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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If you're low on confidence and self esteem and really shy. Would you join a swingers site where you have pictures of your body on display? Or have I been had?

Thoughts and opinions welcome.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did lol it helped me.to become alot less shy and become a bit more confident

Lx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was very self conscious about my body and looks ( still am to be ho nest) I did think some people could see past what I saw as ugly and met me for my personality and my blow jobs of course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was very self conscious about my body and looks ( still am to be ho nest) I did think some people could see past what I saw as ugly and met me for my personality and my blow jobs of course "

Wish i was a guy to receive one from ya haha

Lx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot use the low self esteem and little confidence card when things dont go their way, loads lack it though loads use it to get an ego boost.I have a confidence issue with a certain part of my body and choose not to show pics of it for this reason, for folk to say they have low body confidence then plaster pics I just dont get it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never used to put so many up of myself cause I'm not 100% happy with my body and I sometimes do get a little awkward about it but being on here has given me a lot more confidence.

I think when people say they're shy, it's just an anxiety thing. I can get quite shy meeting new folk, yes even if they have seen my 'bits' but it's just the way I am, I soon come out my shell though..

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


" If you're low on confidence and self esteem and really shy. Would you join a swingers site where you have pictures of your body on display? Or have I been had?

Thoughts and opinions welcome."
Im a very very confidant person.

I have an issue with my tummy after surgery two years ago, guys dont seem to find it as much of a problem as i do and when im on a meet i always try and keep it coverd up .

I decided last year to put a photo on my profile which very clearly shows my scar

and at that time it was more to see if anyone would say anything about it which has never happened,in a way it was a test to myself to see if people were as grossed out about my scar than i am and i think its been proved to me that they arnt, so in effect that has given me some more confidence and stopped me from stressing out so much about it but i still to this day keep it covered on meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im very low in self esteem & very little confidence but when people complement me its makes me feel great

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland

I used to have lots of confidence and loads of pics..... But had surgery last year and although I don't regret the surgery I have lost my confidence and it's put me of playing ......which means no pics also......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had surgery last year and have been left with a big tummy scar....couldn't care less

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im very low in self esteem & very little confidence but when people complement me its makes me feel great "
this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had surgery last year and have been left with a big tummy scar....couldn't care less "
this also

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Not shy...plenty of confidence and certainly dont have low self esteem

But you will never see pics of me showing all my bits on here or any other site!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Confidence in most people is a fragile and variable thing and as we can see from most posts in this thread affects a variety of bright, intelligent and seemingly confident people in many ways

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By *issyForDommeTV/TS
over a year ago

glasgow

I could guess that i know the status update from that jbob is talking about, i could also guess that she'd not appreciate a topic being made out of it...but at least if she did see it then there are some positive comments from women for her to take heart in.

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

Big difference between confident in your body when meeting and when behind a camera lens!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suffer badly. From. Low confidence as some of the peeps on this thread will verify. I'm a really. Shy person but I find this site helps me

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By *amaraBeaverbankWoman
over a year ago

Benidorm Spain


"Im very low in self esteem & very little confidence but when people complement me its makes me feel great "

I am exactly the same. Only I personalise a lot. Slowly getting on top of that though. Good luck lovey.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a fairly confident person now but it hasn't always been the case . Being on fab baa definitely given me the added extra confidence that I at one point wasn't 100% I had . I am who I am and my scars and stretch marks are evidence that I've lived and I look at it as a map of where and what my body body has been though.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


" my scars and stretch marks are evidence that I've lived and I look at it as a map of where and what my body body has been though. "
I thought the same shelly that my scar is a reminder of what I went through at that time but I still hate it and altho I know it doesn't look anything like it did back then that mental image is still with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just a thought.

Isn't the lack of confidence being displayed down to the completely ridiculous and impossible body image pressure created by society and the media with stick insects as role models and airbrushed photography all designed to fulfil an impossible and downright stupid "norm"

I too have rather horrendous scarring under my shirt but as an old bloke the "body beautiful" aspiration has long since gone though I understand young men today undergo similar pressure in the looks area to young women.

Lets all agree that we've been led down a garden path and rebel against it

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