FabSwingers.com forum: snobbery

By *airymuscles OP Man
over a year ago

scotland

Probably going to upset a few folk on here,but its not my intention,although i couldnt really give 2 effs if i do,as these will be the people im sure i am talking about,but.....on here there seems to be a certain snobbery,its almost like a clique of snobbery, really it is,dont get me wrong ive spoken to some nice folk,but really its a minefield on here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ding ding 3 mins a round

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By *airymuscles OP Man
over a year ago

scotland

"Ding ding 3 mins a round "

;-)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Probably going to upset a few folk on here,but its not my intention,although i couldnt really give 2 effs if i do,as these will be the people im sure i am talking about,but.....on here there seems to be a certain snobbery,its almost like a clique of snobbery, really it is,dont get me wrong ive spoken to some nice folk,but really its a minefield on here!"

I doubt you will upset anyone, they will just block you and move on, most people are here to have fun, and get away from the real world in their leisure time, life is hard enough , without having stress on a sex site... nothing in cyber space is real, especially on a sex site

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

if the kind of snobbery you mean is that they wont just accept anyone hell im a lord of the realm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't know how you deduce snobbery on here, if you reckon there snobs cause they won't meet, that's preference, a totally different thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't know how you deduce snobbery on here, if you reckon there snobs cause they won't meet, that's preference, a totally different thing

look at YOU and ur big house, fancy car, fine wine and engaging discussions..fancy a shag?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah lol,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Half on here are timewasters and the other half is split between cunts up their own arse and a brass neck with it, seeing some of the sites on here, and people who are actually, genuine, polite and well mannered. Oh and most the couples are guys who are offering up their partner without their knowledge or its a bogus profile.

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By *ky HookMan
over a year ago

Dundee

Youre meaning a lot of folk look down on others on here because they dont fit into 'traditional' swinging catagories or their own branch of it. I agree with you that they do. BUT!!!!! and it is a very BIG BUT I believe everyone is a snob in one way or another wether on this site or not. It is a fact of human nature that we believe ourself to be correct and those that disagree with us are infeirior to us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you haven't been to a social or CJ's, you're a nobody, is the vibe I get.

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow

Not the 'c' word again!! And snobbery? Sorry, that's a new one on me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you haven't been to a social or CJ's, you're a nobody, is the vibe I get."

Not been to s social yet but have been to cjs a few times. Everyone bangs on about how welcome you are made to feel at cjs. REALLY? TRUTHFULLY? Dont get me wrong, i've had my fun there and did meet and have played with some great people. But plenty patrons occupy their own wee bubble and barely pass the time of day. Mind you the smoking policy doesnt help....

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

"If you haven't been to a social or CJ's, you're a nobody, is the vibe I get.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Half on here are timewasters and the other half is split between cunts up their own arse and a brass neck with it, seeing some of the sites on here, and people who are actually, genuine, polite and well mannered. Oh and most the couples are guys who are offering up their partner without their knowledge or its a bogus profile. "

Most of the couples? Really?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dunno if ur statistics are entirely true.....

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"If you haven't been to a social or CJ's, you're a nobody, is the vibe I get."

You're wrong. There's loads goes on which nobody feels or has the need to publicise or promote here (or anywhere else).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dunno if ur statistics are entirely true....."
I stand corrected 75% are timewasters.

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes

My name is Scottish Sex Goddess and I'm a snob.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dunno if ur statistics are entirely true..... I stand corrected 75% are timewasters."

what do u meen by timewasters?is it ppl who dont meet u or dont reply to your msgs?.

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By *airymuscles OP Man
over a year ago

scotland

Snobbery breeds resentment,snobs are folk who talk to you like houre some sort of scum,best thing about it is the ones who do,generally are the worst looking! And class is not measured by size of house,or car!!!

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

"Snobbery breeds resentment,snobs are folk who talk to you like houre some sort of scum,best thing about it is the ones who do,generally are the worst looking! And class is not measured by size of house,or car!!!"
have a look at your paragraph is this then not what you are complaining of "best thing about it is the ones who do generally are the worst looking"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's a "standards" rather than snobbery thing...but then again I could be wrong. Everyone has standards and if others don't live up to them, does that make the other person a snob?

Now where's my popcorn and beanbag seat?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think it's a "standards" rather than snobbery thing...but then again I could be wrong. Everyone has standards and if others don't live up to them, does that make the other person a snob?

Now where's my popcorn and beanbag seat?"

or in some cases live down to their standards

oh dear have i said something snobbish there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you haven't been to a social or CJ's, you're a nobody, is the vibe I get.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you haven't been to a social or CJ's, you're a nobody, is the vibe I get.

You're wrong. There's loads goes on which nobody feels or has the need to publicise or promote here (or anywhere else)."

