums il never know because for some its as clear as the nose on your face at times lol "
i ment on this post

The forums now days is a cauldron of cliques and petty arguments

Iv said that for a while and you can tell by the way the regulars have all but stopped posting now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"real men pmsl quiet you your a fake man apparently

really my point is any man who dosnt like a "curvy girl" is fake by your but hey thats fine this comment was said in jest but as is often the case will leave it well alone now "

its a phrase that is used

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"But btw how you can say you dont notice personal digs on these forums il never know because for some its as clear as the nose on your face at times lol i ment on this post

The forums now days is a cauldron of cliques and petty arguments

Iv said that for a while and you can tell by the way the regulars have all but stopped posting now "
oh there is certainly one personal dig on this post i know of .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah .... Me getting called a bitch !

Lol lol

Oh il live lol lol

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over a year ago


"real men pmsl quiet you your a fake man apparently

really my point is any man who dosnt like a "curvy girl" is fake by your but hey thats fine this comment was said in jest but as is often the case will leave it well alone now "

Amazing how many hurtful, pointed comments are belatedly in jest in these forums

Just a jocular observation on my part

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why does this topic make everyone so defensive?

It's a topic the same as what did you have for your dinner last night .

There's no name calling or abuse

It's seeing everyone's take on a subject ?

Like I said earlier, who gives a f**k?? I take folk at face value regardless of appearance. Let's face its once a bitch always a bitch no matter how big or small you are!? for a minute there I thought I was getting called a bitch??? "

Nah if I was calling someone a bitch I'd do it in private as it would be on a personal matter & not needing discussed on a public forum!

I'm fat, end of! I'm apparently a nice person, treat people the way they deserve to be treated regardless of their size. If you don't like big girls then fair enough I'm a BIG girl in more ways than one & can deal with it.

I'd say the problem lies with the other person who looks at me & decides NO without actually speaking to me. Again their choice but I'd not being losing any sleep over it because. I do pretty well for fun/social on here & off fab.

So I've no time for judgemental people who won't give me a chance because of my size, they can just keep walking.

Hate these bitching posts honestly, everyone is entitled to their opinion yes but sometimes should put their brain into action before making statements as words can't be taken back once said...x

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow

I've got to admit, if I seen a post title that I thought was going to cause me upset for whatever reason I would probably just avoid it.

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"real men pmsl quiet you your a fake man apparently

really my point is any man who dosnt like a "curvy girl" is fake by your but hey thats fine this comment was said in jest but as is often the case will leave it well alone now

Amazing how many hurtful, pointed comments are belatedly in jest in these forums

Just a jocular observation on my part

"
just lol nothing else can be said to this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must be missing something as I honestly haven't seen any name calling or bitchy snides.

Obviously it's a touchy subject for most

But to me it's a interesting topic

Folk need to stop taking things too personal

I wear specs if there was a post about spec wearers I'd post to that too !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah .... Me getting called a bitch !

Lol lol

Oh il live lol lol "

No you weren't getting called a bitch! I don't need an audience when I have an issue with someone, that's between me & them. If I have a problem I'd do it in private... And I don't have one.

My point was regardless of size if your a bitch your a bitch.

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

specky four eyes...............am wearing my glasses to write this

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over a year ago


"I must be missing something as I honestly haven't seen any name calling or bitchy snides.

Obviously it's a touchy subject for most

But to me it's a interesting topic

Folk need to stop taking things too personal

I wear specs if there was a post about spec wearers I'd post to that too !"

Fuck I'm fat AND wear specs...I've nae chance really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"specky four eyes...............am wearing my glasses to write this "
lol lol kola wit?

Hoad on till I put mine on Sobi can see what you've wrote

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah .... Me getting called a bitch !

Lol lol

Oh il live lol lol

No you weren't getting called a bitch! I don't need an audience when I have an issue with someone, that's between me & them. If I have a problem I'd do it in private... And I don't have one.

My point was regardless of size if your a bitch your a bitch."
glad to gear it as iv not got my bitchy hat on tonight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I must be missing something as I honestly haven't seen any name calling or bitchy snides.

Obviously it's a touchy subject for most

But to me it's a interesting topic

Folk need to stop taking things too personal

I wear specs if there was a post about spec wearers I'd post to that too !

Fuck I'm fat AND wear specs...I've nae chance really "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah .... Me getting called a bitch !

Lol lol

Oh il live lol lol

No you weren't getting called a bitch! I don't need an audience when I have an issue with someone, that's between me & them. If I have a problem I'd do it in private... And I don't have one.

My point was regardless of size if your a bitch your a bitch."

I'd add gender to that as well LMN

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By *horstrollMan
over a year ago

Caprona


"I must be missing something as I honestly haven't seen any name calling or bitchy snides.

