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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I notice a lot of single guys when they meet the elusive single female to swing with as a couple.... ( and happy for you both )

then become total asses......

they have NO SINGLE GUYS , NO SINGLE GUYS , NO SINGLE GUYS....

and when they chat to single guys in the room, they have that air of smugness yu just wanna smack ....

dont get me wrong, folks can choose who they meet and I for one dont have a problem with that......

but always best to remember where yu came from , how tough it was as a single guy and show some kindness......

yu never know when you will be back as a single guy if it doesna work out lol

xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

sorry forgot to say .....

me thinks they are worried if they meet single guys.... she may be more attracted to them and hey ho, he dumped and back to being single.... how cynical I can be at times xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very true view! Personally I've found that the reaso. That a few guys aren't keen on mmf is that they're scared that the other guy will outperform them and since they not in a relationship with the girl she can go off with the other bloke.

Not that a lot of men will admit to this of course...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

View good post i think you have hit the nail right on the head there funny how they turn things the other way.

I am a single bloke and it is hard on this site to get a meet at times, most of the time you get the knock back. But you just need to find the good ones that are after a good time no matter if your single or not.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Totaly agree garry have noticed this many times in the room .......

And it looks like heres the cat that got the cream kinda senario for it to last two weeks max then go tits up leaving them looking like total prats .......

luv jacs

xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very VERY well put garry m8, isn't insecurity a wonderfull thing .....lol.

Like we say on our profile we'll chat to anyone and see where it goes......

our only problem seems to be those who will not take "WE NEVER PLAY ALONE" as the way we have chosen things to be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i always play alone of late lol god im good hehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Makes me laugh at the number of single guys who pair up with a lass get all superior with the NO SINGLE GUYS NO SINGLE GUYS then as it's been said, they split up a couple of weeks later and they are back in the pool of single guys... and guess what? they wont get a shag lol

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By *notNinaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

always think this is a funny one - i mean, when we came on here, we had no such "no single guys" text on our profile. We weren't actively looking for single guys, but we certainly weren't averse to the idea depending on the person.

Then after wading through endless messages from straight single guys saying "love your pic - you are hot - wanna meet?", which I assume were aimed at Nina and not me (well, maybe 90% of them.. ), we did put the "no single guys" text on the profile to try and put off some who might actually read the profile. It cut it down a little, and made it easier to respond saying "sorry - no - have you actually read our profile?".

Unfortunatly, i think it's yet again a case of the windae-lickers spoiling the fun for genuine single guys that it would probably be a pleasure to play with.

Just my tuppence-worth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

when we first joined we did put no single blokes please on our profile, not because of any other reason than I (fem) did not want to play with just a single bloke for my own reasons.....HOWEVER.....we did meet a single bloke and omgggggggggg how quick was i at removing the no single blokes please from our profile lol lol... many single blokes get bad press and i agree it is the minority that ruin it for the rest of them.... guys who have joined forces with a fem so to speak, remember how many ppl said to u no single blokes and be nice.... xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

so very true view hunni an its a sahme as RESPECT is a very large part of swinging an when u dont recieve it its hard as well so blokes single / cple soon to be single again remember its always nice to be nice.

remember the hard times as they will only get harder an no the way u want either ladddies..

so get real and there are lots owe really sexi an singles lads on here so get playin an all have fun ...

as you do give the other genuine single lads a bad rep which isnt fair on them as they all work so hard to keep bein respectful to all the woman in chat as well as in mail they send so come on get a grip with it

sioux xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have had my fingers burnt nievely trying to put myself in the single becomes a couple thing, vowed never again will/shall i.

I have one or two women i know who i simply say "hey theres a party coming up soon fancy going" if its a yes,cool, if its no ta thats cool too.

If play right, being a single males potentialy more fun than calling yourself a couple likewise im sure for solo fems, i have seen couples cancel each other out at partys with bouts of jealousy and inhibitions. As for guys suddenly being a couple and saying NO SINGLE GUYS, maybe the guy of insta-couple means "i want his wife but cheers for being my partner for 5 mins babe,lol" that just me then?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

totally agree like2see, spot on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

this is 1 single female who will never become a cpl xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

you have a fine couple so no need to change xxxxxxx

lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"this is 1 single female who will never become a cpl xx"

Give in tae temptation, n couple up wi me Stunna,lol,(only been hinting at it 4yrs),awaits the usual "ram it T" reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"this is 1 single female who will never become a cpl xx

Give in tae temptation, n couple up wi me Stunna,lol,(only been hinting at it 4yrs),awaits the usual "ram it T" reply."

in ya dreams T xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"you have a fine couple so no need to change xxxxxxx

lol"

yea garry get ya coat lol xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well said garry. Been reading a few profiles lately and got to say quite a few folk are just downright rude in telling what they dont want. Thats fine if folk dont want to meet single guys but some of the wording of it leaves a lot to be desired to put it kindly. Its almost like they they feel single guys are sub human with no reason to be here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im actually suprised by the swinging scene at how many single fems are only into swinging with couples....and how many couples only look for single fems....me personally would prefer mmf or more lol.

Perhaps not being bi has something to do with it right enough...but yes I do notice that single guys get a hard deal on these kinds of sites....but my oh my wot would we do without them lol

heres to single guys xxxxx

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By *ojomanMan
over a year ago

Loch Lomond

Well said Gary dude a very valid point, i know of a few guys who simply use their partner or fb simply to get access to other couples and bi fems, as they have little chance as a single male

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They get with solo fems, hell they even glean their password to play at being the lady to con folks into getting interested, and to cap it all some declare themselves overnight frikkin dominatrix and title themselves "Masters",one less nice fun sexy solo fem out of circulation due to a guy who has no idea how to play,fab!

T

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