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Bi Guys or Straight Guys, that is the question.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I just felt like letting of some steam here. This is probably one for the girls.

There is a large, and rising number of guys on the site that proport to be straight in order to get meets from the single woman and couples that will not meet bi guys, which is there choice and right, and thats how it should be. Whilst on the other hand they contact me asking for a bi meet, as well as being on the sister site fabguys as bi or in some cases gay.

No I am no moralist, but this just seems like coniving deception for all the members that do not want to meet a bi guy for whatever reason, and like I said that is your choice and right.

These guys are decieving some of you and I think that is wrong. OK, rant over, what do you all think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

honesy is always the best policy...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"honesy is always the best policy..."

And honestly, that Jo has a cracking ass... you're a lucky fella Steve, lol.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see your point but yet again some guys are just not ready to come out. Maybe your comfortable with your sexuality but some are not. So hence why some guys will put "Straight" incase of anyone finding out about there sexuality. Society can be very cruel....... so maybe not just the case that guy's say they are straight so they can meet couples. I believe some do but just want to express another view on this point Maybe im talking about myself or maybe not lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

A interesting viewpoint Dolan. However at the end of the day, some people do not want to meet bi guys for very particular reasons. Which is all very well, and unknown to them they have the people on the site prentending to be what they are not. This is a sefish deception and all said and down, they are just lying to get there end away with absolutely anybody the can. I am sure that if people thought about it they would be very concerned.

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By *Y MAN n MECouple
over a year ago

FIFE

agree entirely Jim, the number of straight guys that message us professing their biside is just rediculous. our reply is this.. if your profile states straight so we treat you as such and don't insult us by saying your bi as an after thought to get a meet. it can be very time consuming sorting them out. yes we state our sexuality on site but away from here it is no one elses business, in our opinion anyway.

XX Heather & Allan

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By *eatherWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

jim honesty is always the best policy i totally agree with you.When i meet im allways up front about everythingxx

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Have to agree Jim with all u have said just makes ppl search bit more difficult when ppl arnt 100% about their sexual preferance on their profiles... and i do think men r not as open as women r to their sexual preferances god knows why ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is the reason that a few guys have 2 profiles... One states Bi, the other straight and will mail from the one that suits the situation more.

S.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

From a single female point of view, I really don't think it is fair, for someone to profess they are straight, when they are bi.

It is my choice who I want to be with and I would prefer someone to be honest, so I can make my decision based on that. Not on someone pretending they are not bi, as I feel that is being deceitful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with hoestly is the best policy but do we need to be totally honest with someone you dont even know or expect to trust? As you probably know that part of me that i wont be disclosing on my profile for various reasons. I do not contact anyone who it states on there profile they wont meet with Bi or Curious guys, when i have met girls from the site i have told them about my hidden side. In my experience that when you tell them they like you even more because they want to see you in action with another guy, lol If this was a girl who stated she was straight but secretly bi then there would not be a problem here. It's knobodys buisness apart from me about "MY" sexuality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"jim honesty is always the best policy i totally agree with you.When i meet im allways up front about everythingxx "

Well _eather why does it say on your profile your straight, lol

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By *eatherWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

dolan im bi but go both ways so what is wrong with that any problems ive been asked about it enjoy the best of both worldsxx

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"dolan im bi but go both ways so what is wrong with that any problems ive been asked about it enjoy the best of both worldsxx "

if u play both ways as u say _eather u should have bi but happy to play str8 less confusing

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By *eatherWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

ok folks here goes.Im bi but can and most certainly do play straight.Im straight but can play bi.Also i never ever push my bi side and im respectful if the female of he company is straight, i guess i like he best of both worlds and long may it continue im sorry for the confusion ive caused.Its me age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Heather,

I think most bi people are the same, we are happy to play straight as the mood/situation requires. Putting 'bi' on my profile seems to make straight couples (the men is my guess) uncomfortable.

My problem is that I'm a bad liar and can't be bothered with multiple profiles, so I tell it straight - I'm bi.

Oh and on a slightly different subject, if I meet a guy and have sex it's GAY sex, I'm still bi. Some people seem to think that just because you meet with a bi guy they are not having gay sex. Possibly worried about their own perception of themselves?

Have fun guys!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

have plyed with couples and singles guys where the male is bi ....this is not a problem as long as the guy in qestion is aware that mr grid is strait and the line is there not to be crossed.

And as Jo said earlier ( sorry hun but we agree again ....lol ) honesty is best policy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Some interesting viewpoints being expressed here on this topic.

