FabSwingers.com forum: Jealousy among couples

By *outhsider69 OP Man
over a year ago

glasgow

Something a little strange happened to me she other day. I wrote a welcome message to a new couple and got a lovely warm reply from the female, which included an unsolicited clear face pic (she was beautiful incidentally). I replied to thank her for the pic and asked if it was too forward to send a friend invite after just one message. This was no problem and the invite was accepted. When I logged in the following day at lunch, I'd been unfriended. This has happened before, sometimes people don't read the full profile until after friending someone, sometimes they just see another male, fem or couple that they fancy more. Anyhow, I planned to send a short message wishing them well and no hard feelings if I wasn't what they were looking for. Unfortunately by the time I got home I'd been blocked.

So, here's my theory, would love to hear everyone else's thoughts too

Wife online herself sees a guy she fancies who's messaged her. Husband logs in later and sees who she's friended, reads the message exchange and thinks 'she's a bit too keen on him for my liking' unfriends, and subsequently blocks the guy.

Do you think that when couples first join, the idea of their partner being with someone else is all very exciting and arousing, but when the reality of it actually happening is put in front of them, they get a little surprise attack of jealousy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it can be exactly as you described it. At the end of the day I Imagine it's a big leap for a new couple and as they love each other, yet have these fantasies, actually doing them may be a bit difficult. It's up to them really they are the couple but yeah I could understand how it may be frustrating for you too.

I never message couples but will reply to the odd 1 that messages me. They can be complex! Ha ha!

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Jealousy is a human emotion and can and often does rear its ugly head on here not just between couples but many singles on here too.

Maybe it was something you said or maybe she just had a change of mind and it possibly had nothing to do with the hubby at all,what would have made you assume it was something to do with the hubby ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Assumption may be correct, that's why we we both read messages and discuss before friend invites etc. Communication is the key

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By *outhsider69 OP Man
over a year ago

glasgow

She was very keen and asked about what I liked, I'd related a few stories about previous meets with other couples, mostly involving some role play, which she found really exciting. I just wondered if she'd told him about them and he's just pit his foot down and said 'we're NOT doing THAT!' lol

There a great book about jealousy written by Nancy Friday, the author of 'The Secret Garden' the book about women's sexual fantasies.

In one of my unsuccessful attempts to discuss the idea of swinging with my wife, she did go as far as confessing a fantasy about being with one particular guy, Idris Elba, and the thought of it had me aroused for days. But, to be honest, I'm not entirely sure how I'd react if he came up to us in a bar and said 'hi, I'm here to fuck your wife' lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think your spot on. I met a couple for a social and when i got home, there was a very nice message from the guy, thanking me for meeting them, but his wife/partner showed far too much interest in me for his liking and didnt want to take it any further.

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By *outhsider69 OP Man
over a year ago

glasgow

What made me assume it was the hubby was that all the messages came from her, all with kisses, all very warm and positive. Not just a 'hi' let's talk a bit more. I'd sent a couple of face pics and bare top pic (cock pics not my style) and she'd said the really loved them. I didn't even venture to ask for any pics of her, but she sent one anyway. I've messaged so many times on fab I think I can judge how keen someone was.

Of course, it could be just that I replied to her, and he considered that a bit rude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I(Iain) can totally understand the jealousy part as have been there in the past and yes in the present as well.it is an emotion i never experienced until 25 months ago and is definitely an emotion i could happily do with out and don't like the person it can turn you into.

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By *outhsider69 OP Man
over a year ago

glasgow

I know where you're coming from Iain, I don't really do jealousy myself, but in the rare times I've come close to the edge of it, I don't particularly like what I see.

And at the risk of stirring something up, I have to say Shelley is a total hottie ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Assumption may be correct, that's why we we both read messages and discuss before friend invites etc. Communication is the key

This, the most important thing for us whether we're looking to meet a man, woman or couple is that we both like them, personality mainly. When you're looking to be so intimate with someone it's quite easy to be put off by small things or what may seem innocuous comments made by them x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know where you're coming from Iain, I don't really do jealousy myself, but in the rare times I've come close to the edge of it, I don't particularly like what I see.

