FabSwingers.com forum: A rant

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So many times I read a guy having a go because us women are all fake. He cant get a meet or we have no decency to even reply!

Ive had my profile unhidden for a day and can see why it was. Countless emails demanding instant reply.. erm I do have a life

Then the ones who are seemingly nice so you chat with.. nothing more than general chit chat.. then abuse because you have 'gone quiet'

Surely no reply you leave it.. conversation is basic turn taking.

Then the ones you dont reply to or do to say thanks but no thanks- why cant they take no for an answer??

Ive currently 45 unread emails..its silly.

Men think its tough on here.. try being a woman!

Sorry rant over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here here milfy!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Here here milfy!!

Thanks lovely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But it is annoying to us guys who are genuine though and I do realise it's hard for the ladies too but what can you do???? Lol

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

Just 45? I have 172!! I am on here for me, no-one else and just because I am online does NOT mean I am checking messages.

Don't let it bother you. Answer who you want to, when you want and message those that you are interested in. Doesn't always have to be the guy making the first move x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just 45? I have 172!! I am on here for me, no-one else and just because I am online does NOT mean I am checking messages.

Don't let it bother you. Answer who you want to, when you want and message those that you are interested in. Doesn't always have to be the guy making the first move x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just 45? I have 172!! I am on here for me, no-one else and just because I am online does NOT mean I am checking messages.

Don't let it bother you. Answer who you want to, when you want and message those that you are interested in. Doesn't always have to be the guy making the first move x

I don't understand why people get pushy about it though or angry that s not right or fair

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just 45? I have 172!! I am on here for me, no-one else and just because I am online does NOT mean I am checking messages.

Don't let it bother you. Answer who you want to, when you want and message those that you are interested in. Doesn't always have to be the guy making the first move x"

Totally agree with you there xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just 45? I have 172!! I am on here for me, no-one else and just because I am online does NOT mean I am checking messages.

Don't let it bother you. Answer who you want to, when you want and message those that you are interested in. Doesn't always have to be the guy making the first move x

I don't understand why people get pushy about it though or angry that s not right or fair "
because men need to dump their load and take it out on women when the previous messages contain the word "no"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just 45? I have 172!! I am on here for me, no-one else and just because I am online does NOT mean I am checking messages.

Don't let it bother you. Answer who you want to, when you want and message those that you are interested in. Doesn't always have to be the guy making the first move x

I don't understand why people get pushy about it though or angry that s not right or fair "

Its got a lot to do with dented egos and raging horn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

fancy a shag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my serious answer:

I'm a happy slut..I will talk for a while...if all goes quiet I go elsewhere... maybe I'd catch up at a later time..I'm in no rush to get my cock in someones fanny asap..or before other people do...in fact I dont give a toss who u meet before or after me.

I wont jumnp through hoops...

I will meet who agrees to meet first, I dont like being told 'maybe saturday'...then wait till saturday till I have a reply, thats not me being presumptuous or impatient, because like anyone else(mostly lol), I have other meets that I'm interested in, I have a life outside fab..and I'm not likely to sit around waiting and ending up doing fuck all over the weekend when I've worked all week.

sometimes others forget even as single guys, we also have responsibilities..I dunno why that doesnt get as much importance as other groups get.

rant over...

so...anyway...

fancy that shag!

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

My 2nd answer... Yeah, I am on here to shag!! But I am also fussy about who I meet and take to my bed.

Just because this is a swinging site does not mean that we all drop our kecks for the first one that asks.

Personally, I like to take the time to chat and get to know someone, THEN meet socially to see if we are compatible in person. But hey, that's just me x

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

"fancy a shag"

naw Paddy, yer a twunt!! xxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"fancy a shag

naw Paddy, yer a twunt!! xxxxxxx

aye ok bawhag! xxxxxxxxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Paddy talks a lot of sense.

Its feast or famine by and large and now

And again various options get batted about and someone ends up disappointed. Plenty of couples and single fems spit the dummy if their ego gets a dunt too btw. " your loss etc "

No offence ladies but if the single men decided to all go fishing for a fortnight youd be greetin about the fact that you had no mail.

Theres cretins in all categories on fab. Sadly single male seems to get flagged up as such too often....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Paddy talks a lot of sense.

Its feast or famine by and large and now

And again various options get batted about and someone ends up disappointed. Plenty of couples and single fems spit the dummy if their ego gets a dunt too btw. " your loss etc "

No offence ladies but if the single men decided to all go fishing for a fortnight youd be greetin about the fact that you had no mail.

