FabSwingers.com forum: Attatched but playing in secret

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So it seems like there are lots of reasons why people do this. I wouldnt judge as I did it myself many years ago.

There are also lots of people who mention they will not meet people in that situation. Equally I understand why.

However how do we know that when people say they are single.. they really are?

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By *rown eyes 8Woman
over a year ago

South Eastern Spain and Scotland

"So it seems like there are lots of reasons why people do this. I wouldnt judge as I did it myself many years ago.

There are also lots of people who mention they will not meet people in that situation. Equally I understand why.

However how do we know that when people say they are single.. they really are?

Because folk choose not to tell,for whatever reason really!

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"So it seems like there are lots of reasons why people do this. I wouldnt judge as I did it myself many years ago.

There are also lots of people who mention they will not meet people in that situation. Equally I understand why.

However how do we know that when people say they are single.. they really are?

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You dont we all have the ability to know when people are being dishonest but some are so cunning in disguising they are attatched or married that for some its almost impossible to know, but for many when they do get found out the signs were always there ...always go with your gut instincts .

I apparently have a pretend husband you know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So it seems like there are lots of reasons why people do this. I wouldnt judge as I did it myself many years ago.

There are also lots of people who mention they will not meet people in that situation. Equally I understand why.

However how do we know that when people say they are single.. they really are?

Because folk choose not to tell,for whatever reason really!

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maybe I to trusting but my philosophy is we on a swinging site and so if you ask someone are they single they would give an honest answer otherwise what is point in playing because it cheating is cheating in any context that his.her partner does not know or give approval for or maybe even though I on a swinging site i still have a certain code of conduct that I abide by

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

Well I'm a scratcher... So good luck for them explaining that away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well I'm a scratcher... So good luck for them explaining that away

A scratcher? My backs itchy

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

"Well I'm a scratcher... So good luck for them explaining that away

A scratcher? My backs itchy

I know someone with a pinwheel... That might help

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By *ky HookMan
over a year ago

Dundee

"Well I'm a scratcher... So good luck for them explaining that away

A scratcher? My backs itchy

I know someone with a pinwheel... That might help

So do I they dropped it on their foot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

there are allsorts on here - but if you are looking for NSA and the other person is in a relationship - who cares?

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes

"there are allsorts on here - but if you are looking for NSA and the other person is in a relationship - who cares? "

Each to their own and we can all use the site for what we want out of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't meet anyone who is attached my personal preference I am a bit iffy about meeting couples but wouldn't rule it out

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

With time cheats are easy to see i steer clear if they can lie to the one they apparently love how can you believe anything that spills from their mouths

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The sites full of folk playing away

Iv gave up caring long ago

Its up to the individual to meet whoever they want?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The sites full of folk playing away

Iv gave up caring long ago

Its up to the individual to meet whoever they want?

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i gettin the idea that on here a lot of people cynical ? Me from a personal point of view i couldn't meet anyone with profile bored housewife/ or boyfriend girlfriend not understand my needs etc ..but each to their own and wouldn't think bad of folk who do .just for me I would end up being sheet in bed because I think I would be doing something wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So if beyonce or whoever chick you fancy said right boy...tonights your Lucky night....and you knew they had a bf or husband ...you would say no ta?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So if beyonce or whoever chick you fancy said right boy...tonights your Lucky night....and you knew they had a bf or husband ...you would say no ta?"
100% yes know that a hard thing tobelieve but if I have sex with anyone not just on here I want to enjoy and let the lady get the best of me that is something I couldn't do without a clear conciounce ...strange but true

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By *iceguy 1966Man
over a year ago

in pa postcode

"So it seems like there are lots of reasons why people do this. I wouldnt judge as I did it myself many years ago.

There are also lots of people who mention they will not meet people in that situation. Equally I understand why.

However how do we know that when people say they are single.. they really are?

You dont we all have the ability to know when people are being dishonest but some are so cunning in disguising they are attatched or married that for some its almost impossible to know, but for many when they do get found out the signs were always there ...always go with your gut instincts .

I apparently have a pretend husband you know

I heard that you have three husbands littered all over the place

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"So it seems like there are lots of reasons why people do this. I wouldnt judge as I did it myself many years ago.

There are also lots of people who mention they will not meet people in that situation. Equally I understand why.

However how do we know that when people say they are single.. they really are?

I apparently have a pretend husband you know

I heard that you have three husbands littered all over the place

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ohhh my god really no well i can set the record straight and say i defo only have the one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well I'm a scratcher... So good luck for them explaining that away

A scratcher? My backs itchy

I know someone with a pinwheel... That might help

Oooh tell me more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah think.you can.tell most attached are quite open.about it I clearly state am divorced lol. Other big give away is availability normally that catches folk out mind yiu being a shift worker my availability is all over the place lol

End of the day its your own call if yiu don't believe the person then.dont meet them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"However how do we know that when people say they are single.. they really are?

They can accommodate and can meet you evenings and weekends. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"However how do we know that when people say they are single.. they really are?

They can accommodate and can meet you evenings and weekends. Lol

typo?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Half the people I've met haven't been single like they said, it doesn't really bother me, they have their life, I have mine. They're in the wrong not me, I'm just having fun. There are a couple people I talk to, and would still meet, that have come clean to me that they aren't when their profile states they are. We're all allowed to use the site as we wish

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Some people make me laugh when they go on about not meeting married or attached people then when you check out their profile they verified by the people who claim they won't meet lol.

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By *eatherWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

She wants i totally agree with you and i know im likely gonna get shot down in flames for this everyone can use the site what ever way they wish

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By *eatherWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

Hey jacs double standards again when it suits folks

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

"Hey jacs double standards again when it suits folks

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gotta agree here seen plenty comments even on this post which is complete 180s on things said previously

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Hey jacs double standards again when it suits folks

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yeah defo _eather

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"However how do we know that when people say they are single.. they really are?

They can accommodate and can meet you evenings and weekends. Lol

typo?"

No.

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

However how do we know that when people say they are single.. they really are?

We dont....

Luckily some of us dont give a toss either way

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes

It never used to bother me, but my time got more limited which meant arranging meets became damn near impossible. That's one reason why I no longer meet attached guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't want to be involved with anything that could potentially split a family on my conscience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*conscious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"She wants i totally agree with you and i know im likely gonna get shot down in flames for this everyone can use the site what ever way they wish

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By *illbraggMan
over a year ago

Dundee

I'm married, I've been swinging all my adult life and a few years ago, with my wife. I want to stay married.

My wife has gone off sex. She's disabled and in pain mostly during sex, she can't help it and neither can I, other than try to be understanding, but with such a high sex drive as I have, I can't put pressure on her for sex but can't stand being without the fun and buzz of it.

I couldn't tell her. I love her but want to play, therefore I want to play discretely with others of a like mind, not have an affair. Simple solution; find women who simply want NSA fun..

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By *illbraggMan
over a year ago

Dundee

No chance this way of falling for someone or having them get the idea that they can fall for me. Simple fun, that's all.

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By *amaraBeaverbankWoman
over a year ago

Benidorm Spain

Billy. Thats why I say everyine has their reasons and it's not for me to judge. Hope you find what you need

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

I just wonder how people deal with married and attached at clubs and when put dogging,I've seen many profiles state no married or attached yet will go to clubs and dogging for fun can't imagine any of them asking people if they are married or attached before playing especially out dogging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't fancy dogging much!!

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Don't fancy dogging much!!"
No its not my thing either but many like it lol

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