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Soft or full swap?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We`ve been involved in the "lifestyle" for just over a year now, and up until now we have only paticipated in soft swap. The topic of full swap does occasionally crop up between us, but as yet no decision has been made to progress. So, we are curious to find out how other couples (we`re not alienating singles xx) arrived at where they are now.

Did you:

Start with "soft" and move on to "full"?

or

Start with "soft" and still only play "soft"?

or

Jump in the deep end straight to "full"?

We`re not looking for advice, as only we can decide what we do. But it would be interesting to hear other opinions on the subject.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hmm ok soz single , for me i just got in the deep end , was fun so stuck around lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we jump straight in full swap and have fully enjoy or time even more so when got home lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We looked for Single fems....nae luck

Then met a few couples socially with a view for soft swap...nae luck.

Then thought feck it....all the way and never looked back.

We did set some boundaries back then but have been slowly moving the boundaries as we enjoy the scene more.

This time 2 years ago we would never of entertained sep room/house fun but now do it regular with the right couples!

Steve

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We started a long time back...........

We used to go into a chat room where we met some nice folks and a lot of flirting went on. Got friendly with a couple who we met with socially and after a few drinks and back to ours, the conversation got hornier, the drinks flowed and the fun began.

We hadn't actually thought about soft or full swap at the time, just went with the flow enjoyed it so much that we've never looked back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we still soft swap and full swap just depends on what the other couple are into xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we love soft swop as im very bi we had our first full swop a few weeks ago and it was great i gues you will know when you are ready xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We started with soft only, half way through the 3rd meet it just felt like the right time so out came the condoms lol

We dont really have any hard or fast rules if it happens grt but we have had some very horny meets where full swap just didn't happen, not because either cpl didn't do just didn't.

We have now done sep room\hoose even sep regions ffs - as long as everyone is happy and comfortable the less do's and dont's the better me thinks.

Happy swinging xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we went into full straight away now we like same room or sep room if were in the mood we even go alone as long as everyone is happy then theres no problem xxxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we've remained soft swap couple only .....i much prefer the end finale to be with mr sexy, we have experienced full swap and i must confess it didnt really do it for me ...... i enjoy the thrill of another couple but leave the end pleasure for mr sexy and myself ....but as you say each to their own ......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We jumped in with both feet.

Full swap, seperate room altho we have done, and continue to do, soft too and we see singles as well. lol

As far as we're concerned, it's all good fun.

We're just a pair of tarts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we started with soft swap, then like the couple of tarts we are...lol we tried full swap never looked back mmmmmmm......its all great fun as long as you's want it well go for it when its right;)

M&J xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

full all da way !!

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

full swap for us.we didnt even think about soft.everybody to thier own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We just jumped in and have many good full swap meets.

xxxxxxxx

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By *empnbunkCouple
over a year ago

south coast

in for a penny in for a pound lol full for us from beginning started with alot of boundaries tho which over the last fun filled years have dwindled lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

gotta be full hehe hell widney be worth no goin for it all hehe

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks to you all for your input, we`re still thinking about graduating to full swap.

PS. ANY OFFERS

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We started in at the deep end with Full swap, and more recently have played soft swap....all of which has been great sexy fun....(the later possibly more so!)

We feel the connection with the other couple is the most important part to any fun....and if it feels right, then go with the flow.

mmmmmm very tempting easyshare!... can we be top of your list??? pleeeez?

xxx

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow


"Thanks to you all for your input, we`re still thinking about graduating to full swap.

PS. ANY OFFERS "

our hands are up.anytime.

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