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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

clare here,i believe you can have a fuck buddy with no pressure on either side,guy thinks fems get too attached and want more. I think I am right so any gals out there can dispute this? ????

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By *oom For 1 MoreMan
over a year ago

Ayrshire


"clare here,i believe you can have a fuck buddy with no pressure on either side,guy thinks fems get too attached and want more. I think I am right so any gals out there can dispute this? ???? "
Be clear from the outset...NSA = no drama

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"clare here,i believe you can have a fuck buddy with no pressure on either side,guy thinks fems get too attached and want more. I think I am right so any gals out there can dispute this? ???? "
Guys always think women want much more lol.

Im a very passionate lover and person in general but this is not to mixed up with what i have to offer on here, but yes i totally agree you can be fb buddies with someone and all it is is two people who get on so well and like spending time together nothing more nothing less .

someone who makes you feel like your their whole world when your with them ..then you get dressed and go home and lead your life as normal...to me a perfect fb relationship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

someone who makes you feel like your their whole world when your with them ..then you get dressed and go home and lead your life as normal...to me a perfect fb relationship "

Couldn't have said it better myself Miss D! Sometimes its the guys who start to get attached! A good fb is someone you can trust, get a laugh with & some naughty sexy fun time with & no hassle. All good x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

well ty for agreeing with me and you were female so I must be right lol.

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By *amaraBeaverbankWoman
over a year ago

Benidorm Spain

Nawty hit the nail on the head. Guys think we want more, specially if we are single I've noticed. I also fin I personally get called a time water or a user if I dont want to meet someone immediately or if I dont sleep with someone after a social drink.

To that end I've stopped giving out my number and have fewer meets

In short we can have fbs who are mates without drama but everyone sees it differently

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to think, and after a few stories that I've heard from meets, that its guys who get attached or to put it better, want complete exclusivity and can't handle their meet seeing other people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I tend to think, and after a few stories that I've heard from meets, that its guys who get attached or to put it better, want complete exclusivity and can't handle their meet seeing other people"

I was just gonna say that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having been the fb in the past. Men are capable of having a passionate, fun time then getting dressed. But it I think it takes quite a strong man to do it. An awful lot do seem to get attached. My last regular fb got too attached to me. So it can go both ways.

A good fb is an escape from everyday for a few hours or a night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The most important part of this site is the NSA part, without that this is no more than another dating site. Woman are guilty too of getting too involved and i speak from experience as well as having heard some stories of jealous bitchy bints.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"clare here,i believe you can have a fuck buddy with no pressure on either side,guy thinks fems get too attached and want more. I think I am right so any gals out there can dispute this? ???? "
Breeds contempt.

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast


"clare here,i believe you can have a fuck buddy with no pressure on either side,guy thinks fems get too attached and want more. I think I am right so any gals out there can dispute this? ???? Guys always think women want much more lol.

Im a very passionate lover and person in general but this is not to mixed up with what i have to offer on here, but yes i totally agree you can be fb buddies with someone and all it is is two people who get on so well and like spending time together nothing more nothing less .

someone who makes you feel like your their whole world when your with them ..then you get dressed and go home and lead your life as normal...to me a perfect fb relationship "

Couldnt agree with you more.....

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes


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someone who makes you feel like your their whole world when your with them ..then you get dressed and go home and lead your life as normal...to me a perfect fb relationship

Couldn't have said it better myself Miss D! Sometimes its the guys who start to get attached! A good fb is someone you can trust, get a laugh with & some naughty sexy fun time with & no hassle. All good x "

I agree with both the above statements. All the fun and none of the hassles of daily life. Certainly works for me

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By *ime For ItMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"

someone who makes you feel like your their whole world when your with them ..then you get dressed and go home and lead your life as normal...to me a perfect fb relationship

Couldn't have said it better myself Miss D! Sometimes its the guys who start to get attached! A good fb is someone you can trust, get a laugh with & some naughty sexy fun time with & no hassle. All good x

I agree with both the above statements. All the fun and none of the hassles of daily life. Certainly works for me "

I agree with that to. Surely a FB is a Friend first...who wants what's best for you...and happy that you are contented ! And of course that should work both ways ?

