FabSwingers.com forum: A ? for ALL

By *1cebren4u OP Woman
over a year ago

clydebank

As most of you fabbers know me well and know I say it as it is,well in the last six months had a gentleman mailing me he lives approx 50 miles from me. Ive said I will meet for a coffee to see if we connect and take it from there but cant get thru to him as ppl on here use pictures from years ago some come scruffy and you don't always connect so there fore don't want to play , don't you think there must be a connection before you can go to bed with someone or do fabber's just play with anything that has a pulse these days, he seems a nice guy but he needs to know that people do have their own choices.

Hope this post don't get removed.

Brennie

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

Always has to be a connection Bren .... some peoples status never cease to amaze me "doesnt matter what shape or size still want to meet"! wtf why why why .....????

PS hope you are well xx

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By *1cebren4u OP Woman
over a year ago

clydebank

"Always has to be a connection Bren .... some peoples status never cease to amaze me "doesnt matter what shape or size still want to meet"! wtf why why why .....????

PS hope you are well xx

im well ty trace just cant it thru to him lol xxxx coffee lol and if we don't like each other then go separate ways lol xxx

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By *dippyhippyWoman
over a year ago

peterhead

there's got to be a connection, wot's the point of shagging someone that doesn't turn u on

xxxx

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By *O LEE FUKMan
over a year ago

Midlothian

I can separate between a fuck and a fuck with emotion.

Whilst it's good to find a girl sexually attractive its also good to just fuck and move on.

Doggy was invented so even the ugly girls can fuck without having to look at each other.

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By *rsKandMrJCouple
over a year ago

West Dunbartonshire ish

Totally agree Bren has to be a connection or we have to click. Not into serial shags at all lol. Kazz xxx

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By *1cebren4u OP Woman
over a year ago

clydebank

"I can separate between a fuck and a fuck with emotion.

Whilst it's good to find a girl sexually attractive its also good to just fuck and move on.

Doggy was invented so even the ugly girls can fuck without having to look at each other.

I can also separate a fuck and one with emotion But ppl have to have a connection and be clean and smart every one is beautiful in life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My profile says age,size etc irrelevant, looking for interesting, have to meet and chat for that, sometimes it won't work, happens, a meet does not always lead to sex

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

I'm with you on this Bren. If I don't like the person, it will never happen. Sometimes there are people who I really like but still wouldn't play with as it just doesn't feel right, but I still value their friendship.

Then there are the ones who I soooo would but who don't find me attractive - and that's fine too. If I make a new friend then that's great, if not, well we have a cuppa, shake hands and move on

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By *ky HookMan
over a year ago

Dundee

"I can separate between a fuck and a fuck with emotion."

So can we all!!! When emotion is included thats not fcuking or pumping but lovemaking.

"Whilst it's good to find a girl sexually attractive its also good to just fuck and move on."

The "fuck and move on" is N.S.A. fun BUT that isnt the same as fcuking someone who 'you' finds unattractive. Those who do that are, in my honest oppinion, desperate, childish, professionals or any combination of the three.

"Doggy was invented so even the ugly girls can fuck without having to look at each other.

Doggie was invented by one of the most beautiful women the accient world. Cleopatra!!! She just didnt want to have to look at Ceaser's decrepit excuse of a comb-over trying to make himself look hansome and young instead of the hackitt dirty auld man he was.

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By *ky HookMan
over a year ago

Dundee

Btw Brennie it was fantastic meeting you Sat night. Hope you had a great time? X

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By *ensuallityMan
over a year ago

Perth

Couldn't and most certainly wouldn't shag just anyone. Totally agree Bren there has to be a connection for me. So coffee meet first then see.

Kay

PS. Older does not mean desperate !!

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By *ky HookMan
over a year ago

Dundee

"Couldn't and most certainly wouldn't shag just anyone. Totally agree Bren there has to be a connection for me. So coffee meet first then see.

Kay

PS. Older does not mean desperate !!"

Agree with you totally Kay

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By *ouncingBiscuitsWoman
over a year ago

toy town, Glasgow

connection and attraction is a must ive met someone socially thank god

and he was at least 7-8 stone heavier than his pic and at least 10yrs older, now i wont meet unless i get 2 see them on cam not that i meet often , and also like you bren i shoot from the hip and say it as i see it , i told him he was false advertising himself and a few more things but since im a shy and innocent like we soul ,i wont divulge that in the forums as id no doubt get a ban haha

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

People do things their own way....

If this guy never got it the first time I mentioned it....I would simply ignore and move on....

Some just not worth the effort

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By *O LEE FUKMan
over a year ago

Midlothian

"When emotion is included thats not fcuking or pumping but lovemaking."

