FabSwingers.com forum: seriously .. i need to rant !!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've just went through over 80 or so msgs and replied to 5 , 3 of whom were friends msgs .. Is it any wonder females dont reply to msgs .. the best one though was joined an hr ago no pics no verifications with fill in later dunno what to write ... Asking if Id give him my number he would call me and if I wanted to grind on his face he would pop over

Now I know its a swingers site and people are looking to have sex and some wants lots of it. But no one surely can expect it work that way , why msg someone saying fancy a fuck , come to my hotel , I'm parked up here if you want fun ... I know people meet in different ways which I appreciate .. but do guys think its a case of sign up and a fuck is just waiting for you .. I am usually of opinion of delete and block if anything else comes of it but at this rate i will be blocking my entire mailbox !!

Sorry rant over ... I feel better now

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"I've just went through over 80 or so msgs and replied to 5 , 3 of whom were friends msgs .. Is it any wonder females dont reply to msgs .. the best one though was joined an hr ago no pics no verifications with fill in later dunno what to write ... Asking if Id give him my number he would call me and if I wanted to grind on his face he would pop over

Sorry rant over ... I feel better now

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Oh i can beat that one selly ,and at least he was polite to say he'd call u most send you their numbers and expect you to call then so they can get off lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Sorry rant over ... I feel better now

Oh i can beat that one selly ,and at least he was polite to say he'd call u most send you their numbers and expect you to call then so they can get off lol

I've had a few of them in past too jacs but sometimes I just think Aw fuck off will you lol you ask for no cock pics and a face pic and get a cock pic and no face pic. Its just been one of those days where every msg is full of crap .. too much to ask for intelligent chat me thinks at times lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would you come and grind on my face if I asked you???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think people have lost the art of conversation in a message and not knowing how to introduce oneself before diving in

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Would you come and grind on my face if I asked you???

Lmao ....

Ahhh but I have your number. Know where you live and you know the answer to that one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would you come and grind on my face if I asked you???

Lmao ....

Ahhh but I have your number. Know where you live and you know the answer to that one

Heeheehee!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Think people have lost the art of conversation in a message and not knowing how to introduce oneself before diving in"

That's one way of putting it yes ..

But that certainly wasn't by an imagine an introduction .. screamed desperation to me . If its that's bad they should just go have a wank !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well i definately think its there loss big time. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Careful my rant yesterday earnt me 3 further nasty emails!

I have to defend men a little though.. some messages ive had from couples and women have been just as bad.

I think some sign up thinking its just some horny free for all and then get hacked off when for the most part its not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Careful my rant yesterday earnt me 3 further nasty emails!

I have to defend men a little though.. some messages ive had from couples and women have been just as bad.

I think some sign up thinking its just some horny free for all and then get hacked off when for the most part its not.

well said should just be wam bang thx you mam...needs to be respect for starters

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow

"But that certainly wasn't by an imagine an introduction .. screamed desperation to me . If its that's bad they should just go have a wank !!! "

Excuse me, sorry to butt in, but are you available? I'm desperate! I had a meet arranged for Monday but she cancelled at the last minute, turned out to be a timewaster, supposedly ill!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some guys just dont have a bloody clue.

How many messages smack of desperation, but as I was kindly reminded by one neanderthal, "it's a sex site and we are all here to fuck" I'm so glad he enlightened me to that fact! !!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Careful my rant yesterday earnt me 3 further nasty emails!

I have to defend men a little though.. some messages ive had from couples and women have been just as bad.

I think some sign up thinking its just some horny free for all and then get hacked off when for the most part its not.

I could well believe that. I know its not all guys that are like that and yes there are some couples can send inappropriate msgs ..

Well tomorrow is another day eh lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Careful my rant yesterday earnt me 3 further nasty emails!

I have to defend men a little though.. some messages ive had from couples and women have been just as bad.

I think some sign up thinking its just some horny free for all and then get hacked off when for the most part its not.

I could well believe that. I know its not all guys that are like that and yes there are some couples can send inappropriate msgs ..

Well tomorrow is another day eh lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just a thought!

There's two of us and one of us posted about you grinding on their face, you said you know the number and where we live, so who do you think asked? And who would you grind on?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just a thought!

There's two of us and one of us posted about you grinding on their face, you said you know the number and where we live, so who do you think asked? And who would you grind on?"

is it not fairer to take turns about ladies. !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"But that certainly wasn't by an imagine an introduction .. screamed desperation to me . If its that's bad they should just go have a wank !!!

