FabSwingers.com forum: MONEY & HAPPINESS :)

By *akedninja OP Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

Money is numbers and numbers never end. If it takes money to be happy, your search for happiness will never end (bob marley)

doe's money truely equate to happiness or can one find happiness without being in possession of an excessive amount of money?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont think money equals happiness, but it certainly helps!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had money, and I've been skint, and I'm never happy..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Money doesn't buy happiness but it buys a jetski

Ever seen a sad person driving a jetski?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I dont think money equals happiness, but it certainly helps!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't make you happy no .....just gives you far more opportunities in life.....which in turn can bring about happiness

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By *akedninja OP Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

"I've had money, and I've been skint, and I'm never happy.."
haha good point....all the more reason that money cant buy you love...unless of course you've got money to buy a thai/russian bride

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By *akedninja OP Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

"Doesn't make you happy no .....just gives you far more opportunities in life.....which in turn can bring about happiness

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im inclined to agree with you on that..although i think that money can bring unhappiness....the happiest ive ever been in my life was when i had no money....then again i was growing up in the caribbean at the time ...someplace where most folk long to be whether they have money or not lol more money,more problems lol ...i've lost countless friends through lending them money and i've lost thousands trying to help people out of financial difficulties when i could ill afford to lose the money myself lol money is the root of all evil! let's bring back a system or barter!

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By *akedninja OP Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

"Money doesn't buy happiness but it buys a jetski

Ever seen a sad person driving a jetski? "
i had several jetski's at one point and i quickly lost my smile when i ran out of diesel a mile or two out from the beach lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd rather be the poorest person on this earth and have happiness and love than be filthy rich and miserable.

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By *akedninja OP Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

"I'd rather be the poorest person on this earth and have happiness and love than be filthy rich and miserable.

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hmmm the thing is that the majorty of those in the world that fall into the "poorest in the world" catergory are far from happy lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

don't think it can, but I'd like to try n see

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By *akedninja OP Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

"don't think it can, but I'd like to try n see

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lol gimme a shout if you win the lottery and i can help you find out either way lol

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

We have lived in both worlds .... no money and comfortably off .... not any happier now than I was then x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the Easterlin Paradox.

Apparently the happiest people are those who are concerned with the welfare of others. In other words, you'd rather friends got more money than you!

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow

Should happiness be the ultimate goal?

What about contentment?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Money doesn't mean happiness. There are things I have that cost nothing that make me happy, and there are things I'd trade all the money I have to bring back. (Would I rather have my mum back or my inheritance? My mum please).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Money doesn't mean happiness. There are things I have that cost nothing that make me happy, and there are things I'd trade all the money I have to bring back. (Would I rather have my mum back or my inheritance? My mum please)."

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By *akedninja OP Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

"We have lived in both worlds .... no money and comfortably off .... not any happier now than I was then x"
so you gonna donate your wealth to us poor fabbers so we can experience how the other half lives?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont know if i would feel stressed by having bills and too much money! if anyone would like to donate to me in an effort to cheer yourself up and test the theory about jetskis go right ahead.

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By *akedninja OP Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

"i dont know if i would feel stressed by having bills and too much money! if anyone would like to donate to me in an effort to cheer yourself up and test the theory about jetskis go right ahead. "
haha nice try matey,get in the que behind me on that one lol

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow

money doesn't buy happiness though you can be miserable in warmer climate's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Should happiness be the ultimate goal?

What about contentment?"

Peace , love and contentment .. isn't it what most folk in life desire...(not forgetting some amazing sex)

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By *akedninja OP Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

"Should happiness be the ultimate goal?

What about contentment?

Peace , love and contentment .. isn't it what most folk in life desire...(not forgetting some amazing sex)

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oh yea baby,and world peace!

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

"We have lived in both worlds .... no money and comfortably off .... not any happier now than I was then xso you gonna donate your wealth to us poor fabbers so we can experience how the other half lives?

