FabSwingers.com forum: Winks or messages

By *oom For 1 More OP Man
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I tend to send a lady or couple a wink firstly, fab pics then folow up with a message a few days later. What do you prefer?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I tend to send a lady or couple a wink firstly, fab pics then folow up with a message a few days later. What do you prefer?

I personally don't like the wink system the only way to get around me is a straight up message

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By *oom For 1 More OP Man
over a year ago

Ayrshire

"I tend to send a lady or couple a wink firstly, fab pics then folow up with a message a few days later. What do you prefer?

I personally don't like the wink system the only way to get around me is a straight up message"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Message defo.

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By *aithlessangelCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

If it's a couple it will draw our attention to their profile and we will perhaps message them first.

I prefer messages though because we're both terrible at messaging folk haha.

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

I just ignore winks...

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By *oom For 1 More OP Man
over a year ago

Ayrshire

Unanimous then....messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Unanimous then....messages.

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By *rjandmrskCouple
over a year ago

West Dunbartonshire

we not keen on winks to be honest message far better if people intersted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love when I get an unexpected wink from a friend....means they were thinking bout me. Other winks are generally ignored....I'd rather have a msg.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes I send a message it gets deleted then followed by winking at me lol. Gets me really confused..Others delete my message and send a friend request !

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By *he Bluesome TwosomeCouple
over a year ago

west lothian

We like to send and receive winks but after reading this think we should stick with the messaging lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We like to send and receive winks but after reading this think we should stick with the messaging lol x

Winks are nice to let other know that you have checked them and you want to break the ice or to let friends know that they are in your thoughts. I see it as nice, sometimes shy way to show interest. I take them seriously when they come from people that fit my profile description. When they come from guys when my profile says straight, I just delete.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ill send winks to girls who take my fancy or just have a cool profile text or pics. Usually to those outta range or cant message due to filters

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By *he Bluesome TwosomeCouple
over a year ago

west lothian

"We like to send and receive winks but after reading this think we should stick with the messaging lol x

Aww thanks

you've restored our faith in winks

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By *inkyBrianMan
over a year ago

glasgow

I'll probably wink more often than send a message, if i get one back then I'll message. It gets tiresome writing messages pointing out common interests and showing you've read their profile when it just gets deleted or never even opened-I've quite a few unopened/undeleted messages still sitting in my outbox from as far back as 7 weeks ago but the people are online daily.

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

prefer a well thought out message that shows the sender has read my profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Winks are the most pointless thing on this site tbh

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

"Winks are the most pointless thing on this site tbh"

would rather have a wink than a "fancy a fuck" message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good point

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By *adgeeMan
over a year ago

Loch Lomond

"Winks are the most pointless thing on this site tbh

would rather have a wink than a "fancy a fuck" message"

I think winks serve a purpose, providing the users approve of them. Some think they are a lazy form of communication. Opinons differ, i enjoy receiving a wee wink now and again

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

"Winks are the most pointless thing on this site tbh

would rather have a wink than a "fancy a fuck" message

I think winks serve a purpose, providing the users approve of them. Some think they are a lazy form of communication. Opinons differ, i enjoy receiving a wee wink now and again

you never bloody answer them though Gadge

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By *adgeeMan
over a year ago

Loch Lomond

"Winks are the most pointless thing on this site tbh

would rather have a wink than a "fancy a fuck" message

I think winks serve a purpose, providing the users approve of them. Some think they are a lazy form of communication. Opinons differ, i enjoy receiving a wee wink now and again

you never bloody answer them though Gadge

Haha

Thats a fib, I always reply to winks!

See

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

"Winks are the most pointless thing on this site tbh

would rather have a wink than a "fancy a fuck" message

I think winks serve a purpose, providing the users approve of them. Some think they are a lazy form of communication. Opinons differ, i enjoy receiving a wee wink now and again

you never bloody answer them though Gadge

Haha

Thats a fib, I always reply to winks!

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Smartarse!!!! You must be due a "fancy a fuck" message...

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By *adgeeMan
over a year ago

Loch Lomond

"Winks are the most pointless thing on this site tbh

would rather have a wink than a "fancy a fuck" message

I think winks serve a purpose, providing the users approve of them. Some think they are a lazy form of communication. Opinons differ, i enjoy receiving a wee wink now and again

you never bloody answer them though Gadge

Haha

Thats a fib, I always reply to winks!

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Smartarse!!!! You must be due a "fancy a fuck" message...

I can honestly say i haven't had many of them since i joined here i dunno how many years ago, I was hoping I'm due one lol

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

"Winks are the most pointless thing on this site tbh

would rather have a wink than a "fancy a fuck" message

I think winks serve a purpose, providing the users approve of them. Some think they are a lazy form of communication. Opinons differ, i enjoy receiving a wee wink now and again

you never bloody answer them though Gadge

Haha

Thats a fib, I always reply to winks!

See

Smartarse!!!! You must be due a "fancy a fuck" message...

I can honestly say i haven't had many of them since i joined here i dunno how many years ago, I was hoping I'm due one lol"

oh you are!!

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