FabSwingers.com forum: New site rule

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I think the site should make it compulsory that you upload a photo for photo verification before you can start using the site.

That way you would stop all the timewasters and fakes.

Eg guys pretending to be 18 year old girls etc...

I dont really see a bad side to do that plus it proves at least your the right sex lol

What do we all think of that?

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"I think the site should make it compulsory that you upload a photo for photo verification before you can start using the site.

That way you would stop all the timewasters and fakes.

Eg guys pretending to be 18 year old girls etc...

I dont really see a bad side to do that plus it proves at least your the right sex lol

What do we all think of that?"
Agree ive said this many times

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

Good idea but can't see it happening

Plus, even that is open to abuse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What happens When the single guy has a fem friend or x in his pics?

Folk can always get round rules

Me personally....would start a fee if you wanted to join .

Wouldnt cut out all the timewastes but would reduce it alot!

Auds x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never seen the point in photo verification really other than you are the gender you say you are, it doesn't prove you are genuine. Nothing beats the meet in person verification.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I am photo verified but if I was to have my time again, I would not do it.

so I am against.

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

[Removed by poster at 19/03/14 18:30:32]

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

"I've never seen the point in photo verification really other than you are the gender you say you are, it doesn't prove you are genuine. Nothing beats the meet in person verification."

Very true

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

"I've never seen the point in photo verification really other than you are the gender you say you are, it doesn't prove you are genuine. Nothing beats the meet in person verification."

Exactly this ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

photo veri's do virtually nothing but a compulsory monthly fee would out a lot of fakes and time wasters, maybe not all of them but quite a few.

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By *araidWoman
over a year ago

the west (ish)

I see no point in photo verifications either which is why Ive never bothered to do so.

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By *omma49Man
over a year ago

GLASGOW

people should be limited on a daily posting as some on here- are far too keen to see their name on the forums board

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well we think its a good idea...we have done the photo veri...and as u have to hold up yr name on paper but just make it face pic and not naked body, then any girls have pic taken with pals would wonder about the piece of paper with fab name. ...at least that would cut down some fakes

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

"photo veri's do virtually nothing but a compulsory monthly fee would out a lot of fakes and time wasters, maybe not all of them but quite a few."

And the site would lose a lot of genuine people.....

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

"I think the site should make it compulsory that you upload a photo for photo verification before you can start using the site.

So you upload a pic that only admin can see....get photo verified....

Then you upload a load more, without the face....

Oh yea!! Thats really going to out the fakes and time wasters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I see no point in photo verifications either which is why Ive never bothered to do so.

this, and my hubbie and I have been here for many many years

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

pic verification same as cam verification pointless in my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"people should be limited on a daily posting as some on here- are far too keen to see their name on the forums board

Think you must have stumbled on wrong post as this one is about photo verification and not relevant to the OP

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

"people should be limited on a daily posting as some on here- are far too keen to see their name on the forums board

hahahahahah how funny!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Weed out the fakes and timewasters yourselves and stop expecting the site to do it for you.

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

"I've never seen the point in photo verification really other than you are the gender you say you are, it doesn't prove you are genuine. Nothing beats the meet in person verification."

This

just because your photo verified doesn't mean you will turn up

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

"Weed out the fakes and timewasters yourselves and stop expecting the site to do it for you."

And this

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow

"Weed out the fakes and timewasters yourselves and stop expecting the site to do it for you."

Shouldn't have to, especially if you are paying a fee for the use of the site.

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By *oom For 1 MoreMan
over a year ago

Ayrshire

"I've never seen the point in photo verification really other than you are the gender you say you are, it doesn't prove you are genuine. Nothing beats the meet in person verification."

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By *exyducksCouple
over a year ago

west coast

"people should be limited on a daily posting as some on here- are far too keen to see their name on the forums board

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"people should be limited on a daily posting as some on here- are far too keen to see their name on the forums board

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think the site should make it compulsory that you upload a photo for photo verification before you can start using the site.

That way you would stop all the timewasters and fakes.

Eg guys pretending to be 18 year old girls etc...

I dont really see a bad side to do that plus it proves at least your the right sex lol

What do we all think of that?"

I'm not photo verified. But I'm far from fake, or a timewaster. Does that mean I shouldn't be allowed to use site?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its been very rare I've been let down over the years..and I've barely had to do whats suggested by lots

webcam

photo veri

paying members

I fail to see how many people can get it wrong after being on the site for so long...it could be they are-

thick

gullible

fussy in the judgmental sense

shit at communication

unfriendly

too serious

set hoops for people to jump through

forgotten its supposed to be fun

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By *ouise and jamieCouple
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Why not have an arranged meet function were you both agree meet on site, time place etc. that's then logged by both parties then if they are fakers or dude playing a couple or whatever feedback can be left. Each person/couple would have a rating either positive or negative.

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes

"I think the site should make it compulsory that you upload a photo for photo verification before you can start using the site.

That way you would stop all the timewasters and fakes.

Eg guys pretending to be 18 year old girls etc...

I dont really see a bad side to do that plus it proves at least your the right sex lol

What do we all think of that?

I'm not photo verified. But I'm far from fake, or a timewaster. Does that mean I shouldn't be allowed to use site?"