I have no doubt you are correct that things happen that don't publicise. I don't feel the need to talk about my activities.

However, there is still a "social elite", with many in jokes, and references which will only be understood by those in the know, and this seems to outsiders like me to come from those who attend clubs and socials.

On another matter, as has been said about smoking policy, it is the law, as such places will be classed as "Enclosed public spaces".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take away the fancy cars , the designer labels, big houses and what lies behind it. Ordinary people. I seen something recently and it was very accurate about people who may have a certain standard or if you want to call it class where it was said they had a good lifestyle .... Lifestyle maybe , but that doesnt necessarily mean good life !!!

Because behind all that everyone has a background some trier to better themselves. Some happy with what they have and who they are. Does others need to be made to feel looked down upon or up as said earlier.

Snobbery to me is pinky out ,oh no you're rif raf !!! and would cross the road to avoid rather than help if trouble fell at their feet.

We all have people we are more comfortable being around but I like to think I can mingle and mix with the majority and fit in where and when required ..

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

"If you haven't been to a social or CJ's, you're a nobody, is the vibe I get.

You're wrong. There's loads goes on which nobody feels or has the need to publicise or promote here (or anywhere else).

I have no doubt you are correct that things happen that don't publicise. I don't feel the need to talk about my activities.

On another matter, as has been said about smoking policy, it is the law, as such places will be classed as "Enclosed public spaces"."
im quite sure on occasion you have shared a joke with folk that would understand what your refrence point was is that any diffrent there is no elite if your upset that these folk can talk and share jokes join in otherwise dont complain of it

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"If you haven't been to a social or CJ's, you're a nobody, is the vibe I get.

You're only paying for admission . There's no entitlement to shag whoever takes your fancy.

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"If you haven't been to a social or CJ's, you're a nobody, is the vibe I get.

You're wrong. There's loads goes on which nobody feels or has the need to publicise or promote here (or anywhere else).

I have no doubt you are correct that things happen that don't publicise. I don't feel the need to talk about my activities.

....."

That'll only be a problem if you let it be one.

Unless, of course, you wish to join this 'social elite' - but why would you?

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow

"If you haven't been to a social or CJ's, you're a nobody, is the vibe I get.

You're wrong. There's loads goes on which nobody feels or has the need to publicise or promote here (or anywhere else).

I have no doubt you are correct that things happen that don't publicise. I don't feel the need to talk about my activities.

On another matter, as has been said about smoking policy, it is the law, as such places will be classed as "Enclosed public spaces"."

I think you're viewpoint is skewed by the forums. The vast majority of people on here haven't attended a social or CJ's.

Should point out I've heard good things about CJ's but we've never been and not sure if we ever will.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you haven't been to a social or CJ's, you're a nobody, is the vibe I get.

You're only paying for admission . There's no entitlement to shag whoever takes your fancy."
Don't think anyone made any references towards entitlement to shag anyone.If he has could you point it out to me please Onny.

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

dunno if ur statistics are entirely true..... I stand corrected 75% are timewasters.

what do u meen by timewasters?is it ppl who dont meet u or dont reply to your msgs?."

Just what I was wondering?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If 20 ppl naked in a room who knows or cares what they have not me all the same naked.

but depending if you class your self as a snob or not depends if my dad can batter your dad lol

happy swinging guys

mr fudge

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If 20 ppl naked in a room who knows or cares what they have not me all the same naked.

but depending if you class your self as a snob or not depends if my dad can batter your dad lol

happy swinging guys

mr fudge We all shite broon.

xxx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If 20 ppl naked in a room who knows or cares what they have not me all the same naked.

but depending if you class your self as a snob or not depends if my dad can batter your dad lol

happy swinging guys

mr fudge We all shite broon.or is it golden brown for some

xxx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If 20 ppl naked in a room who knows or cares what they have not me all the same naked.

but depending if you class your self as a snob or not depends if my dad can batter your dad lol

happy swinging guys

mr fudge We all shite broon.or is it golden brown for some

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That'll only be a problem if you let it be one.

Unless, of course, you wish to join this 'social elite' - but why would you?"

Where did I say it was a problem? I was making an observation, nothing more.

I have no desire to join any "social elite". I am simply pointing out that whilst the members of this won't see themselves as such, that is how they are perceived by some.

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"If you haven't been to a social or CJ's, you're a nobody, is the vibe I get.

You're only paying for admission . There's no entitlement to shag whoever takes your fancy.Don't think anyone made any references towards entitlement to shag anyone.If he has could you point it out to me please Onny.

Is there another reason for going?

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By *eganWhoWoman
over a year ago

Borders

"If you haven't been to a social or CJ's, you're a nobody, is the vibe I get.

