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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If you only do soft swap does it stop you meeting up with full swap swingers and vice versa ? Have people respected that or tried you steer you towards more or as full swap have you suggested more with someone who stated soft swap only

does it all come down full sex in the end up, in order for it to be deemed a good meet ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We say full swap, but would never stop us meeting a soft swap couple!

As for boundaries, they should never be crossed without the other persons consent, and for us full swap is not the be all and end all of a meet, lots and lots and lots of fun can be had without doing full swap!!!

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Full swap....

But would never cross anyones boundaries!

Doesnt have to be full to be fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We just meet and go with the flow, soft swap is still a great experience and as enjoyable as full swap

Geek

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By *lue4youCouple
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

Monsters Inc. The profile says it all. Love N Lust, Lady Blue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Monsters Inc. The profile says it all. Love N Lust, Lady Blue "

Will be full swap on the 22nd though want my birthday to go with a bang lol x

Geek

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By *lue4youCouple
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

We always respect peeps boundaries, but choose not to meet a couple for soft swap. Just our preference xx

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow

Our profile is pretty clear that we only soft swing but that doesn't mean we don't meet couples who full swing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have done both, and equally enjoyed both

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By *ick and lisaCouple
over a year ago

hull

Well we only do soft swap but you never no mite try full swap one day if we meet the right couple and get to no them and hit it off lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Us too. We're a Hot Wife type couple for straight M(+)MF fun for Sue. Before it was soft swap, now she likes a good fuck with a guy/s. Both have been great. I can't understand the arrogance of someone who has a go at soft swap people - as long as the boundaries are clear.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't choose to meet a soft swap only couple, if it happens to be soft swap in the moment then fine

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

In a previous profile it was said that due to the preference at the time of soft swap for us even though the profile stated it on it that the time spent chatting and mailing was timewasting to the other couple when we were clarifying it prior to a social meet

And definitely agree that full sex is not the be all and end all when meeting others

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By *oom For 1 MoreMan
over a year ago

Ayrshire


"Full swap....

But would never cross anyones boundaries!

Doesnt have to be full to be fun "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't choose to meet a soft swap only couple, if it happens to be soft swap in the moment then fine "

Fair enough. As long as all know the score - that's the key

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't choose to meet a soft swap only couple, if it happens to be soft swap in the moment then fine

Fair enough. As long as all know the score - that's the key "

Agree x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't choose to meet a soft swap only couple, if it happens to be soft swap in the moment then fine

Fair enough. As long as all know the score - that's the key

Agree x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In a previous profile it was said that due to the preference at the time of soft swap for us even though the profile stated it on it that the time spent chatting and mailing was timewasting to the other couple when we were clarifying it prior to a social meet

And definitely agree that full sex is not the be all and end all when meeting others "

I wouldn't agree that was timewasting x to me a timewaster is someone who arranges a meet and doesn't show without any contact to cancel x

If others don't read your profile correctly that's there problem x

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By *abrina59TV/TS
over a year ago

moved to cuckold land

I think many have said that no matter if full swap or soft should always be fun

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland

Soft always leaves me feeling cheated lol full for us

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By *llyandjimCouple
over a year ago

Stirling

Soft swing only for us, we have been swinging 8 years and have never changed our minds about it.

we have had a few cpls suggesting more I very politely say no thx and continue with the fun. They always wa8 till we r in the bedroom b4 they ask but no one has ever tried 2 push us in 2 anything. But if u know me u will no that I want b pushed lol.

None of the full swap cpls we have been with have ever complained that we have left them felling cheated or short changed lol

We have regular meets with a very hot Cpl on here they are not only full swap we have lots ov differences when it comes to what we r looking for but the 4 ov us get on so well and have so much fun, there is no need 2 cut off ur noes to spite ur face fun is fun and we r fun

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

very much dependant on connection as a single it tends to be about connection with the fem and will invariably be full sex not swap if attending as a couple then either for me as a great portion of my pleasure is derived from seeing pleasure not the acts themselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Full swap but never cross other people's boundaries. Each to their own. Fun can b had both ways xxx

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