Same here. Frankly I am sick and tired of people demanding the site do this, that or the other. We are all adults, allegedly, so should take responsibility for sorting out things ourselves. Someone will be wanting the site owners to start matching us up with genuine meets next!!!!!!

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes

"its been very rare I've been let down over the years..and I've barely had to do whats suggested by lots

webcam

photo veri

paying members

I fail to see how many people can get it wrong after being on the site for so long...it could be they are-

thick

gullible

fussy in the judgmental sense

shit at communication

unfriendly

too serious

set hoops for people to jump through

forgotten its supposed to be fun"

This too

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

"Weed out the fakes and timewasters yourselves and stop expecting the site to do it for you.

Shouldn't have to, especially if you are paying a fee for the use of the site."
you dont pay for the use of the site you pay to show support for the site. in return the site gives you extra functionality (extra cam docks , looked at me list , extra pictures , and the all important msg thread for keeping up to date with whats written before)

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Frankly I am sick and tired of people demanding the site do this, that or the other. We are all adults, allegedly, so should take responsibility for sorting out things ourselves. Someone will be wanting the site owners to start matching us up with genuine meets next!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"its been very rare I've been let down over the years..and I've barely had to do whats suggested by lots

webcam

photo veri

paying members

I fail to see how many people can get it wrong after being on the site for so long...it could be they are-

thick

gullible

fussy in the judgmental sense

shit at communication

unfriendly

too serious

set hoops for people to jump through

forgotten its supposed to be fun

This too

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By *lue4youCouple
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

Peeps who know us, know us. Those who don't know us can read the veris. We are genuine and will genuinely never post face pics, even if only to be _iewed by the moderators. If this became a prerequisite of the site we would certainly leave. Discretion is an absolute must. Love N Lust

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Peeps who know us, know us. Those who don't know us can read the veris. We are genuine and will genuinely never post face pics, even if only to be _iewed by the moderators. If this became a prerequisite of the site we would certainly leave. Discretion is an absolute must. Love N Lust

Yip - you pair are as fake and waste time as much as me! Lol!

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Yip - you pair are as fake and waste time as much as me! Lol!"
And me

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By *omma49Man
over a year ago

GLASGOW

whether a person has photo verification or not means nothing whatsoever, you only really find out, how un-balanced some women can be, when you actually meet them in person having dated on sites, other than swingers sites, it's only when you meet and get to know them what they are really like, profiles are not really an indicator of much of a nutter they are,

even when you don't meet anyone on here face to face- they have the audacity to think they know you!!!

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By *omma49Man
over a year ago

GLASGOW

Rules mean nothing to many on here, they constantly flout them, thinking they know better, so why have a posting on rules anyway- maybe those that moan about rules, should leave and let those willing to follow the rules enjoy the site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"whether a person has photo verification or not means nothing whatsoever, you only really find out, how un-balanced some women can be, when you actually meet them in person having dated on sites, other than swingers sites, it's only when you meet and get to know them what they are really like, profiles are not really an indicator of much of a nutter they are,

even when you don't meet anyone on here face to face- they have the audacity to think they know you!!!"

Who stole your scone tomma

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

even when you don't meet anyone on here face to face- they have the audacity to think they know you!!!

Who stole your scone tomma

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no doubt it was one of those un-balanced women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

even when you don't meet anyone on here face to face- they have the audacity to think they know you!!!"

Why are the women the unbalanced ones? I dont remember the last time I saw a thread started by a woman along the lines of "anyone like being dressed up in a boiler suit with the arse cut out of it and flogged with a wet sock? PM me if you want to do that to me!" No, that's ALWAYS blokes.

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By *ilandlarryCouple
over a year ago

more north lincs than mids!

"I see no point in photo verifications either which is why Ive never bothered to do so.

this, and my hubbie and I have been here for many many years"

this is our thought on it too

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes

even when you don't meet anyone on here face to face- they have the audacity to think they know you!!!

That made me chuckle!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't expect the site to babysit you. Use your own initiative. Look at recent veri's by actually meeting, not webcam veris. Talk to people if their couples and single fems on the phone before arranging a meet. Bit of common sense and doing your homework and not expecting the site to out timewasters or fakes for you goes a long way to success on here.

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

You would need to be unbalanced to meet some on here

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

even when you don't meet anyone on here face to face- they have the audacity to think they know you!!!"

I know enough about some on here to know I never want to meet them

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

"You would need to be unbalanced to meet some on here

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I think folk have taken the conversation in the wrong way.

The photo verification upload is just to prove that you are the sex you say you are thats it.

This was because there has been a lot of new profiles on the site from teens with lasting only a few days if that before they are deleted.

Dont get me wrong they may be genuine but most are fake and it would stop guys pretending so they can troll as so many people have complained about.

It was the fake that the function is there it just needs to be moved to the new profile setup section.

Lol

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Thats why i think its a good idea too it stops ppl setting up fake accounds ie males pretending to be couples or females or females pretending to be male or couples .

Most on here long enough are good at sussing out the fakes but im sure even some of the long standing memebers have been caught out in this way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It could still be abused, best mates doing it for each other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couldn't pitcureverify me, the camera glass kept cracking, I'm so ugly.

So glad that very by actual meet is the best and always will be. That way people can see me in the flesh and see why it is so hard to look into my eyes

xx peter

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