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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We were thinking of having a party and we're wondering what people expect from these and if there were any general advice you lovely people could give. It would be at our house so just need an idea of other peoples experiences, good or bad.

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Your party have it your way qherher social gathering or play only in certain areas

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks, we're hoping it will be a play party

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks, we're hoping it will be a play party "
might i suggest maybe a couple of party games as an icebreaker?maybe blind mans muff

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Brilliant! Any other party game suggestions?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We played spin the bottle at another couples house one night. It was a bit of fun and certainly broke the ice!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its definitely the people that make any party so as long as you've got a good bunch, things should go pretty well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guess the cock,basically opposite of blind mans muff,take for example the women out the room,get the men naked from the waist down,then bring the women in one by one(blindfolded of course)and they have to guess which is their partner by touch alone.

blind mans muff its the guys who are blindfolded

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for all the tips guys xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its definitely the people that make any party so as long as you've got a good bunch, things should go pretty well. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Twister is a good laugh .. In your undies

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Twister is a good laugh .. In your undies "

Good idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Give people the option and assure them there is no expectations to play if they don't want to . Always think if no pressure upon guests it works better with them. Try making it fun and light hearted for me is whay attracts me to parties

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As someone who has held regular parties might I suggest having a theme! I have had movie stars, musicians, Halloween, boss's and secretaries etc and I would hand out little presents for the best. I always made it clear that it wasn't obligatory but it did help break the ice. I never set any rules where to play but found most people respected that upstairs was for playing and downstairs for socialising, although by the end of the night there was usually an overspill (if that phrase can be used). The only other advice I would give is expect a few drop-outs and make sure that no-one feels uncomfortable or pressured....and finally don't forget to invite me!!!

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

If you want a hilarious icebreaker game, play a few rounds of Cards Against Humanity.

You really get to know how filthy people are with that game

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"As someone who has held regular parties might I suggest having a theme! I have had movie stars, musicians, Halloween, boss's and secretaries etc and I would hand out little presents for the best. I always made it clear that it wasn't obligatory but it did help break the ice. I never set any rules where to play but found most people respected that upstairs was for playing and downstairs for socialising, although by the end of the night there was usually an overspill (if that phrase can be used). The only other advice I would give is expect a few drop-outs and make sure that no-one feels uncomfortable or pressured....and finally don't forget to invite me!!! "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you want a hilarious icebreaker game, play a few rounds of Cards Against Humanity.

You really get to know how filthy people are with that game "

What's this and how do you play it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't get Bo started on that game (cards against humanity) it's his favourite and sooo inappropriate it's great

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't get Bo started on that game (cards against humanity) it's his favourite and sooo inappropriate it's great

X"
well tell us how it works and let the majority decide

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bit like Blankety Blank

You get a black card with a sentence or phrase on it with missing word. Each player gets seven cards and chooses one of those to insert in the blank space.

We played it where the dealer licks a winner and a loser. Winner obviously deals next round, loser has to strip something or dare. Game is the best. Some folks may know as apples to apples as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha, got carried away, meant to say picks not "licks", although that could work too

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That sounds like great fun, will have a think about this and maybe incorporate it in. Thanks x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As someone who has held regular parties might I suggest having a theme! I have had movie stars, musicians, Halloween, boss's and secretaries etc and I would hand out little presents for the best. I always made it clear that it wasn't obligatory but it did help break the ice. I never set any rules where to play but found most people respected that upstairs was for playing and downstairs for socialising, although by the end of the night there was usually an overspill (if that phrase can be used). The only other advice I would give is expect a few drop-outs and make sure that no-one feels uncomfortable or pressured....and finally don't forget to invite me!!! "

When is your next one?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Haha, got carried away, meant to say picks not "licks", although that could work too "
must admit licks would add a new twist to it

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By *ary_ArgyllMan
over a year ago

Argyll

How about a roman theme - always fancied a girl in a toga!

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

Sorry, been away.

Here's the link for CAH, where you can download it for free:

http://cardsagainsthumanity.com/

If you want a nice box with actual cards, it's £20 on amazon

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