FabSwingers.com forum: Derogatory

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've had a few messages today from random strangers saying hi slut/whore etc. I've blocked but it irks me that they think it's ok.

If a stranger said that to me in the street he would be needing a visit to a&e.

Why do some men think it is appropriate address women in such a derogatory manner?

I don't even like terms of endearment from strangers

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

I've no idea but it really bugs me too...

I always think if they say that in messages what are they gonna be like on a meet

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've no idea but it really bugs me too...

I always think if they say that in messages what are they gonna be like on a meet

I wonder that too.

First impressions last

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm guessing. That most. Are from daytrippers and chancers. Think that sometimes you have to wowork. Your way through. All the shite blocking. As you go and eventually. You will find some nice genuine. Peeps good luck

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By *rjandmrskCouple
over a year ago

West Dunbartonshire

They r pure bampotsthats how. Big men from behind a screen. Wouldnt say boo in real life cause they dont have the balls. Report. Block and move on. We get them too. Mrs K xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

There are so many lovely people and I block often lol

I just don't understand why some guys think it's ok and do they seriously think they will get a positive outcome... Or maybe it does work and I'm wrong??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably little lads, thinking its the dominant thing to do, they've joined a swinger site and then thing they're christian grey or something Pah!

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

I'm pretty sure there are some women out there who do like or don't mind it and that's fair enough but it's not for me

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By *lasgowkisserMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Yes. Sadly u get good ppl. And idiots who hide behind a screen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm pretty sure there are some women out there who do like or don't mind it and that's fair enough but it's not for me

Youd think if theyd never spoken to you before theyd be a bit more respectful in a first message regardless of wether or not you liked it.

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

"I'm pretty sure there are some women out there who do like or don't mind it and that's fair enough but it's not for me

Youd think if theyd never spoken to you before theyd be a bit more respectful in a first message regardless of wether or not you liked it."

I totally agree but it's not always the big brain they think with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately misogyny is alive and well on Fab

Guys like this quite obviously have issues with women and see them as "things" as opposed to human beings. You'll also find that the last time they were in close intimate proximity to a woman was when they were exiting their mothers birth canal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm pretty sure there are some women out there who do like or don't mind it and that's fair enough but it's not for me

Youd think if theyd never spoken to you before theyd be a bit more respectful in a first message regardless of wether or not you liked it."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did the OP report the individuals in question? I hope so as it's clowns like this that get the decent single guys on here such a terrible reputation!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Did the OP report the individuals in question? I hope so as it's clowns like this that get the decent single guys on here such a terrible reputation!"

It wasn't a torrent of abuse and these words are banded around the site regularly so I just blocked. I don't think anything would happen if I reported them anyway.

Don't get me wrong, my reply was very clear about what I though of their message but they don't care either.

There are so many decent people on here but there are the ones who make it a less enjoyable experience... I vote to taser their balls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guess we all see the site in a different way , would your show your tits to just anyone outwith fab? I For one wouldnt but feel its fine to put pics of them on profile for anyone to see , some wouldnt name call out with fab but feel it's fine to on here .

I have a female that feels its fine to be the most nasty bitch on here and slate name call tell tale etc so went along to a social to see how she would react when appproached face to face ......she never turned up.

My point some have bigger balls etc on here than in the real world rising to their pettyness often gets the reaction they want , I for one have learned by this and will be aquantied one day to let them feel how nasty it is.A thicker skin is defo needed on here

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm thick skinned enough... My point is that people should be more respectful to others.

I'm here to swing not to be verbally abused

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Did the OP report the individuals in question? I hope so as it's clowns like this that get the decent single guys on here such a terrible reputation!"
this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Did the OP report the individuals in question? I hope so as it's clowns like this that get the decent single guys on here such a terrible reputation!

It wasn't a torrent of abuse and these words are banded around the site regularly so I just blocked. I don't think anything would happen if I reported them anyway.

Don't get me wrong, my reply was very clear about what I though of their message but they don't care either.

There are so many decent people on here but there are the ones who make it a less enjoyable experience... I vote to taser their balls

I'm sure there are some guys on here who would enjoy 70,000 volts surging through their nuts though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

because they think that if you are on a swingers / sex site then you are a slut or a whore. Its sad really that some people have such a stupid mentality like that. It pisses people off and spoils things for the rest of us .... as a single man I know. Also there are some people who like to be called / treated that way but thats usually in a sub / dom relationship. Is it ok to do it as a first introduction .. no its not, but thats only my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Before messaging someone with these types of comment people really need to try and get to know the person a bit. I believe this turns some women on but, to be honest I've never been brave enough to check it out! As for affectionate names they bug the hell out of me. Son, hen, chick, mate, doll, darling! Fuck off I'm a person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm thick skinned enough... My point is that people should be more respectful to others.

I'm here to swing not to be verbally abused "

Soreeee, fancy meeting up?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm pretty sure there are some women out there who do like or don't mind it and that's fair enough but it's not for me

Youd think if theyd never spoken to you before theyd be a bit more respectful in a first message regardless of wether or not you liked it.

I totally agree but it's not always the big brain they think with

Or when you go to emssage someone and you get this:

"Sorry, you can't send private mail to this user

Why? You're outside the age range this user has chosen to receive contacts from"

Haha!

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland

I personally couldn't give a monkeys damn what people say and do....at the end if the day you block and move on....if they want to be fannys let them be fannys they won't go far.....if you don't like what they say well you ain't gonna shag them so use that button.....

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"I've had a few messages today from random strangers saying hi slut/whore etc. I've blocked but it irks me that they think it's ok.

If a stranger said that to me in the street he would be needing a visit to a&e.

Why do some men think it is appropriate address women in such a derogatory manner?

I don't even like terms of endearment from strangers

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I wouldnt give it a 2nd thought so used to it on here now I simply block and leave them to it X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Laugh

Delete message

Block the eejits

Move on to nicer people

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Oh they are well blocked but it just amazes me that they think it's acceptable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh they are well blocked but it just amazes me that they think it's acceptable "

Some of them think wen we ask then to use their imagination/effort into a message that this is wot we mean... Wrong lol. Keep trying boys but until then we will play with the men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can never understand this totally agree a basic level if respect and manners seems to go a miss sometimes on here as rightly said it wouldn't be tolerated in person and of course shouldn't be tolerated in here. I can only assume these people feel.it marks them out from the crowd which clearly it does just not for the right reasons! Am sure the lack.if responses must eventually be a clue tho?

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

Because to some fellas, seeing a single lady on here means she is easy, and will obviously shag anything, anywhere, anyhow.

I'm with you on the names tho - either use my username or my name is on my profile, anything else is lazy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

get a bit upset at the single guys who send a nice polite message but then when you say no politely they then message back being totally disgusting and abusive.

I was the best thing since sliced bread when they wanted to indulge in my inside leg then I'm an arsehole after I say no. Block button is well used.

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Amazing how the post is picked up az single males lol seen just as many if not more abusive msgs from cpl pros

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