Lol its not what you have its who you have x

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By *akedninja OP Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

Lol its not what you have its who you have x"
well what if who you have is not who you want to have in your life? Then I guess it's at that point that one can derive some small measure of satisfaction and enjoyment from "what you have" at that point as you know what they say "you can choose your friends but not your family"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"don't think it can, but I'd like to try n see

lol gimme a shout if you win the lottery and i can help you find out either way lol

ooooh ninja..........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

didnae win, try again on Friday

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

Lol its not what you have its who you have xwell what if who you have is not who you want to have in your life? Then I guess it's at that point that one can derive some small measure of satisfaction and enjoyment from "what you have" at that point as you know what they say "you can choose your friends but not your family"

Oh I know that scenario well ... well enough that we dont speak to our families

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry but bullocks to "can money make you happy " yes it can,trust me on that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Move to a 3rd world country and live like a king...........lol

"Sorry but bullocks to "can money make you happy " yes it can,trust me on that."

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

"Should happiness be the ultimate goal?

What about contentment?"

Dictionary meaning of contentment.....state of happiness or satisfaction.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

enough money to not have to worry about it and not so much people want to take it from you

Enough for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Money can't in itself bring you happiness but if your comfortably well off then it takes away financial worries that others have therefor eliminating a lot of stress from your life so you can concentrate on doing things that make you happy. Would much rather have a healthy body than have a healthy bank balance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally think happiness wins every time. I had everything. ..money cars house etc...but was so unhappy...why I won't go into...but I upped left with clothes on my back. ..had nothin...and I am happy as a wee piggy in shite now lol....money can't buy happiness. Miss shaggy

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By *akedninja OP Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

"I personally think happiness wins every time. I had everything. ..money cars house etc...but was so unhappy...why I won't go into...but I upped left with clothes on my back. ..had nothin...and I am happy as a wee piggy in shite now lol....money can't buy happiness. Miss shaggy

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"mo' money, mo' problems!"

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By *akedninja OP Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

true happiness come's from within and you dont need money or possessions to obtain it as happiness is a state of mind.....some people find happiness in possessions some people are happier not to have anything...sometimes the things we own end's up owning us....we should all look within ourselves and dig deep and see what really makes us happy....for me personally having lived on all walks of life i've come to realise that my happiness comes from being safe and sorrounded by good people who are trusthworthy,realiable and honest....to have people like that in your life is priceless....quality over quantity...but having said that...a few million quid wouldnt go a miss

lol xxx

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By *akedninja OP Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

"Move to a 3rd world country and live like a king...........lol

Sorry but bullocks to "can money make you happy " yes it can,trust me on that."
kings are often de-throned...especially in volatile 3rd world countries ....incidentally i happen to hail from one such dastardly place

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By *akedninja OP Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

"didnae win, try again on Friday

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fingers crossed then

hehe xxx

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By *ime For ItMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Health is more important than money...and Time to do the things you enjoy most is more valuable than money.

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By *akedninja OP Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

"Health is more important than money...and Time to do the things you enjoy most is more valuable than money."
health is wealth and if time is money then money is time

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By *akedninja OP Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

Do not educate your child to be rich. Educate him to be happy, so that when he grows up he knows the value of things not the price

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By *eeflower69Woman
over a year ago

edinburgh

Money is not the root of all evil, the actual quote is "the love of money is the root of all evil". Focusing on money to the exclusion of all else is not a good thing.

However they don't call it grinding poverty for nothing.

I have been so poor I couldn't afford to buy food and now I'm quite comfortably off and I am much happier. I can afford to pay all my bills and still have money to stuff I like.

I wouldn't want millions, that would change my life far to much.

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By *akedninja OP Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

"Money is not the root of all evil, the actual quote is "the love of money is the root of all evil". Focusing on money to the exclusion of all else is not a good thing.

However they don't call it grinding poverty for nothing.

I have been so poor I couldn't afford to buy food and now I'm quite comfortably off and I am much happier. I can afford to pay all my bills and still have money to stuff I like.

I wouldn't want millions, that would change my life far to much.

