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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Morning Everyone,

I'm looking for some constructive feedback as to how I can improve my profile to make it more appealing to the ladies out there. You views on this matter would be appreciated.

Thanks

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By *othingButCocoChanelWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Lack of public pics

And not sending until u decide

Your choice obviously but me personally this would get an instant delete

If i have 20 msgs, and 10 have sent a picture so i can see if theres an initial attraction they are the ones more likely to get a reply, dont have time for numerous messages only to be sent a pic and they arent my type

So defo no reply from me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for your honesty. I will def make some changes/improvements x

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By *othingButCocoChanelWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Thanks for your honesty. I will def make some changes/improvements x"

Its your choice to continue with how u do things, just saying for me personally it would be a defo no reply from me

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Take the (boring bit) out of the profile....it means squat!!!

Not many will chat to you without seeing your face first...but thats your choice....

Get some pics up....not just of your cock!

I personally am not interested in men who feel the need to mention they wear a uniform....but some women love that shit...so...

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've made some changes already (hope you approve), and will take more pictures soon to add to my general pics x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the feedback...I'll give it some thought. Due to the nature of my job I can't put face pics in the public album, but will happy swap once I know the person is genuine.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

have to agree with foe the professional uniform mentioned on your profile is not important really.

Also your mention of rescuing females from sexual boredom? really!! lol.

Cock picks are ok as some like to see a cock pick but a nice mix of maybe a torso,cock, face oh and maybe slip one in of you in a suit I think would go down really well

As for the legal bit it means bugger all so I'd remove it.

Good luck

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Pics*

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

what cba, foe and Jacs said!!

a seductive torso pic, unbuttoned/unzipped jeans, teasing shot that leaves the imagination wondering what else is to be revealed...

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

I have to agree with what everyone else has said

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thankyou ladies. I will make the changes you recommended shortly. I will also take new pics to include what you requested x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have to agree with what everyone else has said "

I have to agree with Cutie...who agrees with everyone else too....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Take the (boring bit) out of the profile....it means squat!!!

Not many will chat to you without seeing your face first...but thats your choice....

Get some pics up....not just of your cock!

I personally am not interested in men who feel the need to mention they wear a uniform....but some women love that shit...so...

Good luck "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just my opinion but your current status "Come here sugar, cause daddy has a sweet tooth tonight LOL" would def not attract us but then again if you amend your profile to suit every opinion on here which is what you seem to be doing it'll be everyone else's profile and not yours.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Exactly sameroomcouple. At the end of the day its impossible to have a profile that appeals to every female. What works for one might not work for another. I'm just trying to fine tune my profile so that it appeals to as many women as possible (hopefully)

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Exactly sameroomcouple. At the end of the day its impossible to have a profile that appeals to every female. What works for one might not work for another. I'm just trying to fine tune my profile so that it appeals to as many women as possible (hopefully)"
Are you going to change your profile or leave it as it is?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've taken on board what people have said and will make changes I agree with ASAP. But I'm not going to change it completely as then it would stop being my profile and become someone elses. Will daft a friend to help me with the new pics x

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"I've taken on board what people have said and will make changes I agree with ASAP. But I'm not going to change it completely as then it would stop being my profile and become someone elses. Will daft a friend toli help me with the new pics x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've taken on board what people have said and will make changes I agree with ASAP. But I'm not going to change it completely as then it would stop being my profile and become someone elses. Will daft a friend to help me with the new pics x"

Nope take your own pics lol x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

LOL what makes you think I was talking about you xxx OK maybe I was xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"LOL what makes you think I was talking about you xxx OK maybe I was xxx"

. Because I know lol . Haha xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why not just write his profile for him FFS.

His profile is supposed to reflect him and what he wants in a person/meet. Not what you all want.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Why not just write his profile for him FFS.

His profile is supposed to reflect him and what he wants in a person/meet. Not what you all want. "
The Op asked for constructive feedback as to how he could improve his profile to make it more appealing, as a female who knows what she likes I gave some advice as did many others I dont think I read anywhere what the Op should actually do with his profile the choice is upto him how much of the info he received and what he chooses to do with it.

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"Why not just write his profile for him FFS.

His profile is supposed to reflect him and what he wants in a person/meet. Not what you all want. "
been saying thos for ages madness

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You know me too well lil miss. Exactly i'll decide what changes to make sure enough based on all the constructive feedback I got

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"You know me too well lil miss. Exactly i'll decide what changes to make sure enough based on all the constructive feedback I got"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You know me too well lil miss. Exactly i'll decide what changes to make sure enough based on all the constructive feedback I got"

The 'daft friend' kinda said it all lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why not just write his profile for him FFS.

His profile is supposed to reflect him and what he wants in a person/meet. Not what you all want. The Op asked for constructive feedback as to how he could improve his profile to make it more appealing, as a female who knows what she likes I gave some advice as did many others I dont think I read anywhere what the Op should actually do with his profile the choice is upto him how much of the info he received and what he chooses to do with it. "

Yes, so you've told him what does and doesn't appeal to you personally so he's kept the things that do and lost the things that don't. The profile will now be a shell of it's former self, generic in it's attempt to appeal to absolutely anything with a XX chromazone and not reflect him at all. Good or bad.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Why not just write his profile for him FFS.