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By *andG4moreCouple
over a year ago

Dunbartonshire


"I tend to think, and after a few stories that I've heard from meets, that its guys who get attached or to put it better, want complete exclusivity and can't handle their meet seeing other people"

This and some. Gee has met at least 3 guys as regular meets over the course of us swinging and they all ended up asking her to only meet them etc. One actually came out and told her he could not handle her being with lil old me ahem err her man for 17 yrs lol he was promptly dumped and deleted lol.

Not to say we have not met sum brill guys also.

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By *eatherWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

I agree totally with Jacs i know a few guys on here who i meet and when i walk away home to my life there is no hassle and no commitment but i certainly have a big smile on my faceAnd by the way the lovely guy i go to socials with knows all about this to and i know he would take the same attitude if the shoe was on the other foot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great post MissD, however I still think that the majority of girls want a 'relationship', why else would so many stipulate 'no married/attached guys'? I know from my (very limited) experience that any girl who walks out when things are getting heavy is 'cool', whereas a guy who does the same is a 'bastard'.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

there are men in the scene that get attached and want that person to become exclusive to them and will spin any yarn to get it....

please repeat the above and insert 'female' instead of the word 'men'.

both groups have the lowest level of self awareness but others get to witness it all being played out for all to see.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


", why else would so many stipulate 'no married/attached guys'? '."
maybe because they dont want the hassle of an irrate wife or gf if the guy gets caught out .

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"there are men in the scene that get attached and want that person to become exclusive to them and will spin any yarn to get it....

please repeat the above and insert 'female' instead of the word 'men'.

both groups have the lowest level of self awareness but others get to witness it all being played out for all to see."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had the unfortunate pleasure of being called all the names under the sun from a wife of a 'single' guy!! He got caught yet I'm the cow lol, happy days eh? If I know from the start they are married/attached then I usually avoid this because of previous experience but then again not everyone is honest about their circumstances.x

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Had the unfortunate pleasure of being called all the names under the sun from a wife of a 'single' guy!! He got caught yet I'm the cow lol, happy days eh? If I know from the start they are married/attached then I usually avoid this because of previous experience but then again not everyone is honest about their circumstances.x"
so true and this has happend to me too sadly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had the unfortunate pleasure of being called all the names under the sun from a wife of a 'single' guy!! He got caught yet I'm the cow lol, happy days eh? If I know from the start they are married/attached then I usually avoid this because of previous experience but then again not everyone is honest about their circumstances.xso true and this has happend to me too sadly "

Shocking really! If people were a little more honest & give the other person the option of going ahead with the meeting knowing exactly where everyone stands it would make all the difference. I'm here for fun not marriage ffs lol, just think truth & respect is a major part of being a good fb or it is for me anyway x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is so much option on this site as it seems, it's ether men or women who wants a relationship or something more it is the human reaction for this I know alot of people disagree with my theory but aswell as this can be a swinging site this is a dating site, you can meet someone like a social and just be nah no sexual chemistry there or you can have parts when you do meet have great sex meet again there may be a cause of trouble to having a fuck buddy as sex is a intimate thing some people can just flog it off as a fuck but some people have it off as they have good banter. Great sex what more could a person ask for its a difficult one to explain but I'd say it's human reaction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For any sit meets I like a bit of banter before and after but I wont ask questions outside of a secual context except for a bit of day to day banter. No need to know your sisters name, exes job or your kids names. That being said Id be a bit funny about turning upwithoutmore than a few messages and at least swap face and bod pics in the name of false advertising.

Fuckbuddies all the way

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By *eeflower69Woman
over a year ago

edinburgh


"Great post MissD, however I still think that the majority of girls want a 'relationship', why else would so many stipulate 'no married/attached guys'? I know from my (very limited) experience that any girl who walks out when things are getting heavy is 'cool', whereas a guy who does the same is a 'bastard'."

I prefer single guys to married/attached ones, not because I want a relationship but because I don't do angry cheated on partners. Had that twice (the guys lied and said they were single) don't need the hassle.

