FabSwingers.com forum: want a relationship?

By *ousewives delight OP Man
over a year ago

edinburgh/glasgow/central scotland

does any single girl on here want a relationship?but due to needs she is here for time being?

i think i have come across a few before on a dating site

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Are you on the same dating site as them then??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes id say i do want that but ive found most men on conventional dating are far from my type. The majority of men ive spoken to on here are brighter, more respectful and interesting.

I wouldnt say I was here looking for love or a relationship but my ideal is happy ever after.

My reality is most men dont see me as relationship material. Im great for fun but not more. Rather than get hurt again im here so that fun is on my terms. Not anyone elses

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow

Never say never!

You never know what, or who, is just around the corner!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say I want a relationship but fab fills a gap till I get that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I came to fill my man-nympho needs and have my horizons broadened and learn from likeminded folks.

I've fallen into a situation that however difficult the distance is right now looks likely to be a major part of my life for the foreseeable future

I still perv on ya sexy ladies, and there seems to be a bit of leeway on some types of playtime due to the distance and times between our own private days...so lets see how long before the leash shortens and it gets a bit mushy

jimi x

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

"Yes id say i do want that but ive found most men on conventional dating are far from my type. The majority of men ive spoken to on here are brighter, more respectful and interesting.

I wouldnt say I was here looking for love or a relationship but my ideal is happy ever after.

My reality is most men dont see me as relationship material. Im great for fun but not more. Rather than get hurt again im here so that fun is on my terms. Not anyone elses "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want a relationship but fab is fun and fulfils needs and fantasys in tht mean time. I've been single 3+ years and fed up of it I'm on dating sites but the guys willing to meet me aren't my type or are same as on fab just after some fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think its most important to recognise ones own real desires in order not to mislead others of any intentions when embarking upon a friendship. Saying one thing while thinking another only makes difficulties and can potentially cause hurt and anger, for all parties.

Life is so often perverse..the more we seek something the harder it is to find and conversely, relationships can evolve and take us by surprise when we least expect it. Lifes rich tapestry......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive been single for 6 years now so decided a few months ago that i would actively start dating again, in the hope i meet someone that i can have a relationship with.

Fab fills the needs i have in between.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A relationship would be nice, but I can't do conventional now. Don't want to live with anyone, they need to be into kink and want to swing and I prefer younger with a certain body type

Guess it's me and the cats then for the forseeable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I want a relationship but fab is fun and fulfils needs and fantasys in tht mean time. I've been single 3+ years and fed up of it I'm on dating sites but the guys willing to meet me aren't my type or are same as on fab just after some fun "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love to find a lady to have a relationship with. Unfortunately finding one that will accept 'me' isn't going to happen I fear.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd love to find a lady to have a relationship with. Unfortunately finding one that will accept 'me' isn't going to happen I fear."

We'll many a women's loss

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By *aucy MikeCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

After a disastrous dating life I joined fab to have some fun on my terms and found Mike. Neither of us wanted a relationship when we met and were both very clear on that but it happened any way and although we're a committed couple, still enjoy the fun opportunities fab gives us with others. May you all be as lucky if that's what you want. Sx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd love to find a lady to have a relationship with. Unfortunately finding one that will accept 'me' isn't going to happen I fear.

We'll many a women's loss

Thank you but where are these women lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A relationship on here?

You cannot be serious?

Id advise you as DONT.

Especially if you date one in a clique, after it goes tits up, everyone ostracize's you.

My advice to you is steer clear, find another site.

Good luck xx

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Some relationships do work on here and good luck to them,but sadly for the majority on here it doesn't always work out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because folk lie im afraid.

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By *ky HookMan
over a year ago

Dundee

"A relationship on here?

You cannot be serious?

Id advise you as DONT.

Especially if you date one in a clique, after it goes tits up, everyone ostracize's you.

My advice to you is steer clear, find another site.

Good luck xx

The advice youre giving is flawed on a few levels.

1 you are assuming that it will go tits up

2 clique ostrisation is not unique to here or garenteed

3 it sounds like clique ostrasisation would be a good thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

clique ostrisation

I believe there is a cream available to cure it but only works in 75% of cases and there can be side effects

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A relationship on here?

You cannot be serious?

Id advise you as DONT.

Especially if you date one in a clique, after it goes tits up, everyone ostracize's you.

My advice to you is steer clear, find another site.

Good luck xx

The advice youre giving is flawed on a few levels.

1 you are assuming that it will go tits up

2 clique ostrisation is not unique to here or garenteed

3 it sounds like clique ostrasisation would be a good thing"

Its not advice per say, merely a comment, not assuming it will go tits up, but previous friends experiences on here are well and truly noted.

One is allowed an opinion, certain people take umbrance in the forum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"clique ostrisation

I believe there is a cream available to cure it but only works in 75% of cases and there can be side effects

Where can one buy this cream, in large doses...please lol x

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By *ky HookMan
over a year ago

Dundee

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By *ky HookMan
over a year ago

Dundee

"Id advise you as DONT.

after it goes tits up,

My advice to you is steer clear, find another site.

Its not advice per say, merely a comment, not assuming it will go tits up, but previous friends experiences on here are well and truly noted.

One is allowed an opinion, certain people take umbrance in the forum."

I agree with your points regarding opinion and people in forums having thin skins or easily offended. I also dont dispute that a relationship on here may be fraught with hazards, like ostrasization if it breaks up.

It is my opinion that these problems are not unique to this site and if you check the quotes I have provided from your original post you will find that what you wrote was worded as advice not an opinion, and as a statement of eventuality by the use of 'when' not 'if'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Id advise you as DONT.

after it goes tits up,

My advice to you is steer clear, find another site.

Its not advice per say, merely a comment, not assuming it will go tits up, but previous friends experiences on here are well and truly noted.

One is allowed an opinion, certain people take umbrance in the forum.

Perhaps......comment should have been the word to use instead of advise!

That should guarantee,a happier state of mind hopefully.

note the guarantee word is correct pmsl!

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By *araidWoman
over a year ago

the west (ish)

"clique ostrisation

I believe there is a cream available to cure it but only works in 75% of cases and there can be side effects

Hahaha - excellent response.

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