I think it is fair to say that if a guy on here is bi he should say so and not be worried about who he won't get to have sex with. Let's face it if he is telling lies about his sexuality what else it he telling lies about. These guys, these liars, because let's face that's what they are, are commiting some kind of sexual physcological crime, against those that don't want to meet bi guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some interesting viewpoints being expressed here on this topic.

are commiting some kind of sexual physcological crime, against those that don't want to meet bi guys. "

get real jim, your taking this well out of proportion.... i see someone has ruffled your feathers before hence the topic or you just bitchin lol

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By *eatherWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

ok another wee bit on the subject im so so sorry for causing all this bother over my profile but im allways honest when i meet or talk to people on here as u who have met me know nae airs and graces and once again im very very very respectful towards other peoples sexuality

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By *1cebren4uWoman
over a year ago

clydebank

Ha ha to all yes HONESTY is the best policy theres somit i have on my profile that i dont want to do in swinging not going into it but the person who wrote me mail told me i was a member of the BNP for not wanting to see the category i mention.

So this can lead on to why do we bother to create such lovely profiles lol.

Brennie xxxxxx

Motto is TOO MANY PPL ARE TOO QUICK TO JUDGE OTHERS

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By *eatherWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

too true brennie but kay serra serra such is life and before anyone says anything no dont think i am BEING JUDGED

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By *uck knows41Man
over a year ago

Arbroath

I dont meet guys who say there s8 on there profile cos the my last 3 noshows where s8 guys thanks andy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think anyone sexuality should be outed. Being bi don't mean u like everyone of the same sex, just as strai8 don't meant that either. Plenty men like tgirls, but have no interest in masculine men, so don't put bi on their profile.. its tricky and not always clear cut

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By *ermandrMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

This has been a very interesting thread. I have tried to be honest in my profile, too. The difficulty is in the labelling - maybe we should do away with it on profiles and let people explain themselves. I call myself straight as I have never been interested in men solo and don't check them out in bars or on the street in the same way I do women. During threesomes or foursomes, however, I much prefer the freedom to not worry about whose fingers and mouths are where. It's all skin and all pleasure in those circumstances, but I wouldn't consider meeting men 121. Bi is not a label that I think suits me - I'm just relaxed in a group situation. My point is - rigid labelling doesn't suit everyone.

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By *Y MAN n MECouple
over a year ago

FIFE


" I call myself straight as I have never been interested in men solo and don't check them out in bars or on the street in the same way I do women. "

"and don't check them out in bars or on the street "

Excuse us but your perception of bi men is totally wrong there, in our opinion anyway. we are both bi but Allan does NOT check out other guys like that and am sure many other bi guys would say the same....Its the private meeting and having fun that is the turn on for us. most bi folk do not flaunt their sexuality as alot of straight folks think. being bi means enjoying fun with both genders or thats how we see it.

to use the words of mr Brown... bigited is a great discription for straight folks who really haven't a clue what being bi is all about, sorry no offence but we don't jump on the same sex just because we play bi. ok rant over!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Should do away with the straight label and replace it with heterosexual, although we’d imagine people who are willing to partake in homosexual acts would still choose that label, this is a swinging site where sexuality is important, not your CV.

I’m straight because I’ve experimented and know it’s not for me, and when I was experimenting I used the bi curious label, because that described what I was at the time, this is a swinging site after all, and they labels are for here, not for your passport or a memoir to friends, colleagues and family, all this, you have to be willing to have a relationship with the same sex to be bisexual is just trying to over complicate things, that’s just confusing being bi or having bi tendencies to being gay.

These threads confuse me, if the other half enjoyed sucking cock when we were playing, there’s no way he’d fit into my definition of straight, so on here, as this is a swinging site after all, he’d be labelled bi curious at least.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont mind meeting either bi straight etc...

about a year ago i did a wee experiment i put on my profile, bi guy wanted!!!

must take it up the ass, must give, must suck cock etc.....

i got sooo much more mail then i usually get from straight guys saying their bi...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i dont mind meeting either bi straight etc...

about a year ago i did a wee experiment i put on my profile, bi guy wanted!!!

must take it up the ass, must give, must suck cock etc.....

i got sooo much more mail then i usually get from straight guys saying their bi... "

Did I reply to that one?? LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im totally confused. But to the question lol..well I'm definately bi but guys that meet TVs sometimes say they are straight as they are into women and think of tvs as fem which is nice but nonsense- somehow sex with a tv to them is not bi behaviour. Anyway I'll have sex with anyone if I like them (notice IF I like them) just because I'm bi does NOt mean I'll have it with anyone lol

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