Also had guys wanting me to be exclusive... If I wanted that I'd be on match.com not a swingers site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Great post MissD, however I still think that the majority of girls want a 'relationship', why else would so many stipulate 'no married/attached guys'? I know from my (very limited) experience that any girl who walks out when things are getting heavy is 'cool', whereas a guy who does the same is a 'bastard'.

I prefer single guys to married/attached ones, not because I want a relationship but because I don't do angry cheated on partners. Had that twice (the guys lied and said they were single) don't need the hassle.

Also had guys wanting me to be exclusive... If I wanted that I'd be on match.com not a swingers site.

"

Wee I agree with you and also should be personal preference and I to do not meet with married or attached men as I see your point about the dating side of things yes this is a swingers site but one thing that should be taking into the thought is that you could have half the people on fab who have come into fab with the mindset of yes I'm going tonnage fun bust some may feel confused about what they seek and consider fun as their best option till a meet is in place there's not telling how a meet can go I do agree we are on a swinging site to have fun but sometimes lust can turn into love we are a mix of people and a mix of _iews and opinions and asking as the strong willed people are adomint to stick to their plan of fun everyone knows their place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*going to have fun* silly phone lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer the "thanks that was great, please come again" type of meet. Maybe a message or two of thanks and decide if a further meet needs aranging or move on. It possibly could be harder for those lacking confidence or just easily attached rhough. A bit of manners and being straight to rhw point helps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

can be difficult but once burned you catch on to the NSA part

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh


"Great post MissD, however I still think that the majority of girls want a 'relationship', why else would so many stipulate 'no married/attached guys'? I know from my (very limited) experience that any girl who walks out when things are getting heavy is 'cool', whereas a guy who does the same is a 'bastard'.

I prefer single guys to married/attached ones, not because I want a relationship but because I don't do angry cheated on partners. Had that twice (the guys lied and said they were single) don't need the hassle.

Also had guys wanting me to be exclusive... If I wanted that I'd be on match.com not a swingers site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer the "thanks that was great, please come again" type of meet. Maybe a message or two of thanks and decide if a further meet needs aranging or move on. It possibly could be harder for those lacking confidence or just easily attached rhough. A bit of manners and being straight to rhw point helps "

Majority of people on fab have self esteem issues on here

My personal opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer the "thanks that was great, please come again" type of meet. Maybe a message or two of thanks and decide if a further meet needs aranging or move on. It possibly could be harder for those lacking confidence or just easily attached rhough. A bit of manners and being straight to rhw point helps

Majority of people on fab have self esteem issues on here

My personal opinion

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I personally wouldn't say the majority. There are some, yes I agree who do have low self esteem or addictive personalities or the likes .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer the "thanks that was great, please come again" type of meet. Maybe a message or two of thanks and decide if a further meet needs aranging or move on. It possibly could be harder for those lacking confidence or just easily attached rhough. A bit of manners and being straight to rhw point helps

Majority of people on fab have self esteem issues on here

My personal opinion

I personally wouldn't say the majority. There are some, yes I agree who do have low self esteem or addictive personalities or the likes . "

well put it this way there is still a percentage of people who do i maybe worded it wrong with majority but the fact is there is a point of fact there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer the "thanks that was great, please come again" type of meet. Maybe a message or two of thanks and decide if a further meet needs aranging or move on. It possibly could be harder for those lacking confidence or just easily attached rhough. A bit of manners and being straight to rhw point helps

Majority of people on fab have self esteem issues on here

My personal opinion

I personally wouldn't say the majority. There are some, yes I agree who do have low self esteem or addictive personalities or the likes . "

well put it this way there is still a percentage of people who do i maybe worded it wrong with majority but the fact is there is a point of fact there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer the "thanks that was great, please come again" type of meet. Maybe a message or two of thanks and decide if a further meet needs aranging or move on. It possibly could be harder for those lacking confidence or just easily attached rhough. A bit of manners and being straight to rhw point helps

Majority of people on fab have self esteem issues on here

My personal opinion

I personally wouldn't say the majority. There are some, yes I agree who do have low self esteem or addictive personalities or the likes .

well put it this way there is still a percentage of people who do i maybe worded it wrong with majority but the fact is there is a point of fact there "
now that's a fair point

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