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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

This is off the back of a conversation I've been having ...

Where do you have yours ?

Yours , theirs or somewhere public ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Public

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have stupidly had social meets at my house but stopped doing that now so a coffee or a pint in my case lol in a public place when it comes to online meets you never know who you will meet so always best to be safe and have people around if something goes wrong

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes

public

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow

Public or at party never at their's or mine .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have stupidly had social meets at my house but stopped doing that now so a coffee or a pint in my case lol in a public place when it comes to online meets you never know who you will meet so always best to be safe and have people around if something goes wrong "

Good call fi. It's very true . All the chatting and msging online goes for nothing.

Some guy thinks I've got a lot of public pics on display(which I have ) and is worried I might be recognized

One word TOUGH .. see ya lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Public or at party never at their's or mine ."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it's got too be a public place for me as I think it helps settle the female and it's only polite too ask

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What Fi said

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow


"I have stupidly had social meets at my house but stopped doing that now so a coffee or a pint in my case lol in a public place when it comes to online meets you never know who you will meet so always best to be safe and have people around if something goes wrong

Good call fi. It's very true . All the chatting and msging online goes for nothing.

Some guy thinks I've got a lot of public pics on display(which I have ) and is worried I might be recognized

One word TOUGH .. see ya lol "

Is it not your business re what you have on your profile? And whether it's public or private?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always first meet in a bar or coffee shop, gives either party opportunity to have one drink and. Make excuses to leave if things don't feel right

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Always social if you get past one coffee/drink then it's going well lol

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By *ouncingBiscuitsWoman
over a year ago

toy town, Glasgow

Any meet ive had has mostly been socially first in a public place or at one of the socials but when i first joined i did have one or 2 meet at my place which i also felt safe about as i have security cameras ,a mega big base ball bat and a mean right hook so ive been told

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

public

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By *issyForDommeTV/TS
over a year ago

glasgow

I state on my profile any first meet will likely be public, after all getting kinky takes trust and both parties being comfortable-not to mention you would think a woman meeting a guy would want it public...not always the case in my experience though.

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By *ootlover456Man
over a year ago

Paisley

I would imagine public is better for both parties in most cases. as It gives a chance to get to know each other and ensure safety. alas not everyone around here is perfectly sane. we do get a few nutters unfortunately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a general rule always somewhere public. I have made exceptions to this and gone to theirs but made sure people knew where and when. Never at mine.

Of course people we know and trust could just as easilly be axe murders sadly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a general rule always somewhere public. I have made exceptions to this and gone to theirs but made sure people knew where and when. Never at mine.

Of course people we know and trust could just as easilly be axe murders sadly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always public even as a couple we meet for a drink in a bar or at a coffee shop..could be as nice as pie chatting online but a total different person in the flesh.you just never no how people will be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could always be nice as pie at coffee shop/bar n be a complete loon ball when goto theirs/hotel/wherever

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

Have a cuppa in a public place first. It's just easier and sensible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a rule a public place, a lady needs to feel safe and comfortable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have stupidly had social meets at my house but stopped doing that now so a coffee or a pint in my case lol in a public place when it comes to online meets you never know who you will meet so always best to be safe and have people around if something goes wrong

Good call fi. It's very true . All the chatting and msging online goes for nothing.

Some guy thinks I've got a lot of public pics on display(which I have ) and is worried I might be recognized

One word TOUGH .. see ya lol "

Absolutely spot on Shel

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By *aucy MikeCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Have a cuppa in a public place first. It's just easier and sensible "

We're with Andy. Safer all round. S&Mx

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By *ebmarMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

the only way you'd be recognised would be by people on the site, so ... would that be such a big problem?! I don't think so! lol

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By *ebmarMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

that was for Shelley ...

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By *ebmarMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I agree ... public for a coffee or a glass of something ... to make sure everyone is in the mood

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We usually have ours in a public place and we usually say thats it drinks only then we'll arrange another met if everyone is happy to. Give everyone a chance to make their mind up with no pressure.

Occasionally a first public meet has turned into a very private first meet as well and thats cool. Never say never

Sometimes we've gone to someones house but thats only after chatting for a while.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to meet somewhere pubic

failing that, somewhere smooth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have stupidly had social meets at my house but stopped doing that now so a coffee or a pint in my case lol in a public place when it comes to online meets you never know who you will meet so always best to be safe and have people around if something goes wrong "

I agree plus if you meet in a pub allways relaxed a bit!

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By *reeningtomMan
over a year ago

Angus

wherever the lady feels comfortable and safe, I leave the decision to her

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