Obviously it's a touchy subject for most

But to me it's a interesting topic

Folk need to stop taking things too personal

I wear specs if there was a post about spec wearers I'd post to that too !

Fuck I'm fat AND wear specs...I've nae chance really "

Don't suppose your glasses steam of reading dear deidre

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah .... Me getting called a bitch !

Lol lol

Oh il live lol lol

No you weren't getting called a bitch! I don't need an audience when I have an issue with someone, that's between me & them. If I have a problem I'd do it in private... And I don't have one.

My point was regardless of size if your a bitch your a bitch.glad to gear it as iv not got my bitchy hat on tonight "

Or glad to hear it perhaps!? Lol.... Specs on Mrs..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I must be missing something as I honestly haven't seen any name calling or bitchy snides.

Obviously it's a touchy subject for most

But to me it's a interesting topic

Folk need to stop taking things too personal

I wear specs if there was a post about spec wearers I'd post to that too !

Fuck I'm fat AND wear specs...I've nae chance really "

Join the club KoK lmao

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland

I think too many spend too much time on fabs and in the forums .....perhaps take a step back and perhaps a break and come back refreshed.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fat.

Bbw is merely a get out clause for being fat.

How can one be classed as obese but beautiful in the same token.

Get over it.

ok does that mean that skinny is merely a get out clause for someone who is anorexic?can they still be beautiful?

get over THAT!!!!!

I can see what you trying to do with the comparison and I like all shapes & sizes but in fairness Anorexia is a diagnosed eating disorder. And most (granted not all) of the people who suffer from Anorexia suffer from very low self esteem & body image, so they would be the very last group of people (male & female) to class themselves using an acronym with "beautiful" in it such as BBW. I may be wrong but a lot of the females classing themselves as BBW appear to be happy & like the way they look.

As long as your pics are an honest representations of you no one should have an issue with anyone else's shape, size or what you class yourself as.

It takes all sorts & everyone can have their preferences but go easy on the slim & skinny body shapes, some of them might just have feelings too.

X"
please dont take offence as it most definately wasnt intended,and while i accept it is an earing disorder there are disorders(both physically and mentally),which cause people to be overweight but yes it was only done by way of making a comparison,apologies if i offended anyone

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow


"I think too many spend too much time on fabs and in the forums .....perhaps take a step back and perhaps a break and come back refreshed..... "

I'd agree with this and that's partially the point I was making about avoiding topics that you think you'll find upsetting. That can be difficult though if fab has become a big part of your life and you are on the forums every day. A site like this is for enjoyment and if it's causing grief in some way then it's just not worth it. Life's too short.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None taken

I don't post too often, just wanted to throw my tuppence worth in. Just think

Real life has far too many stresses, nastiness & worries to bring anything like that into fab land.

Isn't it meant to be all rainbows, togas & unicorns with people feeding you peeled grapes in here? Sure that's what it said on the leaflet!

D x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"None taken

I don't post too often, just wanted to throw my tuppence worth in. Just think

Real life has far too many stresses, nastiness & worries to bring anything like that into fab land.

Isn't it meant to be all rainbows, togas & unicorns with people feeding you peeled grapes in here? Sure that's what it said on the leaflet!

D x"
wish it was like that lol

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland


"I think too many spend too much time on fabs and in the forums .....perhaps take a step back and perhaps a break and come back refreshed.....

I'd agree with this and that's partially the point I was making about avoiding topics that you think you'll find upsetting. That can be difficult though if fab has become a big part of your life and you are on the forums every day. A site like this is for enjoyment and if it's causing grief in some way then it's just not worth it. Life's too short."

Agreed a think fabs can consume people and people become too attached to the lifestyle/

Community/ forums/chat etc.....it's unhealthy ....when it's at the stage you are getting upset etc I think people need to take a step back and a break

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I use BBW in my profile name. Not because I particularly like it or identify with what it stands for but because if means that people know immediately that I will be a big/fat woman. I have clear pictures up to and so nobody is under any illusion. I have met some fantastic guys every time that I have been on this site, so just as with everything in life, there is something for all tastes. As long as those involved enjoy it then what does it matter? This really should simply be a platform for enjoyment, whatever that may mean to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"None taken

I don't post too often, just wanted to throw my tuppence worth in. Just think

Real life has far too many stresses, nastiness & worries to bring anything like that into fab land.

Isn't it meant to be all rainbows, togas & unicorns with people feeding you peeled grapes in here? Sure that's what it said on the leaflet!

D xwish it was like that lol "

Isn't it, am I in the wrong section and missing out on bitchiness somewhere?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The funny thing is

I always thought BBW was

Big breasted woman lol

Again iv no problem

God made folk in all shapes and sizes

Auds x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The funny thing is

I always thought BBW was

Big breasted woman lol

Again iv no problem

God made folk in all shapes and sizes

Auds x"

I'm that case I'm a bbw lol

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over a year ago


"The funny thing is

I always thought BBW was

Big breasted woman lol

Again iv no problem

God made folk in all shapes and sizes

Auds x"

And every one of them delightful in their own way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I must be missing something as I honestly haven't seen any name calling or bitchy snides.

