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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

ok if you were to date a non swinger would you tell them about your swinging?keep it a secret all together?or wait n see how things go and break it to them later? helllllllllllllllllllllllp lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a monogomist. If I was dating seriously I'd not be able to see anyone else. That's why I'm single lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

if its the right one the swinging will stop just how do you break it to them that you have swung xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

are you trying to tell us all something...

dont tell us your no swinging anymore nooooooooo!!!!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if its the right one the swinging will stop just how do you break it to them that you have swung xx"

oh i hope you dont think i was being judgemental! i know there's lots of happy couples on here in strong relationships. I just don't beleive it's for me, but I'm happy that others are getting the satisfaction they need and I know it would take some guy with huge....stamina....to keep me to himself!

I guess it would be a conversation you'd need to have sooner than later, how...wow....i guess directly is the only way. it's not really something you can sugar coat or laugh off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

depends how you feel towards the person... if theres an afinity,a spark,electricity etc maybe you`d want to tell them... better to start a friendship/relationship with getting something major like that out of the way 1st... that way if they like you and understand they`ll stay... or maybe not be happy but accept you for who you are.. rather than it coming to light further on and making everything more awkward..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hell id have to let them ken lol my family wid say so what ye fink owe oor sioux an her swingin then llf ...... poor sod probably fink i liked swingin on the swings in the park llf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask her to join in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hard one i think. Depends on how much you like the person etc and there out look on swinging. Throw some stories of a colleauge or sumin you heard etc about it see what there reaction would be first. Make it up so to speak test the water.

Hope it helps xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's gonna go anywhere, you'll have to tell them. When is up to you. xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe I am looking at this in simple terms but would it not be the same as saying you have X amount of sexual partners.

If you look at the meaning of 'swinging'

Swinging or partner swapping (sometimes referred to as the swinging lifestyle) is a non-monogamous [1] behaviour, in which partners in a committed relationship agree, as a couple, for both partners to engage in sexual activities with other people. As a subculture, the swinging couple regard their sexual activities with other people as a social activity in which they engage as a couple.

So all you single peeps are you truely swinging ?

Kat xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"are you trying to tell us all something...

dont tell us your no swinging anymore nooooooooo!!!!!!!!!"

come on you dont honestly think this party animal could give this life up do ya i was just being curious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Diffrent spin on this, i met someone who had never takin the leap into swinging but she and her bloke fully intended to,but then they fell out and she is still a super friend who i fancy like mad, is she still into the swinging idea? Nope!

Talked of it, and its a no no,hence we stay just friends.

T xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd tell them nowt to start with - save it for the how many people you slept with convo lol

Seriously though what you did before you meet someone is none of their business to start with but I do think if the relationship was going somewhere I'd be inclined to let them know I'd dabbled???

xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Test the water with some stories, just make them up or read them on here.... alcohol usually goes a long way for some dutch courage..

If it's what you want to do going forward and you want to be honest about it....you don't really have much choice I suppose it's just down to timing.

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