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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have tried speaking to some woman on this. I read threw there profile. I match age and everything so I message them. I'm not saying that means they should want to meet. But they are very rude with there replys. It doesn't cost anything for manners. I'm not doing anything wrong. If they don't want to meet a simple no thanks or no reply would be better lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're not going to get much sympathy with your thread fella. There is at least one post like this every hour or so.

The women on here are not just in the minority in terms of amount of them but they can also get up to 100 messages a day and I don't know about you but there no way I could reply to every one of them so they have to be selective and if that means not responding to a lot of them, its what they have to do .

Frustrating but its the way of Fab I'm afraid.

Good luck though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some men on here

You seriously expect to get meets with that attitude do you realise how much mail and abuse we get from men

so if anything

God damn men!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can appreciate your frustrations but as with all things in life

ladies prerogative

Move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

think you missing the point...he not moaning about no replies....he saying he would rather have a no reply than a rude one....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm currently having this discussion with someone... This is why I don't reply to people I'm not interested in cause I just get the 'but why not' 'how can I be your type' messages if I do say no thanks. Or for the charmers the 'I wouldn't shag you anyway' messages and you just think to yourself why are you messaging me then you absolute bellend. I've learnt if you have nothing nice to say don't say anything at all and hopefully they'll take the hint..

Oh I'm in a bitchy mood today so don't get on my bad side

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm currently having this discussion with someone... This is why I don't reply to people I'm not interested in cause I just get the 'but why not' 'how can I be your type' messages if I do say no thanks. Or for the charmers the 'I wouldn't shag you anyway' messages and you just think to yourself why are you messaging me then you absolute bellend. I've learnt if you have nothing nice to say don't say anything at all and hopefully they'll take the hint..

Oh I'm in a bitchy mood today so don't get on my bad side "

No!!!!! Really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to try replying to all messages but then you get abuse for saying no thanks so now I just don't bother!

Sorry but I'm here to please myself for my needs & fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm currently having this discussion with someone... This is why I don't reply to people I'm not interested in cause I just get the 'but why not' 'how can I be your type' messages if I do say no thanks. Or for the charmers the 'I wouldn't shag you anyway' messages and you just think to yourself why are you messaging me then you absolute bellend. I've learnt if you have nothing nice to say don't say anything at all and hopefully they'll take the hint..

Oh I'm in a bitchy mood today so don't get on my bad side

No!!!!! Really "

hey what can I say I've been here a good 5+ years, it turns you into a cunt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm currently having this discussion with someone... This is why I don't reply to people I'm not interested in cause I just get the 'but why not' 'how can I be your type' messages if I do say no thanks. Or for the charmers the 'I wouldn't shag you anyway' messages and you just think to yourself why are you messaging me then you absolute bellend. I've learnt if you have nothing nice to say don't say anything at all and hopefully they'll take the hint..

Oh I'm in a bitchy mood today so don't get on my bad side

No!!!!! Really

hey what can I say I've been here a good 5+ years, it turns you into a cunt "

Yup, or just lose all interest in what you joined for in the first place

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No but unfortunately it's the rude ones that ruin it for you at the end of the day if a person doesn't rreply they are ether not happy with your message or just plain not interested why are these kind of posts put up? Your not the only guy to get ignored nor will you be the last sorry but it's true

Hope you have much luck in the future

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I was a girl on here I'd not reply either. They get literally hundreds of messages a day, you want them to reply to them all?? Fack that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its not the gettin no reply, or a knockback. Thats fine, just accept it but there has been one or two who have launched a tirade at me for no reason at all & thats just rude & impolite. I understand what it must be like for women on here but theres really no need 4 that, some of us can take the hint without being served up abuse. Im not having a go at everyone btw cos it is just a minority but its still out of order.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its not the gettin no reply, or a knockback. Thats fine, just accept it but there has been one or two who have launched a tirade at me for no reason at all & thats just rude & impolite. I understand what it must be like for women on here but theres really no need 4 that, some of us can take the hint without being served up abuse. Im not having a go at everyone btw cos it is just a minority but its still out of order. "

Just ignore it and block? If they're going to act like a dick do you really want to be meeting them anyway. Think of it as a plus, you know who to stay away from

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its not the gettin no reply, or a knockback. Thats fine, just accept it but there has been one or two who have launched a tirade at me for no reason at all & thats just rude & impolite. I understand what it must be like for women on here but theres really no need 4 that, some of us can take the hint without being served up abuse. Im not having a go at everyone btw cos it is just a minority but its still out of order.

Just ignore it and block? If they're going to act like a dick do you really want to be meeting them anyway. Think of it as a plus, you know who to stay away from "
I just move on, I dont really care wot anyone says or thinks of me but I just thot id back the guy up a bit. Am sure the ones who r rude wouldnt like it if they got, nr get abuse 4 nothin. Anyway enough of the moaning 4 me. Thanks 4 the civil comments.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a male on here if i recive a reply saying no I msg back thanking them for replyng and wish them well for the future. Manners cost nothing.I do understand when someone does not reply due to the amount of mail they may have recieved. Not a problem I have I must say I have not had any abusive replies at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes its hard to be a woman too...recently i said "sorry,no thanks"and got a msg back saying i was rude and ignorant!! Moi! Think we all just have to accept that there's nowt as queer as folk and jog onwards merrily.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes its hard to be a woman too...recently i said "sorry,no thanks"and got a msg back saying i was rude and ignorant!! Moi! Think we all just have to accept that there's nowt as queer as folk and jog onwards merrily..... "
thats true, dont let anyone steal ur joy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well heres to a bit more respect from all sides then. Do unto others & all that as someone quite famous once said. Cant remember who. Lmao.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some men on here

You seriously expect to get meets with that attitude do you realise how much mail and abuse we get from men

so if anything

God damn men!! Well said dita been tryin to meet you for years to point you took a restraining order at high court against me but I a optimist for every 1000 rejections 1 must be an acceptance haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loads of people don't get reply's both men and women. Just think of it this way 1 less person you could meet lol

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

As I have no idea what kind of messages the OP is sending to receive all these nasty replies....

I wont comment

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

another day, another wee bit of drama.

there is only one thing for sure... you won't please all on here despite whatever you do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People reply????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We always reply, even if its a no thanks. To be fair, never had an abusive message either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People reply????"

Lol at times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its not the gettin no reply, or a knockback. Thats fine, just accept it but there has been one or two who have launched a tirade at me for no reason at all & thats just rude & impolite. I understand what it must be like for women on here but theres really no need 4 that, some of us can take the hint without being served up abuse. Im not having a go at everyone btw cos it is just a minority but its still out of order.

Just ignore it and block? If they're going to act like a dick do you really want to be meeting them anyway. Think of it as a plus, you know who to stay away from "

Exactly - the ones that reply with attitude - think of it as a lucky escape for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No reply is a reply. But agree lots of rudies x

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