Excuse me, sorry to butt in, but are you available? I'm desperate! I had a meet arranged for Monday but she cancelled at the last minute, turned out to be a timewaster, supposedly ill!!

Available ? Of course. Always. Isn't that how its meant to be on fab ???

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just a thought!

There's two of us and one of us posted about you grinding on their face, you said you know the number and where we live, so who do you think asked? And who would you grind on?"

Are we playing truth again

I think it was Mr who posted Mrs who said hehehe and Mr who's posting again ?? And both of you of course !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just a thought!

There's two of us and one of us posted about you grinding on their face, you said you know the number and where we live, so who do you think asked? And who would you grind on?

Are we playing truth again

I think it was Mr who posted Mrs who said hehehe and Mr who's posting again ?? And both of you of course !!!

Wrong, 1st time, right 2nd and 3rd!

Mrs kk sent the first, she's polite enough to ask, whereas Mr, he's shy!!!!

Always up for truths!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just a thought!

There's two of us and one of us posted about you grinding on their face, you said you know the number and where we live, so who do you think asked? And who would you grind on?

Are we playing truth again

I think it was Mr who posted Mrs who said hehehe and Mr who's posting again ?? And both of you of course !!!

Wrong, 1st time, right 2nd and 3rd!

Mrs kk sent the first, she's polite enough to ask, whereas Mr, he's shy!!!!

Always up for truths!!!"

don't believe you that mr is shy..!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Other side of the coin;

When writing to someone for the first time I always relate what I say to something they've put on their profile, always try to be lighthearted, am aware that women get hundreds of messages so try to be different, but reasonably brief, always attach photos.

Almost never get replies and many go unread. Is it any wonder some guys get impatient/angry/rude?

advocate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 little words....filters, filters, filters....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Other side of the coin;

Almost never get replies and many go unread. Is it any wonder some guys get impatient/angry/rude?

advocate"

To be fair I read the msgs that send pics and don't include cock pics. If there interesting I reply if they don't interest me I say no thanks. If they don't come with pic or its a cock pic then its straight delete.

This had to relevance to my profile other than I was a female. Wasn't angry or impatient rude yes and delusional

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"3 little words....filters, filters, filters....

I know honey. I had them open (filters that is ) as I was once a newbie too but they are now in place ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"3 little words....filters, filters, filters....

I know honey. I had them open (filters that is ) as I was once a newbie too but they are now in place ..

I've got so many in place they need blood tests and two referees to get an appointment to send a msg.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"3 little words....filters, filters, filters....

I know honey. I had them open (filters that is ) as I was once a newbie too but they are now in place ..

I've got so many in place they need blood tests and two referees to get an appointment to send a msg.....

Haha quite rightly so !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been on this site for a couple of years and to be honest I take my time and say hi, introduce myself in a polite manner, tell them a bit about myself because it's the basics that count towards a good conversation, I send face pics etc and to slightly disagree with some of these comments, some women still just delete without the courtesy of saying no thanks, or taking the two seconds to say hi back, even when they specifically say on their profile that one liners will be deleted, so why just delete a message that is polite, well thought out and tells them everything they need to know???!?

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes

"Careful my rant yesterday earnt me 3 further nasty emails!

I have to defend men a little though.. some messages ive had from couples and women have been just as bad.

I think some sign up thinking its just some horny free for all and then get hacked off when for the most part its not.

I know exactly what you mean Shelley. I get exactly the same kind of message or I get the "Hi how are you" but not much more. The ones that really drive me nuts are the ones who obviously don't read the profile! lol xxxx

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow

"3 little words....filters, filters, filters....

I know honey. I had them open (filters that is ) as I was once a newbie too but they are now in place ..

I've got so many in place they need blood tests and two referees to get an appointment to send a msg.....

Huh! Another timewaster!

But Shelley says she's available so I'll have a quick 'dive in' there!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"3 little words....filters, filters, filters....

I know honey. I had them open (filters that is ) as I was once a newbie too but they are now in place ..

I've got so many in place they need blood tests and two referees to get an appointment to send a msg.....

Huh! Another timewaster!

But Shelley says she's available so I'll have a quick 'dive in' there!

