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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just a thought...

It seems that alot of swinging ladies have left the site in the last few months.

Ican think of at least 5 great gals who have left...for no apparent reason.

Does anyone know why ppl are leaving?

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

insensitive uncaring men who like to mess ppl about id are the main cause

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People will come and go for various reasons...

no sure about the uncaring men bit tho...

Buboo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I slightly agree with Jacs, that there are some fuckwit fellas, who tend to stalk certain ladies, which may drive them away.... which of course spoil it for the genuine fellas on here.

However Bub is right, as ppl tend to drift away, to return at a later date

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

same as anyone leaving the site.time wasters and rude abusive messages. unfortunatly all to meny time wasters in all catogories

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

having (not) met a lot of timewasters and getting the usual abusive messages (apparently a kind "thanks, but no thanks" is not what a man wants to hear, and a nil response is also not what he wants to hear) I agree with the ladies above.

I have also noticed a few of the ladies have coupled up with some of the single guys and closed their profiles...non-suprisingly the single guys are keeping both!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"insensitive uncaring men who like to mess ppl about id are the main cause "

Can't agree with this at all!!!!!

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside


"Just a thought...

It seems that alot of swinging ladies have left the site in the last few months.

Ican think of at least 5 great gals who have left...for no apparent reason.

Does anyone know why ppl are leaving?"

Beacuse they want to leave!

Because they can come and go as they please!

Because life moves on for some and they don't want to stay on here!

Because ........!

Loads of reasons why males, females and couples all come and go on this and any other site too!

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By *ountrypairCouple
over a year ago

edinburgh

the main reason i think u will find is the summer NEXT catalogue is out lol

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"insensitive uncaring men who like to mess ppl about id are the main cause

Can't agree with this at all!!!!!"

well if u had to deal with it ud know what i mean

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i know 2 girls who have left recently, they just feel they no longer need to be on fab as theyve got a few contacts who theyre happy to meet up with and even have their own little party nites with their fellow ex fab members

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

think many people leave as its quite tricky to actually get meets on here with people that you are looking for. We actually find it virtually impossible to get meets as people either just dont reply to emails, are completely unverified or just dont read the page and see what your looking for.

We have been let down by single guys, girls and couples, and im pretty sure the same could be said for the people who leave the site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"insensitive uncaring men who like to mess ppl about id are the main cause

Can't agree with this at all!!!!!

well if u had to deal with it ud know what i mean "

Still can't agree with it. We all get messed about on a site like this and by couples, women and men. It's part and parcel I'm afraid.

As a previous poster has pointed out, lots of the singles are now playing as couples so perhaps that's where a lot of them have gone.

To blame "uncaring men" is harsh and unfair.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh, and my wife had a single profile she met singles on and was royally messed about so we have had to deal with it.

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

unfortunatly ppl of all catigories i know have left site due to the time wasting and type of messages .so it does happen. not just single guys guilty of essing ppl about as i said ppl in all catogories mess others about be it cpl or single fems ect .some ppl have said having fun not worth the hard work dealing with the game playersb

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"insensitive uncaring men who like to mess ppl about id are the main cause

Can't agree with this at all!!!!!

well if u had to deal with it ud know what i mean

Still can't agree with it. We all get messed about on a site like this and by couples, women and men. It's part and parcel I'm afraid.

As a previous poster has pointed out, lots of the singles are now playing as couples so perhaps that's where a lot of them have gone.

To blame "uncaring men" is harsh and unfair."

well everyone is entitled to their opinion im giving mine from experiance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Possibly fed up with the cliques on this site!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To blame "uncaring men" is harsh and unfair.

Am i assuming that Women are exempt from being "Uncaring"

I think not..

People leave because they choose too..

Buboo

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"To blame "uncaring men" is harsh and unfair.

Am i assuming that Women are exempt from being "Uncaring"

I think not..

People leave because they choose too..

Buboo"

i never said women r exempt ive just not had to deal with them so i cant comment

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"insensitive uncaring men who like to mess ppl about id are the main cause "

We havn't spoken to any of those....and we get lots of mails from single men.

What is meant by uncaring anyway? On a NSA site is there supposed to be a lot of caring going on?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some feel its time to move on

some feel the sites not for them

some fall out with peeps

some get fed up with the site

theres all different reasons, dont think people can generalise and exact reason why

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"insensitive uncaring men who like to mess ppl about id are the main cause

We havn't spoken to any of those....and we get lots of mails from single men.

What is meant by uncaring anyway? On a NSA site is there supposed to be a lot of caring going on?"

of course if u have ppl from here who u concider to be friends then yes i expect them to be caring

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Ah right....we like NSA sex rather than friends so it is a bit alien to us.

But harsh all the same.....as if people are being harrased by single males enough to leave they could have just blocked their mail box to them and they disappear.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"some feel its time to move on

some feel the sites not for them

some fall out with peeps

some get fed up with the site

theres all different reasons, dont think people can generalise and exact reason why"

......IS it because of the ASH CLOUD????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"some feel its time to move on

some feel the sites not for them

some fall out with peeps

some get fed up with the site

theres all different reasons, dont think people can generalise and exact reason why

......IS it because of the ASH CLOUD????

"

I feckin knew it. That cloud has a lot to answer for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" On a NSA site is there supposed to be a lot of caring going on?"

It's not an NSA site tho.

We have some really close friends we've met through swinging who we'll always be in touch with now whether they swing with us or not.

We do have some NSA ppl as well

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

I suppose it depends on how you look at it.......we look for NSA sex, we get it on this site.

I suppose we are not true swingers, but we can live with that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A hope the Ash Cloud doesnt cover the Forum .....ahll be leaving and youll know see me fur DUST

Buboo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"the main reason i think u will find is the summer NEXT catalogue is out lol"

i know and the shoes are to die for!!! who needs men when you got the next summer collection!! xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"the main reason i think u will find is the summer NEXT catalogue is out lol"

pmsl

mrs h xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Davy-yir a nutcase.lol

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By *inesawineWoman
over a year ago

fife


"the main reason i think u will find is the summer NEXT catalogue is out lol"

Absolute class..............pmsl cracker xx

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