Lovemaking ? you fucking serious so if a girl is drop dead gorgeous and you meet and fuck your making love ? laugh i nearly chocked on my chicken chow mein.

The emotion i was meaning was hell yes i'd fuck her silly again and again.

"The "fuck and move on" is N.S.A. fun BUT that isnt the same as fcuking someone who 'you' finds unattractive. Those who do that are, in my honest oppinion, desperate, childish, professionals or any combination of the three."

Or just horny and using the site as they wish which is there choice.

Course there will be some who try to gain shag points by agreeing with the "nice" view but lets face it ever known many guys to knock a fuck back ?

"Doggie was invented by one of the most beautiful women the accient world. Cleopatra!!! She just didnt want to have to look at Ceaser's decrepit excuse of a comb-over trying to make himself look hansome and young instead of the hackitt dirty auld man he was."

Which was my point entirely, glad you agree with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would always meet socially first, sometimes you can find someone to be really attractive but there's still that something that makes you feel things just not right. As you say there's got to be a connection felt by both of youse

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

Such a turn off to know the guy is fucking you just because your another hole. Definitely wouldnt sleep with someone if there wasnt an attraction.....

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By *O LEE FUKMan
over a year ago

Midlothian

"Such a turn off to know the guy is fucking you just because your another hole. Definitely wouldnt sleep with someone if there wasnt an attraction.....

Guys tell you what you want to hear then after they fuck you do the complete opposite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As most of you fabbers know me well and know I say it as it is,well in the last six months had a gentleman mailing me he lives approx 50 miles from me. Ive said I will meet for a coffee to see if we connect and take it from there but cant get thru to him as ppl on here use pictures from years ago some come scruffy and you don't always connect so there fore don't want to play , don't you think there must be a connection before you can go to bed with someone or do fabber's just play with anything that has a pulse these days, he seems a nice guy but he needs to know that people do have their own choices.

Hope this post don't get removed.

Brennie

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What do you determ as a connection?

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

"Such a turn off to know the guy is fucking you just because your another hole. Definitely wouldnt sleep with someone if there wasnt an attraction.....

Guys tell you what you want to hear then after they fuck you do the complete opposite

Would agree with you mostly but not with the guys I meet because they return for more so I must be doing something right

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By *O LEE FUKMan
over a year ago

Midlothian

"Such a turn off to know the guy is fucking you just because your another hole. Definitely wouldnt sleep with someone if there wasnt an attraction.....

Guys tell you what you want to hear then after they fuck you do the complete opposite

Would agree with you mostly but not with the guys I meet because they return for more so I must be doing something right "

I'd say your a great fuck course the proof be in the pudding

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There surely has to be a connection, and by connection i mean fancy, both physically and mentally. NSA does not mean that you have to shag everyone who offers nor do you have to lower standards. Doggy is only one position and if you only use that, then you arent worth shagging in first place in my opinion. Coffee, lunch, drink however you choose to meet, it has to be on your terms not only to see if you click but also for safety. By the way oink oink Bren lol x

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By *ky HookMan
over a year ago

Dundee

"When emotion is included thats not fcuking or pumping but lovemaking.

Lovemaking ? you fucking serious so if a girl is drop dead gorgeous and you meet and fuck your making love ? laugh i nearly chocked on my chicken chow mein.

The emotion i was meaning was hell yes i'd fuck her silly again and again."

Attraction isnt an Emotion its a chemical reaction. Your "hell yes" stuff is attraction. Emotion is feelings for the person on more than the physical level.

Or just horny and using the site as they wish which is there choice.

Course there will be some who try to gain shag points by agreeing with the "nice" view but lets face it ever known many guys to knock a fuck back ?"

Yeah Ive said no a few times!!!!

Which was my point entirely, glad you agree with me

No I disagree because you never mentioned ugly men only women.

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By *O LEE FUKMan
over a year ago

Midlothian

"Which was my point entirely, glad you agree with me

No I disagree because you never mentioned ugly men only women.

who else is gonna fuck a girl like ?

hence i said each other as she might think i'm fucking ugly but a good shag.

If your going to pick holes just say so and i'll get the pop corn out

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

I'm not the least bit interested in the 'any hole's a goal' brigade.

I have to feel a physical and mental attraction to those I have sex with

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By *ky HookMan
over a year ago

Dundee

"Which was my point entirely, glad you agree with me

No I disagree because you never mentioned ugly men only women.

who else is gonna fuck a girl like ?

hence i said each other as she might think i'm fucking ugly but a good shag.

If your going to pick holes just say so and i'll get the pop corn out

I cant quite decide if youre trying to piss me off or being serious. So I'll leave you to sexist uneducated closed minded view of the world.

