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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is it just us.....or do other folks notice there is a noticeable ratio on this forum......

And its this....

The more negative the post.....the less meets on the profile.

Folks that enjoy Fab for what it is.....have good meets, enjoy the socials and CJs and After 8 tend not to have negative posts. They have nice, encouraging posts.

On the other hand folks that have single or no meets, don't go to socials, have not been to a club tend to have negative posts.......

Maybe its a sign of jealousy and envy.

Que sera sera

And its goodnight from him....and its goodnight from her...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im the exception dont do negative posts now ever lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Im the exception dont do negative posts now ever lol "

Best like that I think.

Negative posts. Negative people.

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By *aucy MikeCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Im the exception dont do negative posts now ever lol

Best like that I think.

Negative posts. Negative people."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks Mike.

Be nice. It will work wonders in the long term.

People like nice people.....unless they are not nice people...and if they are not nice people then you do not want to know them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry could you define negative posts?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sorry could you define negative posts? "

Hi Dita...

This is Lila. I'll try.

You know a negative post the moment you read it........

Its when you post something.....then log on to see the responses.

A negative post is when you read a response and think "wanker".

A nice post is when you read it and think the poster had "got" what I mean.

For me...and remember this is just my opinions....I really like folks that post positive responses to my posts...

Sorry if I am being a bit controversial tonight.....no work tomorrow and two bottles of chablais tonight with my bestest ever pal.....who is looking over my shoulder as I type....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry could you define negative posts? "

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By *ky HookMan
over a year ago

Dundee

Thanks for defining that cause I didnt get what you meant, something made me think Thread when I read Post...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like being negative am a nice guy, manners are key.

Saying that though there is nothing wrong with a difference of opinion given in a relatively positive way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I see what you mean. All the "why are people so up themselves and won't reply to my 100th message of the day" and "too many fakes and timewasters" are from people with sweet FA on their profile, no pics or info.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind people not agreeing with me....I'm often wrong anyway....all opinions count...but its when people decide to be rude, insulting and personal that I see the red mist. And yes....I have been known to bite back but I'm only human.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry dont agree

Just because you havnt met half the site or paid your money to go to a social or Dont post on the snog marry avoid or what i had for my dinner post does it Make you a negitive person?

Auds x

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"I don't mind people not agreeing with me....I'm often wrong anyway....all opinions count...but its when people decide to be rude, insulting and personal that I see the red mist. And yes....I have been known to bite back but I'm only human. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah now I understand...

Forums, chat or any kind of subject in life needs a bit of negativity just to balance out the positivity online is not any different and actually as I've said many a time if forums were for all to agree on it would be a boring place to read and post but then on the other flip side of the coin people shouldn't get personal on here as we are all behind a screen and everyone is entitled to their opinion I do suppose it matters how you represent yourself

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"Ah now I understand...

Forums, chat or any kind of subject in life needs a bit of negativity just to balance out the positivity online is not any different and actually as I've said many a time if forums were for all to agree on it would be a boring place to read and post but then on the other flip side of the coin people shouldn't get personal on here as we are all behind a screen and everyone is entitled to their opinion I do suppose it matters how you represent yourself

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this is exactly why there are less forum users in scotland now its mainly consistant of "ohh i can lick ass better than you" "female................yes your right i will agree no matter what you say" folk got bored reading the same folk spouting the party line take this thread for example 43 posts only 12 folk posting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ah now I understand...

Forums, chat or any kind of subject in life needs a bit of negativity just to balance out the positivity online is not any different and actually as I've said many a time if forums were for all to agree on it would be a boring place to read and post but then on the other flip side of the coin people shouldn't get personal on here as we are all behind a screen and everyone is entitled to their opinion I do suppose it matters how you represent yourself

this is exactly why there are less forum users in scotland now its mainly consistant of "ohh i can lick ass better than you" "female................yes your right i will agree no matter what you say" folk got bored reading the same folk spouting the party line take this thread for example 43 posts only 12 folk posting "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So this being a negitive post about negative posts must mean one thing the poster is a *a*k**

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland

I think people just need a reality check when it comes to the forums they are a tiny tiny part of the site and the vast majority of people don't tap into them.......and I know for a fav going by half of what I see and read they would put me of swinging for life if the Scottish forum was a true representation of what swinging is.........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"folk got bored reading the same folk spouting the party line take this thread for example 43 posts only 12 folk posting "

13.....

This is a good thread!

Lila hasnt once mentioned her dinner or if she would run a fkn mile from the poster above!!

I half agree with the OP....the other half of me realises that most of the "happy" posters havent had a shag in months/years or met anyone because they are happy in their little "swinging" worls just chatting with their virtual friends....so that part is slightly flawed

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow

We're not into socials, club nights or parties. We do love socialising etc but we're not into social events based around swinging.

This has no impact on how we post though.

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow


"the other half of me realises that most of the "happy" posters havent had a shag in months/years or met anyone because they are happy in their little "swinging" worls just chatting with their virtual friends....so that part is slightly flawed "

There does seem an element of truth in this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Virtual friends...

Sums this place up lol

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