Obviously it's a touchy subject for most

But to me it's a interesting topic

Folk need to stop taking things too personal

I wear specs if there was a post about spec wearers I'd post to that too !

Fuck I'm fat AND wear specs...I've nae chance really "

Snap,

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over a year ago


"I must be missing something as I honestly haven't seen any name calling or bitchy snides.

Obviously it's a touchy subject for most

But to me it's a interesting topic

Folk need to stop taking things too personal

I wear specs if there was a post about spec wearers I'd post to that too !

Fuck I'm fat AND wear specs...I've nae chance really

Snap, "
i love larger women and if they wear glasses thats a little kink i have,3sum you 2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fat.

Bbw is merely a get out clause for being fat.

How can one be classed as obese but beautiful in the same token.

Get over it.

ok does that mean that skinny is merely a get out clause for someone who is anorexic?can they still be beautiful?

get over THAT!!!!!

I can see what you trying to do with the comparison and I like all shapes & sizes but in fairness Anorexia is a diagnosed eating disorder. And most (granted not all) of the people who suffer from Anorexia suffer from very low self esteem & body image, so they would be the very last group of people (male & female) to class themselves using an acronym with "beautiful" in it such as BBW. I may be wrong but a lot of the females classing themselves as BBW appear to be happy & like the way they look.

As long as your pics are an honest representations of you no one should have an issue with anyone else's shape, size or what you class yourself as.

It takes all sorts & everyone can have their preferences but go easy on the slim & skinny body shapes, some of them might just have feelings too.

XWell said we all have feelings so why some are so intent to offend and hurt peoples feelings ive no idea. "

Laugh a minute!

The bitching that's been going on here !

Pfft!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fat.

Bbw is merely a get out clause for being fat.

How can one be classed as obese but beautiful in the same token.

Get over it.

"

Do you have a perfect body?

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Fat.

Bbw is merely a get out clause for being fat.

How can one be classed as obese but beautiful in the same token.

Get over it.

ok does that mean that skinny is merely a get out clause for someone who is anorexic?can they still be beautiful?

get over THAT!!!!!

I can see what you trying to do with the comparison and I like all shapes & sizes but in fairness Anorexia is a diagnosed eating disorder. And most (granted not all) of the people who suffer from Anorexia suffer from very low self esteem & body image, so they would be the very last group of people (male & female) to class themselves using an acronym with "beautiful" in it such as BBW. I may be wrong but a lot of the females classing themselves as BBW appear to be happy & like the way they look.

As long as your pics are an honest representations of you no one should have an issue with anyone else's shape, size or what you class yourself as.

It takes all sorts & everyone can have their preferences but go easy on the slim & skinny body shapes, some of them might just have feelings too.

XWell said we all have feelings so why some are so intent to offend and hurt peoples feelings ive no idea.

Laugh a minute!

The bitching that's been going on here !

Pfft!"
really? well if you feel my last quote here was bitch use your report button and let admin deal with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fat.

Bbw is merely a get out clause for being fat.

How can one be classed as obese but beautiful in the same token.

Get over it.

ok does that mean that skinny is merely a get out clause for someone who is anorexic?can they still be beautiful?

get over THAT!!!!!

I can see what you trying to do with the comparison and I like all shapes & sizes but in fairness Anorexia is a diagnosed eating disorder. And most (granted not all) of the people who suffer from Anorexia suffer from very low self esteem & body image, so they would be the very last group of people (male & female) to class themselves using an acronym with "beautiful" in it such as BBW. I may be wrong but a lot of the females classing themselves as BBW appear to be happy & like the way they look.

As long as your pics are an honest representations of you no one should have an issue with anyone else's shape, size or what you class yourself as.

It takes all sorts & everyone can have their preferences but go easy on the slim & skinny body shapes, some of them might just have feelings too.

XWell said we all have feelings so why some are so intent to offend and hurt peoples feelings ive no idea.

Laugh a minute!

The bitching that's been going on here !

Pfft!really? well if you feel my last quote here was bitch use your report button and let admin deal with it."

No thanks, I wouldn't waste time reporting anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fat.

Bbw is merely a get out clause for being fat.

How can one be classed as obese but beautiful in the same token.

Get over it.

Do you have a perfect body? "

I take it your not perfect when your not answering my question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never join in forums normally

but yeah bbw is just fat.

no further comment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never join in forums normally

but yeah bbw is just fat.

no further comment"

really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never join in forums normally

but yeah bbw is just fat.

no further comment"

Never post, wonder why this appeared then, just couldn't help yourself?

Must be great bring perfect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone's entitilled to their oppinion

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