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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

am I being overly sensitive that I hate when guys refer to me as slut/whore etc in a message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"am I being overly sensitive that I hate when guys refer to me as slut/whore etc in a message "

no I dont think its over sensitive! Were adults here for a good time not kids bullying kids!!

Should always have some respect but thats just me x

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

I agree. There is no need to be downright rude in messages.

Just because it's a swinging site doesn't mean you can't treat people as human beings and with some respect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shocking and unacceptable behaviour from so called adults! ...... report, block and move on!

Assholes!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"am I being overly sensitive that I hate when guys refer to me as slut/whore etc in a message "
deffo. Not., no one should. Be disrespect ing you like that block block block

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"am I being overly sensitive that I hate when guys refer to me as slut/whore etc in a message "
i appreciate that is some folks thing,personally not my thing and have walked out on a meet when a fella started calling his wife it.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"am I being overly sensitive that I hate when guys refer to me as slut/whore etc in a message deffo. Not., no one should. Be disrespect ing you like that block block block "
you can call me your slut anytime

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"am I being overly sensitive that I hate when guys refer to me as slut/whore etc in a message deffo. Not., no one should. Be disrespect ing you like that block block block you can call me your slut anytime "
never before have i witnessed such a sickening display of out and out flattery,im disgusted by you jacs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"am I being overly sensitive that I hate when guys refer to me as slut/whore etc in a message deffo. Not., no one should. Be disrespect ing you like that block block block you can call me your slut anytime "
mmmmmmm think this may be for another. Thread or even the bedroom.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"am I being overly sensitive that I hate when guys refer to me as slut/whore etc in a message deffo. Not., no one should. Be disrespect ing you like that block block block you can call me your slut anytime mmmmmmm think this may be for another. Thread or even the bedroom. "
lead the way

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"am I being overly sensitive that I hate when guys refer to me as slut/whore etc in a message deffo. Not., no one should. Be disrespect ing you like that block block block you can call me your slut anytime never before have i witnessed such a sickening display of out and out flattery,im disgusted by you jacs "
sorry Martin I've been told I've to grow old disgracefully lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"am I being overly sensitive that I hate when guys refer to me as slut/whore etc in a message deffo. Not., no one should. Be disrespect ing you like that block block block you can call me your slut anytime never before have i witnessed such a sickening display of out and out flattery,im disgusted by you jacs sorry Martin I've been told I've to grow old disgracefully lol "
doing a good job of it as well

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow


"am I being overly sensitive that I hate when guys refer to me as slut/whore etc in a message deffo. Not., no one should. Be disrespect ing you like that block block block you can call me your slut anytime mmmmmmm think this may be for another. Thread or even the bedroom. "

I'd suggest there's a difference between using that sort of language in the bedroom, and in a message. Particularly if the message is to someone you don't know, then total disrespect!

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"am I being overly sensitive that I hate when guys refer to me as slut/whore etc in a message "
No its not acceptable at all

Especially if it's come from someone who I've never even spoken to before xxx

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"am I being overly sensitive that I hate when guys refer to me as slut/whore etc in a message deffo. Not., no one should. Be disrespect ing you like that block block block you can call me your slut anytime mmmmmmm think this may be for another. Thread or even the bedroom.

I'd suggest there's a difference between using that sort of language in the bedroom, and in a message. Particularly if the message is to someone you don't know, then total disrespect! "
Totally agree with that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

HUGE turnoff for me even When i See those words on someone's Profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unacceptable!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone hasn't invited it or said they're into that sort of things then it's totally out of order!!

Sure way to get yourself blocked!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block report block report block

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh


"

I'd suggest there's a difference between using that sort of language in the bedroom, and in a message. Particularly if the message is to someone you don't know, then total disrespect! "

This

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow

Total no no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think its a sad indication of how SOME not by any means the majority....but SOME guys _iew the women on fab. Its totally and utterly rude, disrespectful and demeaning. Block, delete, forget.....

....there are nice guys out there and these Neanderthals make them stand out...

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By *uvtolikudryMan
over a year ago

Dundee

Some people should just grow up and stop being rude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Laughed at.

Message deleted.

Move on.

Wouldn't give folk like that the time of day on messages.

In person/when having sex etc some people like this kind of thing so yes each to their own but on messages, especially 1st messages isn't the way to get a meet I'd say 95% of the time.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

there needs to be a day where mutual respect is shown, yes these words are unpleasant and unnecessary but so are the many ranty forum threads describing singles guys with less than respectful descriptors....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"there needs to be a day where mutual respect is shown, yes these words are unpleasant and unnecessary but so are the many ranty forum threads describing singles guys with less than respectful descriptors....

"

Never said it was just single guys, had messages like this from couple profiles too but yet to have a female profile calling me a slag/slut/whore

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"there needs to be a day where mutual respect is shown, yes these words are unpleasant and unnecessary but so are the many ranty forum threads describing singles guys with less than respectful descriptors....

Never said it was just single guys, had messages like this from couple profiles too but yet to have a female profile calling me a slag/slut/whore "

I was answering the OP, not your post

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/swingers/271483

this is an interesting thread on the subject

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By *3rial Thr1LL3rMan
over a year ago

aberdeenshire

Would it not depend on which context?

For example "hey you whore"......rude, delete, block. "I'd like to treat you like a princess and fuck you like a whore"....maybe not so bad?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's hot when used at the right times, being called a slut in day to day life not so much

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks folks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think its a sad indication of how SOME not by any means the majority....but SOME guys _iew the women on fab. Its totally and utterly rude, disrespectful and demeaning. Block, delete, forget.....

....there are nice guys out there and these Neanderthals make them stand out... "

this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you have never spoken to a person then absolutely not a chance should it ever be okay to use those words. Some like it with perhaps a partner or someone they meet regularly and are comfortable with,that's their choices but shocking I agree Delete block for sure xx

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