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By *iscottish OP   Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

So this one is really for the guys on here but guess the ladies can share thoughts on this also..

So you see a pic you fab it and don't think much else of it but the person then gets upset as you are a bloke and so are they and suddenly they think you want to shag them and the abuse starts, all down to a fabbed pic lol

Guess my question is ... Guys its not really a big deal is it? We don't live in an age were people still think that every gay and bi guy (or gal) wants to shag every straight guy do we?? Are you guys really bothered about another guy giving a compliment?

Silly really as we are all one team and should all just get along as it is harmless eh lol

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By *amaraBeaverbankWoman
over a year ago

Benidorm Spain

Why would someone dish out abuse for that? Pathetic if they do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say about 80% of the fabs on my pics are from blokes.....bothers me not a jot.

what sometimes bothers me is when they then send a message asking to suck my cock and when I politely reply, no thanks I'm 100% straight they then continue to bombard with more messages and cant take no for an answer as if for some reason my whole genetic make up will change instantly

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By *iscottish OP   Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Why would someone dish out abuse for that? Pathetic if they do"

Its a strange world we like be in eh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd simply not comment or fab a guys pic unless it explicitly says at least bi-curious on his profile. That doesn't mean there won't still be abusive replies, but you are less likely to offend people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only times I see a dudes profile, never mind pics is either when pricking about on chat and all the bloody names move......or I've been talking about tattoos, women or music and get asked to check out a particular pic. I also don't understand where all the views from guys come from? Mybe they just aren't as fussy as me when it comes to the search filters. I don't get messages though so at least they probably read at least half my profile. A wee fab on a pic is fairly harmless I suppose.

Anyways.....any attention is a bonus and doesn't mean I'm the target of an imagined sausagefest LOL.

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By *nvercoupleCouple
over a year ago

Inverness

Why would another guy fab another guys photo if they didnt have some sort of interest?

At the very least the photo is pleasing to the eye for that other bloke, so there is an attraction there for him.

If a guy is straight then why the hell would he be fabbing other guys pics?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the internet......does anyone really care?

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"Why would another guy fab another guys photo if they didnt have some sort of interest?

At the very least the photo is pleasing to the eye for that other bloke, so there is an attraction there for him.

If a guy is straight then why the hell would he be fabbing other guys pics?

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Rubbish!

Iv fab's pics of women, does that make me bi???....No it doesnt!

Pics with imagination and effort put into them are fab'd daily, doesnt mean we all want to shag or are the least bit attracted to those in the pic!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't care who fabs my pics. The gay/bi guys are actually really respectful, even on chat some pm me and ask if it's ok if they watch me, and acknowledge I'm straight and don't try anything. No problem with them at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would say about 80% of the fabs on my pics are from blokes.....bothers me not a jot.

what sometimes bothers me is when they then send a message asking to suck my cock and when I politely reply, no thanks I'm 100% straight they then continue to bombard with more messages and cant take no for an answer as if for some reason my whole genetic make up will change instantly "

And this is why you can block them

Really its harmless for anyone to fab any picture regardless of sex, I get pleanty straight guys asking me about my workout routine and they have also fabbed my pics, this does not mean anything more than just a like on Facebook etc and really this is a swingers site and if guys think other guys aren't going to look at there profiles or that they shouldn't .. Well they are in the wrong place (and we all know near 100% of men have compared size with other guys do we lads)

End of the day its just a bit of fun and nothing more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why would another guy fab another guys photo if they didnt have some sort of interest?

At the very least the photo is pleasing to the eye for that other bloke, so there is an attraction there for him.

If a guy is straight then why the hell would he be fabbing other guys pics?

Rubbish!

Iv fab's pics of women, does that make me bi???....No it doesnt!

Pics with imagination and effort put into them are fab'd daily, doesnt mean we all want to shag or are the least bit attracted to those in the pic!"

I agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's happened to me before just ignore it they should take it as a compliment

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By *ky HookMan
over a year ago

Dundee

Only ever had one fab on any of my pics it was from a guy.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

It shouldnt be an issue but for many guys it obviously is.

I fab many photos on here that have caught my eye female,male and couples doesnt mean i want to shag them all.

Ive also had my photos fabbed by many people who have never approached me to chat.

It like in chat so many guys got nuts if a guy clicks on their cams and ive seen many telling guys to get of their cams or be blocked lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I fab pics that I like, dont care what they're of or who!

I lovve getting fabs on our pics, if you dont want folk to look, don't put them up! ....... simple!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of my fabs are from guys.. Personaly I see it as a compliment.. So thanks to the guys and the girls who fab them.. If you're still at the evolutionary stage where you think all gay men want you're hairy unevolved arse you should piss off back to the trees as you're not quite ready for humanity yet..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most of my fabs are from guys.. Personaly I see it as a compliment.. So thanks to the guys and the girls who fab them.. If you're still at the evolutionary stage where you think all gay men want you're hairy unevolved arse you should piss off back to the trees as you're not quite ready for humanity yet.. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most of my fabs are from guys.. Personaly I see it as a compliment.. So thanks to the guys and the girls who fab them.. If you're still at the evolutionary stage where you think all gay men want you're hairy unevolved arse you should piss off back to the trees as you're not quite ready for humanity yet..

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