You're only paying for admission . There's no entitlement to shag whoever takes your fancy."

No but when you say hi to people and they stare thru you, ignore you and turn their backs on you? Really? You're saying thats welcoming?

Its not snobbery its downright rudeness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you haven't been to a social or CJ's, you're a nobody, is the vibe I get.

You're only paying for admission . There's no entitlement to shag whoever takes your fancy.

No but when you say hi to people and they stare thru you, ignore you and turn their backs on you? Really? You're saying thats welcoming?

Its not snobbery its downright rudeness"

I was shagging and had to concentrate...sorry if I appeared rude..but I did cum thinking about u

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you haven't been to a social or CJ's, you're a nobody, is the vibe I get.

You're only paying for admission . There's no entitlement to shag whoever takes your fancy.

No but when you say hi to people and they stare thru you, ignore you and turn their backs on you? Really? You're saying thats welcoming?

Its not snobbery its downright rudeness

I was shagging and had to concentrate...sorry if I appeared rude..but I did cum thinking about u

I love your sense of humour man!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well we are defo not snobs !!! but we do have standards

lol

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"If you haven't been to a social or CJ's, you're a nobody, is the vibe I get.

You're only paying for admission . There's no entitlement to shag whoever takes your fancy.

No but when you say hi to people and they stare thru you, ignore you and turn their backs on you? Really? You're saying thats welcoming?

Its not snobbery its downright rudeness"

You may very well be right. I wouldn't be seen dead any where near the place.

Others make different choices and that entirely up to them - but you can't force people to be friendly or sociable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you haven't been to a social or CJ's, you're a nobody, is the vibe I get.

You're only paying for admission . There's no entitlement to shag whoever takes your fancy.

No but when you say hi to people and they stare thru you, ignore you and turn their backs on you? Really? You're saying thats welcoming?

Its not snobbery its downright rudeness

You may very well be right. I wouldn't be seen dead any where near the place.

Others make different choices and that entirely up to them - but you can't force people to be friendly or sociable."

There's clubs I wouldn't want to frequent as I find them sleazy. If that makes me a snob, that's fine by me

Have to say though, that I've always felt very comfortable and welcome at CJ's. Never found anyone to be either unsociable or rude

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

".............

Have to say though, that I've always felt very comfortable and welcome at CJ's. Never found anyone to be either unsociable or rude

At the risk of stating the obvious, females are always going to be more welcome at sex parties than guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

".............

Have to say though, that I've always felt very comfortable and welcome at CJ's. Never found anyone to be either unsociable or rude

At the risk of stating the obvious, females are always going to be more welcome at sex parties than guys."

Well clearly not the lady who posted saying she felt ignored

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Happy to turn my nose up at anyone!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Happy to turn my nose up at anyone!

nice big boogie there..can I lick it?

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

"Happy to turn my nose up at anyone!

nice big boogie there..can I lick it?

Il roll it up and save it for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Happy to turn my nose up at anyone!

nice big boogie there..can I lick it?

Il roll it up and save it for you

Is the purple varnish included??

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

"Happy to turn my nose up at anyone!

nice big boogie there..can I lick it?

Il roll it up and save it for you

Is the purple varnish included??

There may be a small flake left over

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Just read the posts....

I always have a good time at CJs...

But thats probably because im FUCKING SOCIABLE!!!!!!!

Unless of course I get all snobby on you and simply ignore you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just read the posts....

I always have a good time at CJs...

But thats probably because im FUCKING SOCIABLE!!!!!!!

Unless of course I get all snobby on you and simply ignore you!

You're about as sociable as a baseball bat and twice as lethal

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

You're about as sociable as a baseball bat and twice as lethal

Oi Mrs....I even gave you a hug!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Happy to turn my nose up at anyone!

nice big boogie there..can I lick it?

Il roll it up and save it for you

snottysnobby

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're about as sociable as a baseball bat and twice as lethal

Oi Mrs....I even gave you a hug!!!

and a lovely hug it was too

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By *airymuscles OP Man
over a year ago

scotland

And most of the comments here confirm this! Snobs r us!!!! Haha

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland

Are you talking about the whole site or those that use the forums? I don't think the site is clique or snobby in general....but I can see why people think that about the forums.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nae snobs here that I've seen. Couple o nutters, filthy fuckers and maybe some away wi the fairies but nae snobs.

Even this Chewbacca looking Leper gets replies to messages/backchat on the forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you haven't been to a social or CJ's, you're a nobody, is the vibe I get.

Thank you salt n sugar. I am a single guy on profile, but have always attended. Cjs as escort to a well kent lady of the parish. I merely offered an opinion re the op....wasn't greetin about not getting a shag ( as stated I have, everytime )

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By *ime For ItMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

The only time you should look down on someone is when you are helping them up !

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