FabSwingers.com forum: fake accounts

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Is anyone getting sick of fake accounts set up to get a thrill from dirty talk then disappearing. We've set up a few meets on our very few days off only to find they've disappeared just as soon as we've stopped talking. Really am getting sick of it. We just want some fun! is that too much to ask??? really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is one of the frustrating things about the site.

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Some people are happy just with the "dirty talk".....gives them what they need!

Doesnt make them fakes....

I dont talk dirty or even get flirty with anyone on here.....

Weeds out the, what I consider saddos, who are just looking for a quick wank!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be more selective in who you talk to. Block newbies, block unverified.

If you find you are constantly having your time wasted, then the common denominator is you. Alter your selection process and stop blaming the site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just block and move on. Any people posing as women or couples who contact you just ask them for a phone number for fem/fem chat. Fakes disappear instantly.

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Having someones number and chatting to the fem does not stop the time wasters....

People need to stop assuming that fakes and time wasters are all single men...

There are couples and single women that will string you along happily until they have had their fun playing you

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

There are couples and single women that will string you along happily until they have had their fun playing you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I read the thing about phone numbers / phone calls all the time.

I never have or would ever do this wouldn't feel comfortable sitting on the phone speaking to some one i didn't know then theres the number given out etc IMO there are other ways to easily determine fakes etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I read the thing about phone numbers / phone calls all the time.

Nothing is full proof but the phone thing is a pretty good gauge. We ask the female of any couples we plan to meet to speak to me (Diane) that way you at least know there is a woman at the other end and although there will be women and couples who are only here for the thrill in our _iew there are an awful lot more men pretending to be women/couples.

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By *iceguy 1966Man
over a year ago

in pa postcode

"Having someones number and chatting to the fem does not stop the time wasters....

People need to stop assuming that fakes and time wasters are all single men...

There are couples and single women that will string you along happily until they have had their fun playing you

Well said there, this happened to me last Friday, she requested a certain hotel that I booked after a while chatting on here and on the phone. She never turned up, blocked me on here and on her phone.

Her loss not mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Having someones number and chatting to the fem does not stop the time wasters....

People need to stop assuming that fakes and time wasters are all single men...

There are couples and single women that will string you along happily until they have had their fun playing you

Her loss not mine

must be lots of them was expecting same a night of fun they didn't show so ended up with babestation and pam and 5 sisters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Having someones number and chatting to the fem does not stop the time wasters....

People need to stop assuming that fakes and time wasters are all single men...

There are couples and single women that will string you along happily until they have had their fun playing you

Her loss not mine

must be lots of them was expecting same a night of fun they didn't show so ended up with babestation and pam and 5 sisters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The joys of a free site very hard to trust folk as so many dreamers and idiots. Very difficult been a single bloke on here as just part of the herd. I just wish people did not judge so quick also as i like to take my time and get trust and then that makes me a timewaster.

I as genuine and respectful as they come but seems to mean nothing. Oh well like the op i live in hope of safe honest hassle free sexy fun one day

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I was arranging a meet with a ff couple this morning and when we thought we had it sorted *poof and there profile is deleted. need to be less trusting. yes think I'm going to block newbies. at least if anything i got a good hammering from my oh while he was thinking of having 3 women to himself so it's not all a loss hahahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was arranging a meet with a ff couple this morning and when we thought we had it sorted *poof and there profile is deleted. need to be less trusting. yes think I'm going to block newbies. at least if anything i got a good hammering from my oh while he was thinking of having 3 women to himself so it's not all a loss hahahaha"

I wonder if u cud mail me i think i might just know who they are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the years we have been on here, never encountered a timewaster. We always go with gut feeling, never let us down

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I can't even remember their name haha anyway

on and up as they say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I read the thing about phone numbers / phone calls all the time.

buy a cheap payg phone or sim so that you can give out the number for swinging. Won't compromise your real number that way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The vanishing profile syndrome happens to us all the amount of times you speak to people think your talking to genuine folk then next message user no longer of site WTF.

It makes you so disheartened anyway misty at least you got the benefit from ya fella

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just a tip , assume no-one is real on the site until you meet them that way you never get disappointed , plus try the socials great way too meet the real people face to face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In the years we have been on here, never encountered a timewaster. We always go with gut feeling, never let us down

Yeah same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We were in touch with the same ones I think, from Perth, one straight, one bi? They winked, we winked, sent a message then account no longer available. Obviously right clicked and saved what they needed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I ignore anyone with " fill in later " on there profile most only join and dont log in again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the ten months or so we've been on here I don't think we've ever had any timewasters either. We're pretty fussy and usually take our time getting to know couples a bit and that seems to have worked well for us.

Its usually when we break that routine and decide to throw caution to the wind that people turn out to be complete tits afterwards and the meets never go nearly as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of the verified but non verified women always make me think they are guys. Just verified the new profile themselves.

Normally I ask them if they can get photo verified and it never happens.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always think you should be able to spot a fake using your own judgement. If you've any reservations at all early on then ask questions, if you don't get the right answer then move along. I see lots of people actually get to the stage of meeting, yet discover out they are fake. I always wonder how they fell for it.

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By *rallvalCouple
over a year ago

Dunfermline

It happens you just accept it. Block and move on.

It does get funny when you out someone as a fake, they shut down the account, start another one with the same photos and a different name and make contact. Hmmmmm.

Our filter is to have a social meet in a pub or coffee shop first or verify on webcam. It is amazing just how many women have 'just popped off to the shops/gym/hairdressers EVERY time we ask to cam

One of the best was a guy who claimed that his wife did not like to appear on cam or even on a photo or have a phone call between fems but could verify by sending an email???

That's the equivalent of:

"Sorry Jimmy could not make it to school yesterday as he had a cold

Signed

My Mum"

If we plan a social meet and they fail to turn up then we just have a drink or a coffee and it's not a wasted time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So many week accounts, here for a week then gone, they waist lots of people's time. It's not hard to be honest that's all I ask. If the just want to talk that's cool, just want to swap pics that's okay too but as long as your honest about don't pretend you want to meet arrange things and dissappear last min it's shity. Had a few times waiters myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have not had any no shows. We have however had social meets with people that, let's just say could have been done for false advertising. Pics not of the fem we were meeting, or pics of the gent when he was half his body weight that night.

Now those were time wasters.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

There are two types,of fakes on here those with fake profiles to string ppl along but never meet.

And the fake profiles set up to cause ppl hassle either on the forums or in pms, to scared to use their main profile and show their true colours.

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By *akedninjaMan
over a year ago

edinburgh

this is my fake account because i dont exist....now you see me..now you dont...im a figment of my own imagination

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Instead of making allegations on the forum just report any profiles that you think are fake

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