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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Have met someone from a diffrent site(non swinger) and i really like her see claims to like me aswell but any time i try and get close she seems to pull away from physical contact what should i do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She could have commitment issues, maybe doesnt know whether your fully wanting fun or wanting more ether that or your good in the sack she wants to keep you going back for more best way you will know is by being honest and asking her what the next step

Is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont push too fast may have had a bad experience in the past

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Havent slept with her yet and have spoke about what im looking for with her but just getting frustrated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Actually the same advice as id give on here

Patience and communication

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If she won't open up to you, end it. Personally I can't be bothered with people that hold things in. If they're doing it now, it'll only get worse.

Find another lassie, there's plenty of them that'll catch your eye.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for all your advice

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Have met someone from a diffrent site(non swinger) and i really like her see claims to like me aswell but any time i try and get close she seems to pull away from physical contact what should i do"
How long is the relationship?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

1 month

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"1 month"
fairly earlie then no time at all actually.

Maybe she's sussing you out before taking things any further.

Does she know about your activities on here?

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No she doesnt know about here yet but im not talking about sex wise even just leaning in to give her a kiss you can feel her tense up and pull back

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"No she doesnt know about here yet but im not talking about sex wise even just leaning in to give her a kiss you can feel her tense up and pull back"
maybe you need to ask her exactly what she's looking for.

Perhaps she likes you but just as a friend?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Dont think i can just be a friend with her

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Dont think i can just be a friend with her"
well u need to ask her exactly what it is she wants.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Dont think i can just be a friend with her"
well u need to ask her exactly what it is she wants.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well after a chat now decided she doesnt want a relationship so time to look else where

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By *ackiekenny twoMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Sounds like myself mate just ask where you stand thats what i done mabe not the right way to go about things but least you know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No she doesnt know about here yet but im not talking about sex wise even just leaning in to give her a kiss you can feel her tense up and pull back"

Do you have halitosis?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It may well be the case that she has been through a bad experience. Possibly she just wants to be friends, only way to know is be honest n ask. If she has been thru the mill then treat her like a princess n show her that not all guys are the same. Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It may well be the case that she has been through a bad experience. Possibly she just wants to be friends, only way to know is be honest n ask. If she has been thru the mill then treat her like a princess n show her that not all guys are the same. Good luck. "

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By *usky Couple01Couple
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

U have to ask her what she want form this with u a friendship or relationship but don't go Jumping in with two feet just talk about things slowly good thing come to those who wait

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well after a chat now decided she doesnt want a relationship so time to look else where"

Good luck. Plenty more fish in the sea.

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