Theres cretins in all categories on fab. Sadly single male seems to get flagged up as such too often....

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By *uitar_antiheroMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Here here milfy!!

Thanks lovely "

Why don't the two of you come over here. We can bitch & drink wine & stuff.

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

never in 6 years said their loss. Only had 2 no shows in 6 years and even then there was a good reason behind them!!

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

"Here here milfy!!

Thanks lovely

Why don't the two of you come over here. We can bitch & drink wine & stuff.

haw geeeeeeeeeeeeeetaaaaaaaaaaaaaarrr, where's my invite???

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By *uitar_antiheroMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Here here milfy!!

Thanks lovely

Why don't the two of you come over here. We can bitch & drink wine & stuff.

haw geeeeeeeeeeeeeetaaaaaaaaaaaaaarrr, where's my invite???

In da post!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This post? Lmao

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By *uitar_antiheroMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"This post? Lmao"

Royal mail ya clown hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*prepares lube on fist*

What was that?

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By *uitar_antiheroMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"*prepares lube on fist*

What was that?

Oh I......um......I just...um.....I....Andy!!!!!

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By *emon99123Man
over a year ago

London

I know ive got a wee rant about women being fake and all...but, i know youse arent all fake! lol But cant say i've ever resorted to sending abusing messages, thats not gonna get anyone anywhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know goes to show eh

I man

You woman you must empty my load

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By *uitar_antiheroMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"I know goes to show eh

I man

You woman you must empty my load"

Seems fair. What ye all moanin about?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know goes to show eh

I man

You woman you must empty my load"

This one gets it. She'll go far!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As the song says,

"Sometimes it's hard, to be a woman".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you are so lucky to have 2 no show's its been constant let downs for me.... if they don't really want to meet then don't arrange it just annoys the hell out of me as a lot of effort on my part is wasted and so is my day... thennnn they have the cheek to get arsey when i say bo to another so called meet with them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"you are so lucky to have 2 no show's its been constant let downs for me.... if they don't really want to meet then don't arrange it just annoys the hell out of me as a lot of effort on my part is wasted and so is my day... thennnn they have the cheek to get arsey when i say bo to another so called meet with them

Don't give them the chance, anyone who was a no show was reported as such then blocked when I was playing.

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By *rjandmrskCouple
over a year ago

West Dunbartonshire

We have started blocking when we say no after cheeky abusive messages too or repeatedly being asked over and over every week by same folk with exact same message. Or being pestered to show ma tits while on cam in chat. A no is a no ffs not a mibee its a no. U get it all on here. Our experience of timewasters have been couples this year so far. Ach well whit can u dae?

. Mrs k xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been on fab 3 years never had a no show - i get to know someone before meeting them and normally social meet first, chatting to someone gives me a chance to figure out if there time wasters or not - not always gonna work but hasn't let me down yet.

The type of person i would meet is the kind id like to chat to regularly and be friends with - I'm not into quick chat meet and move on but thats my personal taste.

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By *akedninjaMan
over a year ago

edinburgh

So how about you reply to my last message before I spit the dummy out and you have to pacify me by letting me suck on your tits

mama mama mama mia!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've found it's more fun on the forums than chasing people by messages!!

At least everyone(well nearly) here appears like minded!

It's all about fun no?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im not giving anyone a second chance anymore they might not have a life but I do

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

"Here here milfy!!

Thanks lovely

Why don't the two of you come over here. We can bitch & drink wine & stuff.

haw geeeeeeeeeeeeeetaaaaaaaaaaaaaarrr, where's my invite???

In da post!"

I'm sending Bertha!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

aww what ??!! I've been going about this all wrong ! you mean you don't harass the life out someone on the off chance they are going to suddenly turn round and drop their knickers and invite you over ?? There goes my plan then , think ill go ff and write a rant about how all women are timewasters and how i cant get a meet , that's sure to up my chances , thanks guys

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By *uitar_antiheroMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Here here milfy!!

Thanks lovely

Why don't the two of you come over here. We can bitch & drink wine & stuff.

haw geeeeeeeeeeeeeetaaaaaaaaaaaaaarrr, where's my invite???

In da post!

I'm sending Bertha!!!!

Noooooooo!!!!!!!

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Don't let it bother you. Answer who you want to, when you want and message those that you are interested in. Doesn't always have to be the guy making the first move x"

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