FabSwingers.com forum: Straight guy meeting couples

By *issyForDomme OP TV/TS
over a year ago

glasgow

This is something that's been on my mind for a while so thought i would ask how other folk do it so to speak.

As a straight guy i love giving a woman pleasure-kissing all over and not just the mouth, sucking/licking nipples, going down etc etc...

But when it comes to MFM meets I'm a bit reticent as I'm more than sure that the partner enjoys doing all those things for his wife/girlfriend and as does she like him too...but the thought of going down or licking/sucking a nipple just after another guy is just kind off putting lol.

So the question is, how do you folks get around this or does it not bother you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have never found it a problem. After all, they do want you there, and the woman is going to be doing things to you and her man.

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By *issyForDomme OP TV/TS
over a year ago

glasgow

"I have never found it a problem. After all, they do want you there, and the woman is going to be doing things to you and her man. "

But you're bi, so I'm guessing sucking a nipple or going down on the woman right after the other guy has wouldn't be a problem for you. When it comes to the other things, that wasn't my point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I found a lot of guys were being very erm...respectful? Shall we say...in that situation...I usually have to take the dominant role just to get a bit of 'grrr' goin!

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By *issyForDomme OP TV/TS
over a year ago

glasgow

I'm always a fan of a woman taking a dominant role

maybe that's the sort of push i would need to get me over my hang ups...even though i would be slightly hesitant shall we say lol

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By *lassic1Man
over a year ago

bellshill

A large part of the thrill in swinging is not whats being done but who is doing it !!

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By *issyForDomme OP TV/TS
over a year ago

glasgow

Is it just me or are some people missing the point of this!

Basically it's a question to straight guys and how they 'manage' the logistics of a MFM meet, do you not care or does it bother you sucking on a wet saliva covered nipple two seconds after another guy has made it that way? It maybe seems i have to be blunt lol. I won't kiss a bloke so sucking on a nipple or going down on a woman right after another guy has is just a bit...not for me it would seem lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Either you go first, or just don't do 3 somes,

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

I've never had a problem with it either in mfm or mmff. I just go with the flow and take it as it comes. As long as everyone is enjoying themselves and previously set boundaries aren't crossed then it's all good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

only ever had one mmf 3some and certainly never gave it a thought, was really comfortable with the guy and fem. think if any guy was that concerned about it then 3somes certainly wouldn't be for them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have never found it a problem. After all, they do want you there, and the woman is going to be doing things to you and her man.

But you're bi, so I'm guessing sucking a nipple or going down on the woman right after the other guy has wouldn't be a problem for you. When it comes to the other things, that wasn't my point. "

I'm bi, so I have lower standards, is what I'm getting from that. Nice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a single males profile but the issue you have would obviously happen with couples meets too or if we meet a single man. I think that unless you're going to ask the guy or woman to wipe down her nipples or pussy or mouth for that matter before you will put your mouth there then a MMF meet isn't for you as i cant imagine anyone agreeing to that, we certainly wouldnt. As the other guys have said its not a problem for most people by the looks of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This has never even crossed my mind until reading this thread. Cant see any problem personally and if someone was offering to get the j cloth out I think I would be offski......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This has never even crossed my mind until reading this thread. Cant see any problem personally and if someone was offering to get the j cloth out I think I would be offski......"

J cloth and cillit bang...

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

I'm bi, so I have lower standards, is what I'm getting from that. Nice."

Now now Wullie, you know that is not what Sissy meant.....

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Obviously I am not a straight a male...

So I will answer this as a straight female!

Would I suck a guys cock immediately after another female had been sucking it?

Depends on the other female....

Hope that helped

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This has never even crossed my mind until reading this thread. Cant see any problem personally and if someone was offering to get the j cloth out I think I would be offski......

J cloth and cillit bang...

Pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

would I drink from a bottle of water after a friend had d*unk from it? yes I would. would I do same after an auld jake had d*unk from it? no way !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm bi, so I have lower standards, is what I'm getting from that. Nice.

Now now Wullie, you know that is not what Sissy meant....."

It's how it read to me.

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By *issyForDomme OP TV/TS
over a year ago

glasgow

I'm bi, so I have lower standards, is what I'm getting from that. Nice.

Now now Wullie, you know that is not what Sissy meant.....

It's how it read to me."

Well you're obviously reading it wrong aren't you! Why would you assume that i meant bi people have lower standards ffs!

Thanks foe, at least someone gets what i mean.

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By *issyForDomme OP TV/TS
over a year ago

glasgow

"I've had a single males profile but the issue you have would obviously happen with couples meets too or if we meet a single man. I think that unless you're going to ask the guy or woman to wipe down her nipples or pussy or mouth for that matter before you will put your mouth there then a MMF meet isn't for you as i cant imagine anyone agreeing to that, we certainly wouldnt. As the other guys have said its not a problem for most people by the looks of it."

Apparently it isn't for most, it looks like i should change my profile then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is something that's been on my mind for a while so thought i would ask how other folk do it so to speak.

As a straight guy i love giving a woman pleasure-kissing all over and not just the mouth, sucking/licking nipples, going down etc etc...

So the question is, how do you folks get around this or does it not bother you?"

i think you need to do a little bit of work on why you are reticent, and only you can answer that im afraid.

i cant quite figure out if its as simple as being an issue with bodily fluids or something more in terms of how you view your sexuality.

but at the end of the day, if your not comfortable with it avoid it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think yer profile is great the way it is...maybe you just have to be a little more patient, learn to select your meets more carefully, maybe re-read profiles and veri's, swap info with friends, but honest, face to face chat is probs the best way to fine tune your selection process...hope this helps in some way!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like everything else, there's thing we like, things we don't, things we'll do and things we won't, each to their own and do what you're comfortable with

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

For me its about comfot with those involved once comfortable everything happens as it should no scripts just whats right at that moment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For me its about comfot with those involved once comfortable everything happens as it should no scripts just whats right at that moment

So...maybe its not so much comfort, but 'trust' that is key, once ye trust someone, there are no boundaries

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sissy, does that mean you don't French kiss? If you have no objection to sticking your tongue in a woman's mouth (or fanny for that matter) how can you object to a little saliva on a nipple?

If it's a real problem just give it a wipe under the pretext of finding her breast.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Auto correct doesn't like 'fondling' apparently.

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