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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Would you shag someone just because you were horny but wernt attracted to?

For me it would be no never if there isnt an attraction or a spark it just simply wouldnt happen.

whats your thoughts on this ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope has to be an attraction there and a connection no point in doing it for the sake of it or taking one for the team if part off a couple.

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By *he Bluesome TwosomeCouple
over a year ago

west lothian


"Nope has to be an attraction there and a connection no point in doing it for the sake of it or taking one for the team if part off a couple."

Couldn't have put it better myself x

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Nope has to be an attraction there and a connection no point in doing it for the sake of it or taking one for the team if part off a couple."
yep totally agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I would, not because I'm desperate.

It might be the best shag I've ever had or it might be the best blowjob or kiss.

I agree that there has to be an attraction.

Personally, I've had sex with women that I don't find attractive but it's been great, 2 stand out in particular.

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes

have done it way back in the dim and distant past and whilst it scratches an itch at the time, left me feeling very empty afterwards. I much prefer to have good friends to see regularly, chat to, have a giggle and build up that rapport. Leads to very sexy, horny, sensual, fulfilling sex. mmmmmmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope never it's all about the banter and the connection,

I'd rather sort myself out "if it ever came to that"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with scottishSexGoddess, the next day you do feel a bit empty.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"have done it way back in the dim and distant past and whilst it scratches an itch at the time, left me feeling very empty afterwards. I much prefer to have good friends to see regularly, chat to, have a giggle and build up that rapport. Leads to very sexy, horny, sensual, fulfilling sex. mmmmmmmmm "
yes totally agree it does sometimes leave you feeling that way and thats not very nice neither is being used for sex just because they were horny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah, quality over quantity

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Nah, quality over quantity "
Exactly !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is the female version of "Any hole's a goal"?

Maybe Fab should have a "Desperation list" instead of the hotlist.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Yes and I have.

I am 54 years of age, have had multiple partners and I would be a liar to say that there hasn't been someone that I have played with alone or a group that I shagged because I horny and the opportunity was there.

I mean no disrespect to them but I ain't going to lie.

But I applaud the many who say they haven't. Do I believe them all: no.

I stood behind the bar of a club where people have said no way with them, 4 wines later: shagging like it was their last ever

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"What is the female version of "Any hole's a goal"?

Maybe Fab should have a "Desperation list" instead of the hotlist."
Any cock will do lol

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Yes and I have.

I am 54 years of age, have had multiple partners and I would be a liar to say that there hasn't been someone that I have played with alone or a group that I shagged because I horny and the opportunity was there.

I mean no disrespect to them but I ain't going to lie.

But I applaud the many who say they haven't. Do I believe them all: no.

I stood behind the bar of a club where people have said no way with them, 4 wines later: shagging like it was their last ever "
Alcohol is the devils work lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've shagged some real bow wows in my time but some real stunners too. Alcohol often played a part to be fair, would I do it now? no I dont think I would. I reckon I grew up eventually. Some never do of course.....

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"I've shagged some real bow wows in my time but some real stunners too. Alcohol often played a part to be fair, would I do it now? no I dont think I would. I reckon I grew up eventually. Some never do of course....."
Also very true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is the female version of "Any hole's a goal"?

Maybe Fab should have a "Desperation list" instead of the hotlist.Any cock will do lol"

I thought maybe "Any pole is a goal". Unless they're not Polish.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well for me I guess that looks do play a part but there are some wonderful people out there who have personalities that far outshine the outer shell. I try to adhere to the fact that me myself am no oil painting and that some may find me attractive n some not. I don't really worry or care too much about looks in a possible playmate. Yes there does have to be an attraction of course but if that person is bubbly, funny and great to be around then why let looks affect what may possibly be a good time and a great friend. There are some gorgeous looking people on here but have the profile of being completely up themselves, so really it's a no brainer for me. Do I want to be accepted into the gorgeous camp and be like that or just be myself and if I appeal to you great but if not that's great too. Looks are over dramatised. I say we are here for adult fun so have fun, make some great friends and have the time of your life the world is ugly enough without adding to it.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Very well put bufking

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"What is the female version of "Any hole's a goal"?

