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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

why is it when u send a message to some pple they dont even reply to u even if its a no thanks or what ever it makes my blood boil arseholes

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By *ilandlarryCouple
over a year ago

more north lincs than mids!

Some people just don't reply. Whether that be because the sender does not fit the criteria and clearly hasn't read the profile or they have received far too much mail

Take it like a man, accept it as a thanks but no thanks and move on.

No need for calling people names, it's quite childish and doesn't make you come across in a very good light Can just imagine your reaction to someone cancelling a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

manners do cost nothing and it would be nice if people would reply to emails from people that fit the initial criteria but its just one of those things. We are going through a patch where our emails are read and not replied to but you take the good with the bad. As said above some people just dont have the time especially girls whos inboxs will be jampacked or mabye they have ran out of messages for the day?

We reply to all emails unless its offensive. Treat others as youd want to be treated yourself xx

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

You've been here a month, so nobody can say you havent given it your best shot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think a simple no thanx would be better, its just rude not too tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont blame people for not answering mail tbh cos most of the time the ppl mailing havnt even bothered to read the profile in the first place........i normally only answer mail to those who have bothered to read the profile.

Lifes too short to get stressed......

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside

A quote from the FAQ section

"There are too many rude people on here who don't reply to my messages!

It's not rude not to reply.

Some ladies and couples get hundreds of messages a day so it simply isn't possible for them to reply to everyone. If you don't get a response, you can safely assume they aren't interested. If you're getting a lot of "no-replies" then you should consider your profile and the messages you send. Are they giving the right message? Are you standing out from the thousands of other guys on here?"

Take it on the chin and move on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also, if the page numbers at bottom i.e. 1,2,3 etc was still there, then we could go back and read the messages, half the time messages off first page before you can see them so you can't reply without deleting the whole first page. Did that even make sense? I'm so crap at being unemployed, my head's mashed lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

as a guy i get 2 maybe 3 messages a week, thats a dawdell to make time to reply to. But do you realise just how many messages a female who has a well put together profile and pics receives on here, literally hundreds so you got to be realistic and understand they cant possibly get round to answering them all. Best you can do is when messaging someone try n put a bit of effort and imagination into them so as to make the girls in question curious enough to want to take time to reply to you.

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Take it on the chin and move on!"

And if your message contains something like that as a chat up line, it probably explains your lack of responses!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

those 2 mins typin a msg to tell someone unsuitable to piss off are never given back so the mail dont suit i dont reply xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i always read there full profile and i alwys reply in a nice way to every maybe am just being to nice . at the time of puttin this on the forum i myself was in a foul mood so maybe i wasnt the best way to go about the way i said things ie arsehole so am sorry if i offended any1 cheers kenny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dont see why your apologising for making a point that we all agree with deep down. x

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