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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why are so many people on here so reluctant to take a chance and actually talk to someone??? I'm looking for fun, I'm a nice guy and I really would like someone to get in touch to see how it goes. I'm open to invites too

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

1. Your married

2. You can't accommodate

3. No public pictures

4. Your looking for sub....... And you've been here a week ! It's not instashag, did you really think you could just sign up and women would be throwing themselves at you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"1. Your married

2. You can't accommodate

3. No public pictures

4. Your looking for sub....... And you've been here a week ! It's not instashag, did you really think you could just sign up and women would be throwing themselves at you? "

All of the above ....plus...

5. If you mail people whose profiles clearly state you are not what they are looking for...they aren't going to want to chat...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lol easy tigers, I don't for a minute think I should be messaged immediately, I do state in my profile I understand that my being married isn't everyone's cup of tea and so be it. I also state white clearly that you, and anyone else has no right to judge me. We're all here for the same reason. If I'm not for you then cool. I don't as a rule message anyone who's not looking for single men or attached men etc. thanks for the comments though and good luck to you both

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Lol easy tigers, I don't for a minute think I should be messaged immediately, I do state in my profile I understand that my being married isn't everyone's cup of tea and so be it. I also state white clearly that you, and anyone else has no right to judge me. We're all here for the same reason. If I'm not for you then cool. I don't as a rule message anyone who's not looking for single men or attached men etc. thanks for the comments though and good luck to you both "
you ask not to be judged yet you judge people for not wanting to talk to you ? ...oh the irony

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm not judging anyone at all, merely asking if anyone wants to talk to be fair, if they don't it's all good. It's really not a big deal lol

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

welcome & good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not judging anyone at all, merely asking if anyone wants to talk to be fair, if they don't it's all good. It's really not a big deal lol "

pedro, you might have intended to ask people if they wanted to talk, but you actually asked why people dont want to talk to you.

Then when you received answers to that question you have responded in a manner which seems confrontational, not exactly going to create a good impression is it.

Maybe re-think your approach, and take some time to get to know the site and other users.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"I'm not judging anyone at all, merely asking if anyone wants to talk to be fair, if they don't it's all good. It's really not a big deal lol "
but in a way you were by asking why no one talks to you .

your only on the site a week so give it time .

using the forums is a good way to get yourself known around here so maybe keep chatting here and see what happens ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the kind advice

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

For the record folks currently posting on this and to this who are just joining in.....I do not have tickets on myself, I do not expect hoards of women to flood me with messages demanding my attentions......I may not have been clear initially....I would like to chat to women/straight male couple with the _iew to meeting for fun. I am well aware that I am not everyone's kind of thing, I accept this and respect that people have opinions, tastes and that they are not all the same. IF you fancy a chat, please feel free to get in touch and if you don't then cool, good luck to you either way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I don't as a rule message anyone who's not looking for single men or attached men etc. "

Really????

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow


" ....I may not have been clear initially....I would like to chat to women/straight male couple with the _iew to meeting for fun"

OP, you're new here, so could I suggest that you take a breath, pause, think, and listen.

If you're not careful, the atitude you're exhibiting here is liable to alienate the very people you're trying to attract.

You've been here just 7 days, which is no time at all. If after 7 months you've had no success then maybe your complaint could be justified.

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh


" I don't as a rule message anyone who's not looking for single men or attached men etc.

Really???? "

Were you the exception to the rule jints?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welcome to the forum OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I don't as a rule message anyone who's not looking for single men or attached men etc.

Really????

Were you the exception to the rule jints? "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks folks x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I wasn't aware I had an attitude and am sorry if I've managed to offend you in some way?? I certainly have no intention of alienating people, I think certain folk should just chill a bit in fairness.

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes


"I wasn't aware I had an attitude and am sorry if I've managed to offend you in some way?? I certainly have no intention of alienating people, I think certain folk should just chill a bit in fairness. "

Oh dear. Think that may not improve matters. Welcome to Fab and good luck.

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Pmsl here this ones hilarious

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland

What a welcome

Sadly you learned the hard way that people don't like this kinda approach so to speek.

Hint, have respect, gsoh, be patient and be honest, try a social event , maybe try cj,s and read profiles and see if fabs is for you

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow


"I wasn't aware I had an attitude and am sorry if I've managed to offend you in some way?? I certainly have no intention of alienating people, I think certain folk should just chill a bit in fairness. "

OP, if your post was in reply to my earlier one, then you haven't offended me. I was simply trying to be of assistance.

And I would agree, I think you should chill a bit.

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

Sorry you asked why and I replied with why I thought it was .... Sorry if it was t what you wanted to hear

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It's cool I'm not easily offended

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welcome to the forum and I hope this hasn't put you off posting again.

Don't take any of the comments to heart it seems to be standard practice for newbies. I have seen it time and time again and I certainly got it when I started posting.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'll stick with it don't worry. Thanks for the kind welcome. I certainly don't take it to heart

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's cool I'm not easily offended "

Me neither....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I don't mind letting someone else have the last word x

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By *erverts R usCouple
over a year ago

Stirling

Try stepping away from the keyboard and going to socials or something so people get to know the real you, then use fab to keep in touch. Ps welcome and yes some of us fabbers do bite but you learn to enjoy the agony!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I can handle the odd bite or two lol thanks for the welcome

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