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By *lydecouple OP Couple
over a year ago

greenock

Just had some bad news for MrA he has been diagnosed with cancer,not lift threatening.We are just waiting for the specialists to see where we go from here,It's a shock to the system ..so I wanted to know has anyone from fab had this happen to them and did you leave and come back ???

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Just had some bad news for MrA he has been diagnosed with cancer,not lift threatening.We are just waiting for the specialists to see where we go from here,It's a shock to the system ..so I wanted to know has anyone from fab had this happen to them and did you leave and come back ???

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Yes i have almost two years ago now and no i didnt leave i found it a great way to escape the shit that was going on and the support i got from my many friends on here was amazing they all kept my spirits up.

I wasnt meeting but just chatting on here and so glad i stuck around xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very brave of you to post re - your other half. I wish you both well and pray everything will be ok for the two of you. xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My prayers tonite will be for you & ur hubby,

Think you's should stay on as I defo agree it would keep ur minds of wots going on or atleast keep uz entertained

Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Very brave of you to post re - your other half. I wish you both well and pray everything will be ok for the two of you. xx

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Ops yes sorry how rude of me i should have said too all the very best and i hope things go well with his treatment and recovery xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like it's treatable from what you said which is a great start.

I would stay here just make it clear you're not meeting and enjoy the banter on the days you can be bothered with it or need a distraction

Wishing you all the best with your treatment xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just like to add also, I know that you don't know me but if indeed things do get stressful for you both and you need someone just to listen to then please don't hesitate. I really honestly do hope and pray it all goes well for you both. xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope all goes well with treatment....stick around, hide your profile if you need to, but you just never know when the banter may brighten up your day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My thoughts are with you both and family xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As others have said....stick around, the distraction may be helpful.....but truly only the two of you can decide. I wish you BOTH all the best for the coming weeks and months. Positive thoughts.....

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By *lydecouple OP Couple
over a year ago

greenock

Thanks for all the nice posts From you all ..MR.A and MRS.A xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish you both all the best and a very speedy and complete recovery.

Be excelent to each other xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This post just shows that fab has some wonderfull and caring ppl ,gd luck op hope all goes well x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dee had a cancer scare a year ago. Since an operation she has been great. Our thought and prayers are for you two xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just found out a couple weeks ago my gran has breast cancer, she starts chemo on monday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stay on the site, all the best, we are all here to support if you need it

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By *ir laugh a lotMan
over a year ago

glasgow

call McMillian nurses or maggies house has a drop in centre just for a coffee.these guys will give you huge support ,just by way of chatting and some days surprise surprise the word or thought of cancer is never mentioned ,,just support , care and company,,,and to anyone not just your hubby ..I offer this advice and my own opinion if you or a loved one has cancer and you feel as low as low you can be visit a childrens hospice and see how strong and with such courage all the kids cope and live and I promise you will leave the building inspired yet humbled and go on to face your cancer with an inner strength you never knew you had ..good luck

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By *ky HookMan
over a year ago

Dundee

Prayers are with you both tonight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sad times for you both, wishing you all the best xxx

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By *ane DTV/TS
over a year ago

Glasgow ish

Best of luck to you both. Stay strong and support each other.

Other half had thyroid cancer 14yrs ago. Had an op, now completly clear.

I won't lie, there will be problems, troubles along the way. But sometimes, the ability to unload your troubles to others outside the problem is a god send.

All the best for the future.

Jane

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By *u-cee smurfetteWoman
over a year ago

aberdeen

Thinking of you both stay strong xxx

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

Good luck Mr A.

Wishing you a speedy recovery

Just make sure Mrs A gives you plenty of TLC

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best of luck to both of you...

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By *arlstormMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Prayers and love to MrA...

I have personally experienced both the initial stages and terminal stages of this illness with friends family and strangers. This was due to my intimate ability as an ear to listen, and voice to council.

Sometime talking to a stranger who has lived through this life changing event, albeit not actually experiencing the disease itself, is useful.

Although MrA does not know me please understand there is an experienced ear to always listen to the concerns this life changing event will bring.

Much love.

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By *lydecouple OP Couple
over a year ago

greenock

Again thanks for all the posts and kind words xx

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

Just seen this, big hugs to you both. Know it's not much but thoughts and prayers are with you xxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck with it, I think trying to continue as normal may well be the best thing. Never a smoker but I had a lung cancer scare a few years ago. It transpired to just be scarring on the lung from when I punctured it years before. It was scary but just confirms, never take life for granted...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a cancer survivor, was diagnosed 11 years ago and treated. pre fab days, but made me realise every day was precious and for living... stay on , hide as you think fit, but keep in touch. good luck.. keep positive, it does help.