Big raspberry coming your way mister! And not in a trifle!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had this same thing a while back still get tonnes of messages this one in particular I'm remembering was at 5:30 in the morning I was just about to head to bed when I get a cute guy asking for a shag so i replied I'm just going to my bed...he then replies with your really pissing me off so I says what have I done exactly he replies you dirty fat slag and so on more words like cow whore bitch you name i got it talk about spit yer dummy oot.

its shocking how much mail we get hard to deal with at times but I know that there is tonnes of guys on here a lot more than women we all know this just makes it hard to find a decent one when there is that many twats who can't start a decent conversation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never seen the point in getting nasty in messages (unless the roleplay dictates that scenario

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Why do wee shithead butnuggetts insist on giving a girl grief cus she wouldn't send a reply?. Wait a month, get a decent pic and string a couple of sentences together and you might at least get read next time.

These fuckers should be Darwined in the name of progress!

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow

"3 little words....filters, filters, filters....

I know honey. I had them open (filters that is ) as I was once a newbie too but they are now in place ..

I've got so many in place they need blood tests and two referees to get an appointment to send a msg.....

Huh! Another timewaster!

But Shelley says she's available so I'll have a quick 'dive in' there!

Big raspberry coming your way mister! And not in a trifle!!!!!

Aawww......that's a pity, I rather like raspberry trifle!

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By *ime For ItMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

I started a thread about " Ladies and emails " a couple of weeks ago.

Would like to ask the ladies...how many well composed, literate, polite,personal to the recipient and hopefully interesting emails would they write knowing that most of them wouldn't get read..by mass delete or whatever before they gave up writing them ?

As I am sure a lot of guys on here give up sending very many.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I started a thread about " Ladies and emails " a couple of weeks ago.

As I am sure a lot of guys on here give up sending very many."

I would only write one. To someone that i think would want to meet me. And if it got deleted, oh well. Id move on and do the same again if i ever thought i could be of interest to someone that i liked.

Luckily i dont need to worry about that stuff anymore. Im not looking for anyone and the message filters save me from ever having to deal with unwanted messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

interesting reading and lots or varied opinions . the sad fact is it aint gonna change anytime soon in my opinion . the guy to girl ratio alone would tell you that . ive been fortunate and had a couple of meets . each have came from a polite non pushy approach . thats not to say ive had my share of blanked messages or deleted without response . ive also sent the occasional , lets go for it , style message bourne out of frustratio and boredum at times . a fem friend I met currently sits with over 400 unread messages . thats a full time job for christ sake and i think us fellas need to appreciate that people have a life outside fabs walls .

personally ive now chilled about it all and any fun from here is a bonus . however you will always have lads fannying about and thinking its a fuck frenzy where every girl is a sex crazed nympho who will drop their drawers at the very sight of a cock . regardless that she has 500 hundred others in her inbox lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lot of good replies, and I agree wholeheartedly with cunny, Jim and all.

The only time, believe it or not, I got an abusive reply to a mail was when I had sent a longer, I thought, well-considered message and got dog's abuse for writing too much, wasting her time and how all she wanted was people to just send a photo and ask her for a fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lot of good replies, and I agree wholeheartedly with cunny, Jim and all.

Talk about ye cannae win!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"regardless that she has 500 hundred others in her inbox lol "

Could she not just draw names out of a hat?

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By *candiumWoman
over a year ago

oban

at least you get messages! Look at it that way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol. Well, due to me actually recieving a messge first@!!! I sent plenty mesages, swaped pics and we had a meet. Bonded instantly and met again on a proper date kinda thing and now were together although its over distance tempirarilly....still got creases to iron out.

Its ok thouh , shes ace at ironing. Among other things lol

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By *hooWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I've given in. I used to try and be polite with thanks for the meesage but im not looking to play type replys but then some guys just got nasty so now I just delete the ones that I know I wouldn't want to talk to or the lets fuck messages, I think it just saves a lot of hassle x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've given in. I used to try and be polite with thanks for the meesage but im not looking to play type replys but then some guys just got nasty so now I just delete the ones that I know I wouldn't want to talk to or the lets fuck messages, I think it just saves a lot of hassle x "

It's the weird and the nasty who spoil it for everyone.

and, I certainly wouldn't be nasty to you, Rhoo. Unless you wanted me to be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's hard to get initial meets if you are new, but you have to be polite respectful and be ready to accept no's in order to get meets. I think some blokes think it really is a free for all sex pit. Even I have had guys sending messages saying "I want to fuck you" and that's it obviously not reading my profile. Couples too asking for a face pic then not sending one back. Hate that. Maybe am just bogging lol.

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