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By *O LEE FUKMan
over a year ago

Midlothian

"I cant quite decide if youre trying to piss me off or being serious. So I'll leave you to sexist uneducated closed minded view of the world. "

"fcuking someone who 'you' finds unattractive. Those who do that are, in my honest oppinion, desperate, childish, professionals or any combination of the three."

Uneducated like your post above

Usually find someone gets personal when they are uneducated or offer a stupid shag me in agreement post

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By *1cebren4u OP Woman
over a year ago

clydebank

Hope this post don't get removed.

Brennie

What do you determ as a connection?"

By getting along in chat (face to face) having a laugh being put at ease finding that person attractive ie fancy them lol enough to make me want to jump in the sac with them, being clean and tidy and most of all being the same person that is in the pictures that are sent to you xx

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

i, a virgin but when the time comes it will be with connection

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By *1cebren4u OP Woman
over a year ago

clydebank

"i, a virgin but when the time comes it will be with connection

I fucking nearly choked then kola pmsl xxxxx you a virgin lol xxxx

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

"i, a virgin but when the time comes it will be with connection

I fucking nearly choked then kola pmsl xxxxx you a virgin lol xxxx"
dont worry i wont say about the lift bj first time we met

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By *1cebren4u OP Woman
over a year ago

clydebank

"i, a virgin but when the time comes it will be with connection

I fucking nearly choked then kola pmsl xxxxx you a virgin lol xxxxdont worry i wont say about the lift bj first time we met

ill give you more than a bj lol xxxx

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

"i, a virgin but when the time comes it will be with connection

I fucking nearly choked then kola pmsl xxxxx you a virgin lol xxxxdont worry i wont say about the lift bj first time we met

ill give you more than a bj lol xxxx

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and a slap up meal !!!

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Doggie was invented by one of the most beautiful women the accient world. Cleopatra!!! "

Think you are mistaking Cleopatra for a young Liz Taylor!!!!

Cleopatra wasnt THAT good looking!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

have to disagree. I dont always have to have a connection. sometimes i just want to fuck with a beautiful person so i dont care what their chat is. I will never see them again so who cares if we 'bond' and 'get to know' one another

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

So you don't need any conversation, or a mutual attraction then?

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland

Depends what you are looking for , everyone's different ....

Sometimes we have looked for a shag, no real chat just fuck n go kinda thing....never seen them or been in contact as such again....

Sometimes we like a friendship type fun relationship where we can socialise or fuck or both.

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

Each to their own, fuck and go doesn't appeal to me

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By *lue4youCouple
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

Try the schrodinger's cat thing xxx You been talking for six months, that's a long time. Obviously something of interest. You never know.. till you open the box xxxx

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow

It takes all types, swinging is different things to different people, different people are looking for different things via Fab.

Probably the most helpful thing would be if people took a few minutes to do a proper profile, and being honest about what they're looking for, and detailing their preferences.

Is it really rocket science?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy blindfolded gangbangs...though I'm sure that was a guys mouth I was in...maybe because of the tash...then again...maybe it was 'hers'

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By *ky HookMan
over a year ago

Dundee

"Cleopatra wasnt THAT good looking!!!

The roman historians said she was the most beautiful woman of her age. She managed to captivate the hearts of two of the three most powerful men of her time. So she cant have been too bad

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By *ky HookMan
over a year ago

Dundee

"have to disagree. I dont always have to have a connection. sometimes i just want to fuck with a beautiful person so i dont care what their chat is. I will never see them again so who cares if we 'bond' and 'get to know' one another"

But there is still the attraction there. Would you fcuk someone you werent attracted to?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cleopatra wasnt THAT good looking!!!

The roman historians said she was the most beautiful woman of her age. She managed to captivate the hearts of two of the three most powerful men of her time. So she cant have been too bad"

But what they didnt say was all the other women looked like steptoe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But there is still the attraction there. Would you fcuk someone you werent attracted to?"

would u accept £10,000 to have ur ass pounded?- some people cant get their heads around the idea that when U are in a situation, there is nothing wrong in enjoying a moment...whether that moment involves 2mins to a few hrs,sexually speaking..it might just be some good fun.I'd say some people care more about their 'reputation' of how others may view them if they have met a 'minger'......nothing is black and white, if it was..it might just be very boring.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But there is still the attraction there. Would you fcuk someone you werent attracted to?

*I meant to add...I have a fiver

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland

But there is still the attraction there. Would you fcuk someone you werent attracted to?

Agree with ya here paddy....

