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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i personally have gained a few pounds since my pictures were put on my profile and believe i should rectify this, and this has got me thinking.

How often do you refresh your pictures of yourselves ? this is of course assuming your body shape has changed..larger/smaller.

is it fair for us to possibly mislead potential meets by old out of date photos? even if they are our "favorite" ones of ourselves?

this is mike by the way...lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive lost a fe stone since mine so really shoiuld change mine to but use cam to show each to their own id say .looked at pics n cam n there so not the same person xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im quite lucky ,i always same size(big hahah) but i change pics often

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By *unboy4freeMan
over a year ago

Central Scotland

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By *unboy4freeMan
over a year ago

Central Scotland

...a good point well raised.

Im sure most of us myself included are guilty of not updating pics on a regular basis.

Pics should ideally be refreshed every 6 months to keep up to date. That said those peeps who cam can easily demonstrate not only they are authentic but indeed do match their pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like to try and keep our pictures up to date, if not for letting everyone know what we look like but also for the 'fun' of getting them taken hehehehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hmm i sometimes sick new ones on but no very often , only thing that changes is the hair do really , however i dont think i look anything like my pics most of the time im not very photogenic at all and so can look very very different from one pic to the next lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We like to try and keep our pictures up to date, if not for letting everyone know what we look like but also for the 'fun' of getting them taken hehehehe"

Anytime your looking for a cameraman........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im always updating my pics... but thats just cos I get bored and delete the older ones....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we try add new pics every so often as gandl said ,,,fun takn them woohoo lol

but on a more serious note ,,,yeah pics shld be updated regular as think wev all met/chatted to someone on here and thot,,,they sooooo dont look like there pics xx

auds xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

should be done often specially ifu do change.... better get mine done then,... coming soon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are guilty of this also never changed ours since we joined although haven't changed that much just a few more wrinkles lol.

My prob is I hate getting photos taken and have to be a bit tipsy which doesn't happen alot.

xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our oldest pics are usually about 6 months or so.

Mind you, we're both the same weight and body shape we were when we joined, just the hair that's changed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interesting, so if your having a battle with weight fire up some new pics, that'll be sure to boost your confidence?

And not only that, we "should" apparently, im all ears, gimme the "should" part first, ty

T xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yip..im my oppinion you "shld" that way no one can be accused of misleading anyone,,ie turning up for a meet and sayn oh those pics where takn 2yrs or 2 stone ago?

as i say,,,just my preferance. xx

auds xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Recently had a friend told "you dont look like your pics" and

1.Shes gorgeous

2.Maybe the hair colour was diffrent.

3.No weight gain involved.

Just an opinion from someone who had maybe dreampt up a perfectional vision in his head.

Do i tell her she "should" update her pics?

T x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Do i tell her she "should" update her pics?

T x"

Yes!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The age thing is a pet hate, folks who delete ten years then turn up at a meet, leaving you struggling to figure who they are.

T

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Do i tell her she "should" update her pics?

T x

Yes!!!"

Ok , why

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Recently had a friend told "you dont look like your pics" and

1.Shes gorgeous

2.Maybe the hair colour was diffrent.

3.No weight gain involved.

Just an opinion from someone who had maybe dreampt up a perfectional vision in his head.

Do i tell her she "should" update her pics?

T x"

Ehh, she looks very like her pics, is what im saying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

and thats 1 of many,,,but,,they are profiles on here that folk havent changed their pics or worse have none and not to often say ,,,6ft athletic??? prove it thats what im sayn? lol

im only speaking thru experience when folk we have chatted to or met dont look like their pics? some in a good way some not so,,,all im sayn is yes we update so folk we meet know excatly who their meeting. xx

auds xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My pics haven't been updated for about 2 years or so. I've not changed too much, but desparately need some new ones taken.

I have 2 problems:

1. I need someone to take them (preferably, someone who knows what they're doing)

2. What poses look good for a guy?

If anyone can help with either I'd be grateful. Having pics taken is always fun and brings out my kinkier side!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The age thing is a pet hate, folks who delete ten years then turn up at a meet, leaving you struggling to figure who they are.

T"
lol well if they had a recent pic you would have known lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The age thing is a pet hate, folks who delete ten years then turn up at a meet, leaving you struggling to figure who they are.

Tlol well if they had a recent pic you would have known lol "

Ehh, aye,lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am rubbish at taking pictures but where possible I would always try and choose the most flattering pictures of me and Fred. I am sure most folks will be the same.

I wouldn't feel like I was misleading anyone if I lost or gained weight because I wouldn't decide to shag someone just from seeing their pics or viewing them on cam. I like to meet them in the flesh (warts and all).

And I have been told that I look better in the flesh than I do on cam. Was the word ugly used??? You know who you are!!

So watch out for Wilma Ugly Cam!

P.S Mike you are lovely in pics and in flesh xx

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