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im inclined to disagree with you there me dear despite whatever the original quote may technically be i would have to say that much evil is initiated as a direct result of money and having grown up in grinding punishing poverty in a 3rd world country i've really seen and experienced things that most folk wouldnt want to believe and i've come to realise many things about the introduction of paper money as a means of currency in modern day society which is why im firmly in favour of returning to a system or barter where people would be less inclined to sit about and wait on a handout or expect the world to fall at their feet simply because they have a whole forest's worth of paper money squirelled away in some offshore bank account

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By *eeflower69Woman
over a year ago

edinburgh

I can see where you're coming from but I think it's human nature to be greedy and whatever system we use there will always be people who abuse it.

The desire to persue wealth and possessions are the driving force for many people and it's what consumerism is based on. I think that tells us a lot about human nature. People are just not nice.

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By *akedninja OP Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

"I can see where you're coming from but I think it's human nature to be greedy and whatever system we use there will always be people who abuse it.

The desire to persue wealth and possessions are the driving force for many people and it's what consumerism is based on. I think that tells us a lot about human nature. People are just not nice. "
people are parasite's a fact that's further exemplified by the mantra of capitalism in the wall street movie "greed is good" and as with any parasitic relationship the host generally always die's and most definitely suffer's a loss which throw's the nature of things out of balance and this is not good ultimately for all concerned ...such is life!

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By *ikerbob1957Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

I inherited a bit of money from my dear old grey haired mum.

I would happily hand it all back to have her around as I miss her wisdom and common sense.

As that is not possible I would rather be penniless but have the love of a good woman.

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

I know a few rich people, who are also unhappy.

So Wealth doesn't always make you happy,

for some,it's just unhappiness,in a bigger house.

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By *oasterCockbumMan
over a year ago

Highway 61

Money just gives you the opportunity to not be unhappy about money ..... and it can make yer wummin happy by buyin her a new pair of tits when her auld yins git aw saggy an are mare like knee pads ...

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

money can make you happy if I had some id help others and see the looks on their faces im a giver see

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By *amaraBeaverbankWoman
over a year ago

Benidorm Spain

I'm not greedy as all I want is enough not to worry and be stressed, be able to treat those close to me once in a while ans to be able to pay my bills.

Money doesn't make me happy but struggling really brings you down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I dont think money equals happiness, but it certainly helps!!

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I agree with you. True happiness comes from within us and being with the one we truly care for and love. Just my opinion.

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By *akedninja OP Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

"I inherited a bit of money from my dear old grey haired mum.

I would happily hand it all back to have her around as I miss her wisdom and common sense.

As that is not possible I would rather be penniless but have the love of a good woman."
I fully agree with you on that one as id rather have me dear old mom around than a small fortune which is just aswell because me dear old mom doesn't have a small fortune for me to inherit

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By *akedninja OP Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

"money can make you happy if I had some id help others and see the looks on their faces im a giver see

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I dont think we've been formally introduced.....

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By *akedninja OP Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

"I'm not greedy as all I want is enough not to worry and be stressed, be able to treat those close to me once in a while ans to be able to pay my bills.

Money doesn't make me happy but struggling really brings you down"
preach on mammacita

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im poor but fairly happy..Money would be nice so I could do more but then id miss the sense of achievement when you have something or do something you didn't think you would. I also think that even if rich id still be in the sale section of the shops!

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By *akedninja OP Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

"Im poor but fairly happy..Money would be nice so I could do more but then id miss the sense of achievement when you have something or do something you didn't think you would. I also think that even if rich id still be in the sale section of the shops! "
five finger discounts is it? lol

i like a challenge and i personally think that the best things in life are free

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By *arlstormMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Money is numbers and numbers never end. If it takes money to be happy, your search for happiness will never end (bob marley)

doe's money truely equate to happiness or can one find happiness without being in possession of an excessive amount of money?

Access to the things you want in life equates to happiness... Unfortunately in our culture money is the means to that. If there was another way money would be pointless.

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