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

I didn't say there was anything wrong with enjoying a moment. I said that for me, I need to be with someone I'm attracted to and can have a laugh with, it would be hard for me to enjoy it otherwise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree brenny there must be attraction and connection as I've stated before I have had a meet before where there was just no conversation in it to be desired for and it left me feeling strange I learnt my lesson and met people who are as mad as me and also like to talk and be open about farting lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got to be a connection so coffee meets first are always a good idea

or wine or beer or kfc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had to be a connection before any naughtiness with me. I wouldn't let my knicker elastic loosen for anyone even if he was gorgeous, or the messages were good. Pics can hide a multitude of sins and people can write what they think you want to hear, just to win you over. Face to face meet for coffee or fook aff!

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By *ky HookMan
over a year ago

Dundee

"Face to face meet for coffee or fook aff! "

I better fook aff then cause Im aff the coffee n on either tea or guinness

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes

I totally agree Bren. Have been on social meets where that "spark" was there 100% and others where it wasn't at all.

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

If I've picked you up right Bren , the guy assumes any meet is a garenteed fuck?

If the guy can't get his head round the simple logic that a social meet is purely that then raises real alarm bells to me . I'm like you Bren , meet socially and if spark and connection there and both parties happy too then take things further. There are no garentees and I'd avoid anyone who thinks there are .Or any of the any holes a goal brigade , they do nowt for me.If i dont get on with the guy then i have a perfectly good vibrator that's garenteed to satisfy me and not give me any hassles lol. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think we can all tell fairly quickly if there's an attraction there but for me there's got to be more than just looks , I need someone I can talk to , laugh with and I feel relaxed around or things just don't work for me at all. I've met gorgeous guys but they are overly confident because of how they look and think they have it in the bag , that I feel uncomfortable and simply decline and that's it knocked on the head.

Saying that I've also been at parties clubs etc where the fun has came from being in company and relaxed where it wasn't planned , so in that case it wasn't an instant attraction or chemistry from the off.

I wouldn't fuck someone who I didn't want or like and wouldn't expect anyone to do the same with me just because they fancied a fuck at the time.

Sure all will work out for you Bren. You know your own mind and it'll come good one way or another hun xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont think there always has to be a connection geek n i love the idea of purely basing a meet in a physical attraction alone, as its not something we would usually do but some times a fuck is just a fuck and sometimes a fuckis more

Beauty xx

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

" i love the idea of purely basing a meet in a physical attraction alone

Thats still a connection........purely physical one....but one all the same...

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

" i love the idea of purely basing a meet in a physical attraction alone

Thats still a connection........purely physical one....but one all the same...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is much better when there is an emotional connection though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bren you know if you need a shag you just need to get on the shagaphone hotline to me!!!!!!

Oops changed profile name after laptop problems Brennie(mr jjustwo) xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But there is still the attraction there. Would you fcuk someone you werent attracted to?"

sorry think i need to clarify this a bit as most people are missing the point i was making.

If i find someone good looking, i can fuck them, regardless of their personality, I find faces and bodies attractive first and foremost and thats mostly what i look for on here.

I wouldnt fuck someone i found ugly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I'm looking for a life partner, then yes, I'd look at all the elements. Looks, personality, cleanliness, lifestyle.. blah, blah, blah..

If it's just for some fun.. Then the rules are much more relaxed.. More on a sliding scale, balancing looks and personality, but they need to add up..

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

" i love the idea of purely basing a meet in a physical attraction alone

Thats still a connection........purely physical one....but one all the same...

After reading this thread,

There'll be a lot of worried sheep out there.

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By *1cebren4u OP Woman
over a year ago

clydebank

"Bren you know if you need a shag you just need to get on the shagaphone hotline to me!!!!!!

Oops changed profile name after laptop problems Brennie(mr jjustwo) xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx"

JJ you are so special to me id shag you anyday of the week even though I got not meeting up id deffo make exceptions for you sweetheart lol xxxxxxxx

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

If i find someone good looking, i can fuck them, regardless of their personality"

I couldnt!

Have seen some good looking guys on here, met them and as soon as I get into a convo with them....I dry up like a prune!

On the other hand, I have met guys at CJ's or at a party, ones I wouldnt look twice at on here, and had a ball with them....based purely on personality...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If i find someone good looking, i can fuck them, regardless of their personality

I couldnt!

Have seen some good looking guys on here, met them and as soon as I get into a convo with them....I dry up like a prune!

On the other hand, I have met guys at CJ's or at a party, ones I wouldnt look twice at on here, and had a ball with them....based purely on personality...

Yup looks aren't the bee all and end all . At times the more I've gotten to know someone the more attractive I've gotten to find them and that's down to personality also

So if they have it all , even better

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