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By *ohn890 OP   Man
over a year ago

glasgow

Been on here for a few years now and can't help thinking some men and women have unrealistic expectations of the site and potential meets, does it not just make it harder to meet people in the long run and would it happen if you were I'm a bar looking for someone the same ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its good to have specific needs wants expectations , totally different from pulling in a bar , would you settle for less in a bar?We wouldnt so here is no different .

Its ment to fun , here is used for somethimg different from the norm so yes expectations are going to be higher/different etc...if they are not met then there is no loss ...why settle fot less?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have little or no expectations on here. I dont give a fuck or take it personally when i dont get a reply. Im secure enough within myself, thick skinned and everything that the guys who dish out abuse are not, not desperate either.

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Unrealistic or not...You shouldnt come on here expecting anything!

If its going to happen, it will.....and does!

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Unrealistic or not...You shouldnt come on here expecting anything!

If its going to happen, it will.....and does!

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Totally agree im sure when we all joined here none of us knew what to expect.

I dont have any expectations of anyone on here the people im ment to meet i will and those im not obviously aint for me .

If you expect nothing then you wont be disappointed when you dont get it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The way I see it is this.

We set our boundaries , we have our standards which we agree on prior to any meets . I don't think that means we are expecting anything . If people like us they do .If they don't they don't and there will be other people they do like . Its down to what people want at that given time and if theyre compatible then great if not there is lots of others out there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So what your basically claiming is if someone is in a bar they are allowed to be dignified but because we are on a swinging site we should be less dignified and just put out because of course we are all sex robots and are expected to drop our knickers at every opportunity to suit others?

I don't think so somehow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like it or not, the site is attached to people with real lives and in real life not everybody likes everybody or would have sex with everybody, at least on here you can state preferences rather than try to explain why you don't want them to some d*unk in a bar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The way I see it is this.

We set our boundaries , we have our standards which we agree on prior to any meets . I don't think that means we are expecting anything . If people like us they do .If they don't they don't and there will be other people they do like . Its down to what people want at that given time and if theyre compatible then great if not there is lots of others out there "

Here here! Well said!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I first joined site, I did have unrealistic expectations and why not and Im sure most new members are no different. I learned very quickly that I wouldnt be shagging 24/7.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Folk get so hung up on getting meets and discussing the possibility of meets and asking why they can't get meets it just comes across as desperate.

Personally I just go with the flow and whatever happens, happens.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Folk get so hung up on getting meets and discussing the possibility of meets and asking why they can't get meets it just comes across as desperate.

Personally I just go with the flow and whatever happens, happens. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Folk get so hung up on getting meets and discussing the possibility of meets and asking why they can't get meets it just comes across as desperate.

Personally I just go with the flow and whatever happens, happens. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

High expectations can mostly lead to disappointment!

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By *ohn890 OP   Man
over a year ago

glasgow

I have no expectations anymore,what I mean is people may expect too much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They have every right to be this site involves sex you cant make it easy and be at the risk of catching infection or even any other things that may put that person in risk actually i have more admiration for the people who are picky and expect alot more show more dignification but then in saying that this is only My personal opinion but as stated before yes we should be here to have fun but in the most safest way possible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They have every right to be this site involves sex you cant make it easy and be at the risk of catching infection or even any other things that may put that person in risk actually i have more admiration for the people who are picky and expect alot more show more dignification but then in saying that this is only My personal opinion but as stated before yes we should be here to have fun but in the most safest way possible."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm still expecting a 3sum with Charlize Theron & Scarlett Johannsen.

That's reasonable, isn't it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm still expecting a 3sum with Charlize Theron & Scarlett Johannsen.

That's reasonable, isn't it?"

Not a chance in hell!! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm still expecting a 3sum with Charlize Theron & Scarlett Johannsen.

That's reasonable, isn't it?

Not a chance in hell!! Lol"

Oh well. Any look a likes, or even non look a likes want to help out then?

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