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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok so ive been on this site now for a month had one great meet but feel i have hit a brick wall im not dying for sex or anything but i feel the majority of fake users have spoiled this website as nobody can trust anyone. I am aware that safety is everyones best interest but is there such a thing as being over secure?

Anyway if some older members have any advice or tips to a reply that would be great im a gold member i am photo verified and verified by meet so what am i missing.

Im young n had many girls call me cute so i wonder if its my looks then again ive seen some scary characters on this that seem to do well... better. Could this all just be down to poor presentation and lack of experiance.

HELP!!!!!!

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not one of the older swingers but I have already pointed out a slight problem, when I see a profile I like to see one or two public pics there is no public pics there. (but no cock pics) and I ask for the face pic in private due to the descrection incase. Also this site is different now so men feel they have to work harder but at the end of the day we all hate fakes and drop outs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've been here 4 weeks and had a meet...lots of guys don't get a meet for months!!

Some clearer pics would be good too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's not a majority of fake users at all. If you're finding lots then the fault is yours for choosing the dickheads.

Think: No pics, no veris (been here ages), No profile info. Why would you mail anyone without these things?

If you're classing fakes as people who simply don't reply to messages then again the fault is yours and you need to lower your expectations.

As had been said, you've met. A lot of guys haven't.

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By *ASCOTMan
over a year ago

inverness

I've been on here a few months now I'm honest with the people I talk to... I'm married with a nonexistent sex life I explain that too whoever I talk to this tends to kill conversations... So I question if being honest really makes a difference I'm not a deviant just a straight forward bloke, I also understand that people want to see a face pic but when you live I'm a small community blokes need to be careful as well so when I see u will be blocked if you have no face pic on your site, when there isn't one on the persons your talking to I think why expose yourself to the risk.. I know women have all the power on this site which is fine but let's play fair some of us aren't fake just careful... Sorry turned into a long message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id agree that When i look at a single guys profile i like to see a few pics ok not face pics But Body shots

Yes your verified and thats more than alot on here

But remember your 1 in 1000s on here so try and make your profile stand out

Auds x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Id agree that When i look at a single guys profile i like to see a few pics ok not face pics But Body shots

Yes your verified and thats more than alot on here

But remember your 1 in 1000s on here so try and make your profile stand out

Auds x "

Thanks everyone for pointing out some mistakes on my behalf ill work on some bidy pics but being a dude im cluless as to what girls like and like anyone else i dont exactly know what is a good look for me hahaha

Thanks all but keep em coming or drop message xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I mean body pics girls like

Im sure my technique isnt an issue xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shirt n jeans....

Camera...mirror....point

Ta da

Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I reckon if men were not allowed to send initial mail it would solve many issues

women would not get bombarded

men would not get frustrated and have to work harder on their own profiles

female profiles would change to be non hostile (I will block you for x, y and z)

men would not complain about having their mail deleted

female munters would not be so far up their own arses due to lack of attention

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes


"I reckon if men were not allowed to send initial mail it would solve many issues

women would not get bombarded

men would not get frustrated and have to work harder on their own profiles

female profiles would change to be non hostile (I will block you for x, y and z)

men would not complain about having their mail deleted

female munters would not be so far up their own arses due to lack of attention"

good points there and the last one made me laugh.

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


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female munters would not be so far up their own arses due to lack of attention"

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By *ustforalaugh1Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"You've been here 4 weeks and had a meet...lots of guys don't get a meet for months!!

Some clearer pics would be good too "

Tell me about it

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