FabSwingers.com forum: how do you cope?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

just a rant here more than anything else, im not looking for sympathy or empathy more just a vent.

I beat a disease that ate away half my jaw a few years ago, and now i found that i have a hole again in the top part of my jaw tonight. I'll have to wait till monday to go to hospital to see my specialist.

I know alot of people have beaten cancer/ tumours / serious medical conditions etc but how did you keep yourself going through it?

im just pissed off cause the last time they told me it was cause of my diet and the fact i smoked. I know go to the gym7 times a week, eat totally healthy and havent smoked in a year, shouldnt have bothered really.

thanks for reading and thanks for letting me get this off my chest

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

You will get through it with your strength of charecter same as ever my thoughts and prayers are with ya as always

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By *he Bluesome TwosomeCouple
over a year ago

west lothian

Just keep focused on the good things in your life. Good luck xx

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"just a rant here more than anything else, im not looking for sympathy or empathy more just a vent.

I know alot of people have beaten cancer/ tumours / serious medical conditions etc but how did you keep yourself going through it?

thanks for reading and thanks for letting me get this off my chest

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Everyone is different and while some people may benefit from adopting a positive attitude towards their diagnosis, others may feel under pressure from well-meaning friends or family telling them to stay positive well your the one going through the hell its often difficult to stay positive 100% of the time .

Whatever your feelings are about your Illness it’s important that you're able to talk openly and honestly about it. If you don’t feel able to share your fears or negative thoughts with those close to you sometimes a place like here is a nice escape from all whats going on .

Good luck hunni and i hope it all gets sorted out for you xxx

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

Feel free to rant as much as you like - you've earnt that right.

And remember, we are here for you to rant whenever you want or feel the need to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fortunate enough here that I have a daughter to focus on and to see her get on in life n develop as much as I can. It's hard when told statistically you prob don't have many years left but I want what time I've left to be quality time. As they say, tomorrow is promised to no one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone points a gun at you, says they're gonna shoot you, there's gonna be blood it's gonna be painfull n good chance you will die you are expected to bloody crap yourself. Yet you get told you have a possible terminal illness your expected to smile, think positive and run a marathon or whatever for charity. No one can truly understand what goes through your mind in these situations

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

stay strong

see the doc as soon as possible hugs

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

it better not be fucking terminal this time, or i swear, i am renouncing god and going on a rampage. I am fed up of this shit, hitler reincarnated didnt have this much shit to deal with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Atomic you're a strong woman and have coped before, and as unfair as it is you'll cope again.

Each of us copes differently, but while you're finding your own way, rant as much as you like.

Fingers crossed and big hugs xxx

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow

Horrible, horrible disease. While smoking and diet etc can increase risk, for the doctors to say that this is definitely what caused it is wrong.

Good luck.

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By *un-scotMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Good luck

Thoughts are with you

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By *ky HookMan
over a year ago

Dundee

Raven,

You dont want sympathy then youre not gonna get it. Have you got my breakfast made yet? Cause Im gonna be getting up in ten minuites and Im bloody well starving. I want link bacon tattie scone black puddin haggis square sunnyside up by two. Scrambled and beans. Toast on the side covered in lashing of butter. Plus three cans of Guinness to wash it down with (well im cutting back cause im trying to lose weight).

Go out and enjoy yourself. Do things that make you smile. Be with people that make you happy. Like listening to my guitar playing and singing

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

Rant as much as you like tomic. We are all here for you chick. Big hugs xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You go for it girl rant as much as u like u deserve to , I hope everything works out for u and its nothing to worry about

I'll keep my fingers crossed for u

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Everyone is different and while some people may benefit from adopting a positive attitude towards their diagnosis, others may feel under pressure from well-meaning friends or family telling them to stay positive well your the one going through the hell its often difficult to stay positive 100% of the time .

Good luck hunni and i hope it all gets sorted out for you xxx"

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