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one off meets or repeats

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you like to meet as a one off meet or have repeat meets .

And why ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like both but prefer repeats as you can get to know the person and know what likes dislikes you both hav and can try other things too ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like repeats rather than one offs, cause you get to know each other's likes and dislikes, plus I find it just gets better and better,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh repeat meets definitely, until you get bored it makes it easier exploring your fantasies, pushing the boundaries etc with someone you grow comfortable with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both but prefer repeats. Hopefully get some soon as not been lucky with any recently

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Repeat meets for me definitely makes you more relaxed and definitely helps you push some boundary you wouldn't push with one offs.

I have also had some one offs too tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Repeats I hate the feeling of a one night stand each to their own but just a personal preference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Repeats definitely as you learn to trust that person & explore together.

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east


"I like repeats rather than one offs, cause you get to know each other's likes and dislikes, plus I find it just gets better and better,"

this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Repeats (if I can get them)

Feel more comfortable and able to explore that bit further

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Repeats because that way you both get to know what each other likes. Also you could experiment as you get to know each others limits

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Seems we have a lot of repeaters in the house

I'm of the same opinion too though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Repeats as said helps when yiu get to know someone makes the meet even more fun.

Then suppose it has to be a good meet to earn a repeat !

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

I'm with the majority of people on here too. When you get to know someone it's so much better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same as the majority repeat for me and as a couple we prefer repeat meets.things just become more relaxed and enjoyable instead off have that uptight nervousness that goes with a first time.mr x files..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We'd be the same as most of the posters too, repeats are the way to go, gives you the chance to build in confidence with the people and allows the chance to feel able to suggest more, try more and enjoy more.

Repeats make things good friends with benefits and if the need arises and everyone is free it can give pleasurable spontaneous fun without the first time jitters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We'd be the same as most of the posters too, repeats are the way to go, gives you the chance to build in confidence with the people and allows the chance to feel able to suggest more, try more and enjoy more.

Repeats make things good friends with benefits and if the need arises and everyone is free it can give pleasurable spontaneous fun without the first time jitters"

Still get jitters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We'd be the same as most of the posters too, repeats are the way to go, gives you the chance to build in confidence with the people and allows the chance to feel able to suggest more, try more and enjoy more.

Repeats make things good friends with benefits and if the need arises and everyone is free it can give pleasurable spontaneous fun without the first time jitters"

This, with or without jitters, aren't we all better and more comfortable with friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eat, sleep, meet, repeat

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By *un be happyCouple
over a year ago

glasgow

one offs can be fun . . but repeat meets all the way .its more fun with more laughs and deffinatly more plessure .x

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By *u-cee smurfetteWoman
over a year ago

aberdeen

Repeats for me, I like to get to know someone and trust them also make a friendship with them xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it's one offs, I love the thrill of meeting someone I don't know and having sex with each other.

Have a regular thing has great benefits to, which have been mentioned.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We'd be the same as most of the posters too, repeats are the way to go, gives you the chance to build in confidence with the people and allows the chance to feel able to suggest more, try more and enjoy more.

Repeats make things good friends with benefits and if the need arises and everyone is free it can give pleasurable spontaneous fun without the first time jitters

Still get jitters "

Shut up!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got to be repeats for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely repeats, you can even more fun with great friends.

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By *he feckersCouple
over a year ago

rosyth

repeats all the way one offs are fun but repeat definately means you get to know likes and dislikes better and much more relaxed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both, I have to admit I love the thrill of one offs, everything is so new and undiscovered with each other. Repeats are amazing too as you connect and really get to know what buttons to press

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

First meets dont do much for me sexually (but they are fun), so I get why people prefer repeats...

Im really not that interested in repeats though

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

Prefer repeats for reasons others have said . I find though slot of guys just want one offs and on to the next new thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like repeats but not to the point where we get comfortable with them. 3 or 4 times is good for us, unless they are an exceptional couple. We enjoy the excitement of meeting people, the anticipation of meeting them... if we lose that with a couple then it has become too comfortable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great question Shelley and impossible to answer. What about this... If you had to choose one or the other for the rest of your life... Fun with the friends you currently have or always new people.. Lol x

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"Great question Shelley and impossible to answer. What about this... If you had to choose one or the other for the rest of your life... Fun with the friends you currently have or always new people.. Lol x"

New people......

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes

I much prefer meeting with the same people again as it gets better and better. The only downside is if one person's circumstances change and they stop meeting. Means I have to start the search all over again Ah well, that could be lots of fun too lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Great question Shelley and impossible to answer. What about this... If you had to choose one or the other for the rest of your life... Fun with the friends you currently have or always new people.. Lol x"

I'd say if it was a lifetime thing then new people as the reason for swinging initially was about having fun with different people x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The vote from Miss McGinty goes to repeats. Shockeroony!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Great question Shelley and impossible to answer. What about this... If you had to choose one or the other for the rest of your life... Fun with the friends you currently have or always new people.. Lol x

I'd say if it was a lifetime thing then new people as the reason for swinging initially was about having fun with different people x"

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

One of meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All depends if we 'click' on firat meet, if so definetly repeat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends really.. I prefer having a few meets, but one offs can be good too.

Actually.. any meets are good lol

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By *exyducksCouple
over a year ago

west coast

def prefer repeat meet for us, as people more relaxed second time around

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a lot of one off meets, but I'm now trying the repeats as it were in some cases

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland

In an ideal world a bitta both

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By *llyandjimCouple
over a year ago

Stirling

We are repeaters as well, although it is good meeting new people I like the comfort of friends with benefits.

I must say this is the best site

but we are members of a few lol

Would love 2 say we have a little black book full ov hot sexy peoples numbers he he but we don't we have a phone lol

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By *uck knows41Man
over a year ago

Arbroath

Both have there good and bad points

one offs the nerves are a killer and after I always think dam should have tryd this or that

repeats you get to find out what gets them going

but making someone come is one of the best feelings

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