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By *lydecouple OP Couple
over a year ago

greenock

hope all goes well for your gran xxx

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By *lydecouple OP Couple
over a year ago

greenock

thank you all for your kind words and support i appreciate it more than you can know....

makes you realise just how many nice and caring people there are on here,

once again thank you all xxxx

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By *lydecouple OP Couple
over a year ago

greenock

will i better update this post i did 34 weeks ago i posted that i had cancer , i have been through my chemo and radiotherapy and my op witch has left me with a bag for the rest of my life ... but i still have a life ... and 3 weeks ago i got the all clear, i beat the fucker i'm still here and thanks for your support and messages ,,,x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"will i better update this post i did 34 weeks ago i posted that i had cancer , i have been through my chemo and radiotherapy and my op witch has left me with a bag for the rest of my life ... but i still have a life ... and 3 weeks ago i got the all clear, i beat the fucker i'm still here and thanks for your support and messages ,,,x"
good on you and well done,glad to see you havent left the site and im sure many will echo this thought

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By *lydecouple OP Couple
over a year ago

greenock

i will tell mr hot what you said and thanks

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By *ustforalaugh1Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Fucking A!

So glad you got through it!

Keep up the good fight!

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By *ane DTV/TS
over a year ago

Glasgow ish

Congratulations!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best news of the week, brilliant

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

A salute to you and anyone who kicks cancers arse! ! Great news and love to you both x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've lost the two most important people in my life to cancer. My outlook in life changed from a nervous worrying wreck to, life for living go and live it before it ends.

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By *ee-YinWoman
over a year ago

nr bathgate

Great news. Xx

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

So glad to read this and all the very best.

My saying just now is live everyday as if it's your last for tomorrow is never promised.

Good luck xx

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By *iceguy 1966Man
over a year ago

in pa postcode

Absolutely brilliant news and I am so pleased for you both on what must have been a traumatic time.

You are both an inspiration to people to show us all that when the horrible C word is said to you that it is not the end of the world if you have the will to fight and live.

Enjoy life to the full folks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Life is way too short

Best to enjoy every second we have

Geek

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well done ... Love to you both xxxx

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes

Fabulous news xxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Brilliant news, all the best

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By *lydecouple OP Couple
over a year ago

greenock

thanks everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Excellent news xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

brilliant news, so pleased to read that tonight xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cancer survivor here also, three operations down and on drugs for life but hey, still here and still kicking cancers arse.

My very best wishes to you both and I hope you continue to kick arse together.

Much love and positive thoughts coming your way. xxx

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By *adcowWoman
over a year ago

kirkcaldy

glad to hear you beat the fooker xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cancer survivor here also, three operations down and on drugs for life but hey, still here and still kicking cancers arse.

My very best wishes to you both and I hope you continue to kick arse together.

Much love and positive thoughts coming your way. xxx"

amazing knowing survivors

Actually going for scans soon myself as they are unsure fully what's wrong with me but suspect something serious is up

I've been putting the scans off for too long now in fear of the worst and it's prob the worst thing to do

Geek

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cancer survivor here also, three operations down and on drugs for life but hey, still here and still kicking cancers arse.

My very best wishes to you both and I hope you continue to kick arse together.

Much love and positive thoughts coming your way. xxx

amazing knowing survivors

Actually going for scans soon myself as they are unsure fully what's wrong with me but suspect something serious is up

I've been putting the scans off for too long now in fear of the worst and it's prob the worst thing to do

Geek

Fear itself is the the most difficult hurdle you have to get over, the rest is downhill after that. PMA! Positive Mental Attitude, gets me through every time.

I'm sure if you face it head on you will feel better. xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is the best thread I've read on here for such a long time.

First and foremost to Mr&Mrs A for their inner strength and belief in defeating this illness well done to you both

Secondly to the spirit of camaraderie that goes on within the Fab community with posts of well wishing and sharing of your own battles

Humbled by all

Rok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cancer survivor here also, three operations down and on drugs for life but hey, still here and still kicking cancers arse.

My very best wishes to you both and I hope you continue to kick arse together.

Much love and positive thoughts coming your way. xxx

amazing knowing survivors

Actually going for scans soon myself as they are unsure fully what's wrong with me but suspect something serious is up

I've been putting the scans off for too long now in fear of the worst and it's prob the worst thing to do

Geek

Fear itself is the the most difficult hurdle you have to get over, the rest is downhill after that. PMA! Positive Mental Attitude, gets me through every time.

I'm sure if you face it head on you will feel better. xxx"

I agree with this 100% PMA all the way!!!

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