FabSwingers.com forum: Etiquette

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So you've done the chatting, you may have done the social meet, then you have the naughty fun, what next??

What are the expectations? I find this part the most difficult. While im not looking for a relationship I kinda like to maintain a bit of a friendship. After all sex is very intimate. However I have had an experience in the past where after I was ignored completely and it does hurt your feelings and put me off for a bit. Whats everyone elses thoughts on Post Meet Etiquette?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like to think we can stay in touch whither it be to play again or the odd hi and message now and then. As they say the more comfortable you get with some one the better the sex.have met a lot of great pepper on here and are still in touch with most of them.

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

for the most part im friends with who i meet thats the biggest part of it still in touch with one of the first females i met on site and if conditions are right can still move in "that direction"

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Nice to stay in touch and meet agin but as long as both have the same agenda & are honest.

The second any mindgames start, end it.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

again*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We like to think we can stay in touch whither it be to play again or the odd hi and message now and then. As they say the more comfortable you get with some one the better the sex.have met a lot of great pepper on here and are still in touch with most of them."

Sorry ment people still trying to get used to the new phone...

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By *omaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"So you've done the chatting, you may have done the social meet, then you have the naughty fun, what next??

I really like to make some kind of an ongoing friendship... after all i only have sex with people i like and are attracted to

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

"So you've done the chatting, you may have done the social meet, then you have the naughty fun, what next??

You move on to the next one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Phew! I thought it was just me that struggled with this...

I don't want a boyfriend, but I do want to have more that just a clinical, eats, shots and leaves 'friend' !

The prefect FB, the holy grail! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a few where it happened the once and I've never heard from them again (usually it's that shit I don't mind hah!)

Others I've known for years and a random message every now and then happens and I consider them friends with benefits.

It doesn't really bother me that much, cause I get bored easily and move on to the next one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i normally send them a text saying thanks for the sex, and thats normally about it. There are very few people id want to see again, i prefer it that way. im not on here to make FB's or FWBs or anything like that. im here for sex, end of .

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By *ighlander34Man
over a year ago

skye

I would be happy to stay in touch as friends, If both parties are up for meeting again, then great! The more comfortable u are with people, the better the sex!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would be happy to stay in touch as friends, If both parties are up for meeting again, then great! The more comfortable u are with people, the better the sex! "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"i normally send them a text saying thanks for the sex, and thats normally about it. There are very few people id want to see again, i prefer it that way. im not on here to make FB's or FWBs or anything like that. im here for sex, end of . "

Im wishing i was more like that sometimes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would be happy to stay in touch as friends, If both parties are up for meeting again, then great! The more comfortable u are with people, the better the sex!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like to make friends and have a bit of a blether with people on an ongoing basis. The build up to a meet and then play can often involve quite a lot of messaging and so on but afterwards, it usually goes a bit quiet after the 'thanks for a great night messages' but we're totally cool with that.

Everyones different but the sign of people we've hit it off with is if they message you after a few weeks or whatever, just to say hi. No need for huge conversations all the time.

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By *aucy MikeCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"We like to make friends and have a bit of a blether with people on an ongoing basis. The build up to a meet and then play can often involve quite a lot of messaging and so on but afterwards, it usually goes a bit quiet after the 'thanks for a great night messages' but we're totally cool with that.

Everyones different but the sign of people we've hit it off with is if they message you after a few weeks or whatever, just to say hi. No need for huge conversations all the time.

I'm still friends with guys I met as a single women and some have been playmates with Mike and I. We've had repeat meets with couples too. As a previous poster said, the more you get to know people, the better the sex

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By *aucy MikeCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Woman! Lol. Bloody phone. Sx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to meet people who are nice but someone I don't overly get on with made it easier to carry on having fun

I've noticed the more you have in common and interests the more complicated it can get in terms of feelings

if you feel a connection and not wanting a relationship unless both parties is that a relationship is what you both seek Maybe it could work

if not

As a few have said stay away or stay in touch and carry on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I used to meet people who are nice but someone I don't overly get on with made it easier to carry on having fun

I've noticed the more you have in common and interests the more complicated it can get in terms of feelings

if you feel a connection and not wanting a relationship unless both parties is that a relationship is what you both seek Maybe it could work

if not

As a few have said stay away or stay in touch and carry on "

Gutted for that guy then lol

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow

"So you've done the chatting, you may have done the social meet, then you have the naughty fun, what next?? "

Assuming the naughty fun was good, arrange round 2 asap! Why mess about?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's good to stay in touch if the desire is there and a feeling of being compatible. Pleasure gets better with familiarity too

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By *abrina59TV/TS
over a year ago

moved to cuckold land

Even if not meeting again like to be able say hi on here but like sex evefyone to there own

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By *omma49Man
over a year ago

GLASGOW

the meets I have had, I still talk to most of them, the others well let's agree to disagree-lol will always give the time of day to anyone who is pleasant enough, civility to others costs nothing if you can't be civil, best to keep your mouth zipped

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"civility to others costs nothing if you can't be civil, best to keep your mouth zipped"

.......or your fingers off the keyboard! That advice would keep a few people rather quiet round here......

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By *eatherWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

I totally and utterly agree Jinty the messages would drop by 200percent

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"civility to others costs nothing if you can't be civil, best to keep your mouth zipped

.......or your fingers off the keyboard! That advice would keep a few people rather quiet round here......

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couldn't have said it better.

Back to the op.

When I meet people I'm not just looking for a Shag, I'm looking for friends that I can keep in touch with and maybe meet again.

Some I have become very close friends with others have simply been brief encounters but give me friends with all the benefits anyday XXX

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