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It doesn't matter??!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've read countless profiles of men, women and couples where they say"age, looks, size, etc unimportant"

Surely it is??

I'm not shallow but come on you need an attraction and a connection at least? Or are some people really that desperate?!

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


" Or are some people really that desperate?!

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Yes!

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

BUT.......Some see past the looks, age and size of others....and have a great time once they have met them...

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

Yep some people are

But I will say I've had some great fun with folk that I probably wouldn't think about "dating" but there has always gotta be some sort of connection be it physical or mental

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too what you think is gorgeous and funny maybe or might not be to to other people's likings and might be total opposite to what you consider "not your type" for other people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At first I just wanted kinky fun with dirty minds and I didn't mind too much. But after a few meets I decided I am only accepting people who I am attracted to.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"At first I just wanted kinky fun with dirty minds and I didn't mind too much. But after a few meets I decided I am only accepting people who I am attracted to. "

An attraction of the mind can be very powerful.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Too what you think is gorgeous and funny maybe or might not be to to other people's likings and might be total opposite to what you consider "not your type" for other people"

Absolutely true. Thats why its all so interesting

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"BUT.......Some see past the looks, age and size of others....and have a great time once they have met them...

"

Yes once you get to know someone a personality can make them beautiful.

Its more people on here who just seem to meet and play with anyone right away. No time to get to know and with no instant "mmmm" moment lol

Everyone is different though. Maybe thats part of the thrill?

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

A lot of guys will shag for shagging sake whether they are attracted to the female or not ,and im sure many women have too.

Its entirly up to the individual who they wish to get intimate with and for me there definitley has to be an attraction both on a looks and personality .

I think if there is a real connection between two people the sex just gets better and better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Suppose its just like going out to a bar. You might not like someone initially to look at but if you get talking to them then they might have a really likeable nature or great sense of humour and you find yourself being attracted to them ..

when it comes to it when we are all old and lose our looks and sex appeal its what's on the inside that counts and if that's not there

to start off with then it does nothing for me

As fi says what one finds attractive another doesn't . We see couples in every day life whom I'm sure we have all looked at and thought omg can't believe he's with her or she's with him. Its takes all sorts as they say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"BUT.......Some see past the looks, age and size of others....and have a great time once they have met them...

Yes once you get to know someone a personality can make them beautiful.

Its more people on here who just seem to meet and play with anyone right away. No time to get to know and with no instant "mmmm" moment lol

Everyone is different though. Maybe thats part of the thrill? "

Yeah I agree with you I think everyone is beautiful as we all have something another doesn't I'm noticing just recently that women/men aren't taking time to know someone I know swinging is all about having but I'd at least expect to get spoken with or met on a social basis first it is a kink for some people just to fuck a stranger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fun for goodness sake lol stupid phone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At first I just wanted kinky fun with dirty minds and I didn't mind too much. But after a few meets I decided I am only accepting people who I am attracted to.

An attraction of the mind can be very powerful."

Agree completely, and I genuinely find someone who is intelligent, funny, witty, and who I click with mentally to be faaaar more of a turn on than just looks. Looks, although it's a cliche, are a bonus for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Unimportant" translates as "Any hole is a goal", AKA not fussy/desperate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

any holes a mole

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By *omma49Man
over a year ago

GLASGOW

depends on personal perception of how attractive or ugly you are, some people can look good, but can be the blackest of souls, with no empathy for anyone- and quite frankly a nice face with a great figure means, nothing if your soul is as black as night, and you have no empathy for other folks feelings- means your an empty cold-hearted person, who has only one view- THEIRS!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And there are some of us who have no soul.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And there are some of us who have no soul."

Mine was removed to make more room for sarcasm

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow


"And there are some of us who have no soul."

Did anyone mention Nurse Ratshit ?

( running to hide now back next week )

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow


"And there are some of us who have no soul."

No soul, no morals, no scruples, and that's just the guys!

What's this place coming to???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am one of those with it on my profile and happy to have it, much rather meet, chat and see if we get along enough to take it further, my profile ask for interesting or even better intriguing women and if you are interesting or intriguing appearance can be irrelevant

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"I am one of those with it on my profile and happy to have it, much rather meet, chat and see if we get along enough to take it further, my profile ask for interesting or even better intriguing women and if you are interesting or intriguing appearance can be irrelevant"
so what attracts you enough to ask someone for a meet in the first place ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am one of those with it on my profile and happy to have it, much rather meet, chat and see if we get along enough to take it further, my profile ask for interesting or even better intriguing women and if you are interesting or intriguing appearance can be irrelevantso what attracts you enough to ask someone for a meet in the first place ?"

I'm a weirdo, I actually read profiles

For example, would happily ask to meet you but having read your profile I'm too old so wont

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"I am one of those with it on my profile and happy to have it, much rather meet, chat and see if we get along enough to take it further, my profile ask for interesting or even better intriguing women and if you are interesting or intriguing appearance can be irrelevantso what attracts you enough to ask someone for a meet in the first place ?

I'm a weirdo, I actually read profiles

For example, would happily ask to meet you but having read your profile I'm too old so wont "
so what is it on my profile that makes you think id like to meet her?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am one of those with it on my profile and happy to have it, much rather meet, chat and see if we get along enough to take it further, my profile ask for interesting or even better intriguing women and if you are interesting or intriguing appearance can be irrelevantso what attracts you enough to ask someone for a meet in the first place ?

I'm a weirdo, I actually read profiles

For example, would happily ask to meet you but having read your profile I'm too old so wont so what is it on my profile that makes you think id like to meet her?"

That's personal and not for public consumption so would rather explain that as a PM but as I'm too old I can't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At first I just wanted kinky fun with dirty minds and I didn't mind too much. But after a few meets I decided I am only accepting people who I am attracted to.

An attraction of the mind can be very powerful."

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"

An attraction of the mind can be very powerful. "

Hence the "Age, looks, size etc being unimportant"........To some....

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