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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Was having a discussion with our resident virgin and angel(no not shelley,the other one lol),if your having an argument/discussion with someone,and one of you offers a comprimise,is that seen as the first step to backing down?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes of course that's you backing down & giving in 1st. Simple!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes of course that's you backing down & giving in 1st. Simple!!! "
bollocks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So long as you offer a compromise for them too then it's not. And it depends if you are just being stubborn for the sake of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes of course that's you backing down & giving in 1st. Simple!!! bollocks "

Bollocks will be booted

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So long as you offer a compromise for them too then it's not. And it depends if you are just being stubborn for the sake of it."
thank you lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You offered a solution because you knew you'd never win... You gave in 1st. End of.

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By *cottish_guy12Man
over a year ago

Scotland

Depends if it's a argument or discussion with a woman then its backing down as we all know women are never wrong

But if its with another man then its fine, its a sign of fair play. Haha

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By *awk3y3Man
over a year ago

West Lothian

Depends on the compromise, if it's a substantial compromise on both sides, it's a draw, if it's a substantial compromise on one side and not the other, winner is determined by who has compromised least, double points if the compromise is to such a degree you end up with more than you were arguing for....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Depends on the compromise, if it's a substantial compromise on both sides, it's a draw, if it's a substantial compromise on one side and not the other, winner is determined by who has compromised least, double points if the compromise is to such a degree you end up with more than you were arguing for.... "
if it was something both parties agreed on it wouldnt be backing down would it?

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By *awk3y3Man
over a year ago

West Lothian


"...if it was something both parties agreed on it wouldnt be backing down would it?"

To me that's a draw a mutually beneficial agreement

Just my tuppence worth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd never back down lol, you decided to back out so I win.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women don't back down men do they k ow who's boss and take it like a bitch...... Fact cause you all know we're right and they are wrong shingles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women don't back down men do they k ow who's boss and take it like a bitch...... Fact cause you all know we're right and they are wrong shingles "

Well said chick!xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends if it's a argument or discussion with a woman then its backing down as we all know women are never wrong

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Exactly . A well educated man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was having a discussion with our resident virgin and angel(no not shelley,the other one lol),if your having an argument/discussion with someone,and one of you offers a comprimise,is that seen as the first step to backing down? "

I'm an angel in disguise and no you don't offer a compromise if you believe you're right . Offer and you lose lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was having a discussion with our resident virgin and angel(no not shelley,the other one lol),if your having an argument/discussion with someone,and one of you offers a comprimise,is that seen as the first step to backing down?

I'm an angel in disguise and no you don't offer a compromise if you believe you're right . Offer and you lose lol xx"

Go Shelley. . Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was having a discussion with our resident virgin and angel(no not shelley,the other one lol),if your having an argument/discussion with someone,and one of you offers a comprimise,is that seen as the first step to backing down? "

sometimes, but can also be a sign of recognising the futility of the argument, and in some cases the person who backs down knows they have something better to gain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Life is all about comprises

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was having a discussion with our resident virgin and angel(no not shelley,the other one lol),if your having an argument/discussion with someone,and one of you offers a comprimise,is that seen as the first step to backing down?

sometimes, but can also be a sign of recognising the futility of the argument, and in some cases the person who backs down knows they have something better to gain "

Damn that's a good point! Well in this case lol

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk


"Was having a discussion with our resident virgin and angel(no not shelley,the other one lol),if your having an argument/discussion with someone,and one of you offers a comprimise,is that seen as the first step to backing down?

sometimes, but can also be a sign of recognising the futility of the argument, and in some cases the person who backs down knows they have something better to gain

Damn that's a good point! Well in this case lol "

If you take the high road and compromise, then that's better than the futility of arguing. IF you get something good out of it too, it's a sign that you made a intelligent move

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Life is all about comprises "

And a good compromise ends in what is known as a "Win Win" situation where both parties are at a minimum content with the outcome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My take on it, the person. Offering. Compromise will. Be welcomed. Into heaven and be seated next to me and big J

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well totally depends on the compromise offered and what was on offer to sweeten the deal hehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The first compromise is usually something already factored into the deal. It's easily given so as to get negotiations underway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well totally depends on the compromise offered and what was on offer to sweeten the deal hehe"

you dnt want to know lol

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