His profile is supposed to reflect him and what he wants in a person/meet. Not what you all want. The Op asked for constructive feedback as to how he could improve his profile to make it more appealing, as a female who knows what she likes I gave some advice as did many others I dont think I read anywhere what the Op should actually do with his profile the choice is upto him how much of the info he received and what he chooses to do with it.

Yes, so you've told him what does and doesn't appeal to you personally so he's kept the things that do and lost the things that don't. The profile will now be a shell of it's former self, generic in it's attempt to appeal to absolutely anything with a XX chromazone and not reflect him at all. Good or bad. "
Yes and what part of my personal choices im sure he will decide for himself what he wishes to use from that if any,

As the Op has already said hes thanked people for their input and will decide for HIMSELF how to change HIS profile to suit himself .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know this gorgeous guy, good friend of mine. Think he was just looking for a bit of friendly advice on how to improve his profile. Believe me he will make the changes to suit himself but will take note of the general photo advice etc xx

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"I know this gorgeous guy, good friend of mine. Think he was just looking for a bit of friendly advice on how to improve his profile. Believe me he will make the changes to suit himself but will take note of the general photo advice etc xx "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile is yours , to ask and listen to others is going to change you into what they want you to be .Be yourself use your imagination and think for yourself(something to many ask and fall into on here) we are all unique in our own ways !Be who you are for you , not for who others want you to be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why not just write his profile for him FFS.

His profile is supposed to reflect him and what he wants in a person/meet. Not what you all want. The Op asked for constructive feedback as to how he could improve his profile to make it more appealing, as a female who knows what she likes I gave some advice as did many others I dont think I read anywhere what the Op should actually do with his profile the choice is upto him how much of the info he received and what he chooses to do with it.

Yes, so you've told him what does and doesn't appeal to you personally so he's kept the things that do and lost the things that don't. The profile will now be a shell of it's former self, generic in it's attempt to appeal to absolutely anything with a XX chromazone and not reflect him at all. Good or bad. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why not just write his profile for him FFS.

His profile is supposed to reflect him and what he wants in a person/meet. Not what you all want. The Op asked for constructive feedback as to how he could improve his profile to make it more appealing, as a female who knows what she likes I gave some advice as did many others I dont think I read anywhere what the Op should actually do with his profile the choice is upto him how much of the info he received and what he chooses to do with it.

Yes, so you've told him what does and doesn't appeal to you personally so he's kept the things that do and lost the things that don't. The profile will now be a shell of it's former self, generic in it's attempt to appeal to absolutely anything with a XX chromazone and not reflect him at all. Good or bad. "

Or he'll mail the females that have constructive comments and be on here moaning when he gets knocked backed

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Wow what a passionate debate this turned out to be. I really appreciate everyones thoughts on this matter. I didn't expect to get as many replies when I first posted my question But glad I did. Have to do some soul searching now. I will update my profile when I'm sure what changes I want to make and have new pictures to add. Watch this space x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

In an attempt to keep this thought prevoking debate going a little longer, answer me this. Is it truely possible to put on paper or in an internet profile what makes you you? Can the human soul/personality really be summed up in a few sentences? Aren't we complex creatures, billions of us around the world but not another one like us...We are all unique in our own right xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No its not really possible to do all that.

However, it is possible to make your own individual shop front. Where you sell yourself to the people you hope to meet. (Not in a prostitute kind of way!)

Instead of asking the ladies on here for their opinions go through the site and look at some of the male profiles on here that seem to be successful and compare it to your profile. How does their shop front compare to yours?

The one bit of advice I'll give as it's generic, lose the privacy disclaimer. Its is utterly utterly pointless.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So I think we are all in agreement that a wee box on a profile will not do your charm justice. But the more charming you come across the better right?

All feedback in my profile is much appreciated x

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"So I think we are all in agreement that a wee box on a profile will not do your charm justice. But the more charming you come across the better right?

All feedback in my profile is much appreciated x"
just be yourself if your asking what's appealing to women then we will give you our opinions but not for one second do we expect anyone to change a whole profile just because women have asked for certain things.

We can all say what we find appealing on a profile, I to see guys in suits but I certainly don't expect them to run of and do a pic just because I've said it's what I like,but if they did I'd definitely be giving it a fab lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Suited most days jacs x

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Suited most days jacs x"
I know Mmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely it's relatively simple.

Be yourself and the way you are, creating a profile designed to attract people but which doesn't reflect you will end in tears as in the end nobody will get what they want out of it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So much food for thought....

Lets be honest women have so many different tastes/desires that its impossible for all of them to be fulfilled in the one place. You just need to look at how many different department stores there are that cater for womens fashions, etc that varie in popularity LOL. I think I've learned from this little excercise that I should just be myself but offer more varied pics and details of myself so that the ladies can make an imformed decision. Thanks again everyone for your input.

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland

Your profile proves first point of contact but your attitude etc is what gets you meets.... It's all about attitude, personality , outlook and respect. It's all about you not other people so put your stamp on it

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