Maybe Fab should have a "Desperation list" instead of the hotlist.Any cock will do lol

I thought maybe "Any pole is a goal". Unless they're not Polish."
for many it could still be any holes a goal lol

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

In the past the beer goggles have clouded my judgement a few times but these days no way

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

Not had a meet in ages as not found someone i clicked with. Has to be the connection and attraction there . If not then i have perfectly great toys that scratch the itch if horny . Would i rather have a guy i can meet ....sure! Is meeting any random for a shag because I'm horny worth while ... For me no way. But if it works for others then up to them .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as theres a physical attraction or something in the way you first communicate. The spark that gets it going. But if theres nothing then Ill pass.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my misspent youth/ adulthood/ mature ness (delete as appropriate) I have had the one night stand to satisfy the craving at that particular time, usually drink related, but like others regretted in the morning( still done it again tho) think now I prefer a bit of a connection and banter ( and pulse) rather than the fancy a shag outlook or notches on the bed

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By *anarkshirelassCouple
over a year ago

lanarkshire

There just has to be a spark, a click or attraction between the parties.

The thought of just doing it because it's in front of you and being offered doesnt register with us at all.

But then again it does explain why all the ladies want to shag me (MrLA) though...aye right..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Accepting the premise that attraction goes beyond appearances and includes personality then no never!

Why have sex with just anyone ??? If I was going to do that I might as well charge and at least earn some ££££s

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland

Was a party it got hot and yes I fucked a guy I wasn't attracted to and he was much much older than me......did I regret it nop he was a damned good shag lol ......

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland


"Was a party it got hot and yes I fucked a guy I wasn't attracted to and he was much much older than me......did I regret it nop he was a damned good shag lol ......"

And nop I wasn't desperate .....just all got n bothered and wanted cock lol.....

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By *illow PimpMan
over a year ago

Midlothian


"Was a party it got hot and yes I fucked a guy I wasn't attracted to and he was much much older than me......did I regret it nop he was a damned good shag lol ......"

Good to taking one for the team is alive and kicking

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland


"Was a party it got hot and yes I fucked a guy I wasn't attracted to and he was much much older than me......did I regret it nop he was a damned good shag lol ......

Good to taking one for the team is alive and kicking "

Haha those were the days

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By *illow PimpMan
over a year ago

Midlothian


"Good to taking one for the team is alive and kicking

Haha those were the days "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd rather not prefer rapport sexual tension build up with some attraction not always to do with looks more the person they are first as it's them that wud make me feel horny

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By *ir laugh a lotMan
over a year ago

glasgow


"Would you shag someone just because you were horny but wernt attracted to?

For me it would be no never if there isnt an attraction or a spark it just simply wouldnt happen.

whats your thoughts on this ?"
don't I know it!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is the female version of "Any hole's a goal"?

Maybe Fab should have a "Desperation list" instead of the hotlist.Any cock will do lol"
that not a jason donovan song?

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By *airymusclesMan
over a year ago

scotland

Looks make no difference,its about chemistry and i believe im attracted to girls when i speak to them more than just how they look,little things like mannerisms,and sound of voice and how they sit/walk etc..... I have done it before,and yes at times it was empty,but other times it was WOW.....lifes all about experiences and you have to accept not everyone will be suited to you even if they're stunning.

To be fair the best sex ive had generally comes from respect and trust,one night quickies are never good.

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By *u-cee smurfetteWoman
over a year ago

aberdeen

Theres got to be attraction and a spark i aint gods gift but i have had meets with some lovely guys on here on my own or with hubby

not here for collecting notches on my bed post

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In my misspent youth/ adulthood/ mature ness (delete as appropriate) I have had the one night stand to satisfy the craving at that particular time, usually drink related, but like others regretted in the morning( still done it again tho) think now I prefer a bit of a connection and banter ( and pulse) rather than the fancy a shag outlook or notches on the bed "

What he said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If i were at a club, i would pull a good looking cheek and would shag the living days out of her. If im alone, horny and so wanted to get off, i will look online and find any girls that is available. No matter how fat and ugly she is, i would still shag her..For me its all about getting off...lol..Some have contacted me for second round but if im slightly attracted to them on the first meet then i will only meet them if i wanted to get off AGAIN and there is no good looking ones available...Now that's what u call DESPERATE FUCK with no attraction...pmsl...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope no way would I do that. There would have to be an attraction before anything would happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm reaching 50 with a ever quickening gallop.....course I've shagged someone that I wasn't attracted to!!

Did it for the last year of my marriage

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm reaching 50 with a ever quickening gallop.....course I've shagged someone that I wasn't attracted to!!

Did it for the last year of my marriage "

I thought women did that (grudgingly) for the whole of the marriage?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm reaching 50 with a ever quickening gallop.....course I've shagged someone that I wasn't attracted to!!

Did it for the last year of my marriage

I thought women did that (grudgingly) for the whole of the marriage?"

No, that's just the bj's

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