And at the risk of stirring something up, I have to say Shelley is a total hottie ??"

lol no its kl nothing getting stirred but its good to see im not the only one....and yes she is definitely a hottie.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"I(Iain) can totally understand the jealousy part as have been there in the past and yes in the present as well.it is an emotion i never experienced until 25 months ago and is definitely an emotion i could happily do with out and don't like the person it can turn you into."
Its human nature Iain and anyone who says they dont get jealous are liars lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol Just for the record its a two way street with the jealousy thing. Weird thing is its not like that when we go together on a meet to a social or cjs or when out together ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I(Iain) can totally understand the jealousy part as have been there in the past and yes in the present as well.it is an emotion i never experienced until 25 months ago and is definitely an emotion i could happily do with out and don't like the person it can turn you into.Its human nature Iain and anyone who says they dont get jealous are liars lol"

We all get jealous about some things at some point but I (Martin) never ever feel jealous about meets, even with just men. I just love seeing, hearing and knowing Diane is being really pleasured. It's a major part of swinging for both of us x

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Lol Just for the record its a two way street with the jealousy thing. Weird thing is its not like that when we go together on a meet to a social or cjs or when out together ....

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I hear you does she suck him better than i do ? Does she kiss him better than i do ?are a better shag than i am ....its natural

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I (Jessica) have got to admit that jealousy is in uz all!! Never at a meet have I been jealous tho as we both make the decision wether we like them or not!

I chat all day every day to guys girls couples but I am pretty straight forward for instance a single man contacted us just saying he read the profile and liked the sound of uz and he was pretty hot but I was polite enough to thank him for his time reading it but we weren't looking for single guy jus yet!

Although....... There has been this once at a meet when it was full swap and the fem was giving my guy it good and proper and I was like hmmmm!! He's enjoying that BUT now when I am "on my own" I think of that scenario!! So did that make me jealous of that or what???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My(Iain) jealousy is not of when Shelley is with me as a couple i love watching her enjoy her self not even when Shelley is out as a single girl which she is.its more. Of when we are apart from each other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

"My(Iain) jealousy is not of when Shelley is with me as a couple i love watching her enjoy her self not even when Shelley is out as a single girl which she is.its more. Of when we are apart from each other."

But isn't that less about jealousy and more about wanting to be together?

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

But isn't that less about jealousy and more about wanting to be together?

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you beat me to this comment Andy ..sounds like you wanting more than you can have but just enjoy what you do have in the mean time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But isn't that less about jealousy and more about wanting to be together?

you beat me to this comment Andy ..sounds like you wanting more than you can have but just enjoy what you do have in the mean time

i thank god every day that i can share a voice or a message let alone what Shelley and i do share when we can hey time to see each other....so enjoy it i do.

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By *outhsider69 OP Man
over a year ago

glasgow

I never really the got the true cuckolding thing, couldn't get my head around that, but a coupl of years back a hotwife husband explained his take to me. He really gets off on seeing his wife having fun, he's secure and confident enough in their relationship that jealousy doesnt even enter into it. Jealousy is usually born out of insecurity, so without any insecurity, there's no jealousy. What he said was 'imagine that you're watching a live porn movie, and your wife is the star'. That, I totally get, and definitely think I have that kind of thinking in me."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jealousy is in us all and as was said communication is the key. This being said however, Mrs fancies people I don't and vice versa but when it comes to inviting people to have fun with us it's not always about looks or jealousy but sometimes you get that "unsure" feeling about people.

As communication is big for us we have always said if either of us are unsure about someone for whatever reason, then it's a no.

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By *outhsider69 OP Man
over a year ago

glasgow

That all makes perfect sense, and a short message to back away would easily suffice. It was the rapid and extreme nature of the u-turn that made me think the unfriending and suss quest blocking was a unilateral decision.

You wouldn't believe it, but it happened again today. No blocks for 6 months and now two in two days lol

I responded to a meet today post looking specifically for males. I replied addressing both (learning from the post that started this thread) and got a curt response saying 'No ta, there two of us here, not just the fem'

I replied explaining I'd only responded to the ad specifically for males and wished them best of luck and to have fun anyway.... Couldn't send it though as was already blocked

The mind boggles lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That all makes perfect sense, and a short message to back away would easily suffice. It was the rapid and extreme nature of the u-turn that made me think the unfriending and suss quest blocking was a unilateral decision.

You wouldn't believe it, but it happened again today. No blocks for 6 months and now two in two days lol

I replied explaining I'd only responded to the ad specifically for males and wished them best of luck and to have fun anyway.... Couldn't send it though as was already blocked

The mind boggles lol"

Mayb ur using the wrong choice of words lol

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By *lamMan
over a year ago

Greenock

Another theory could be is that it was a single guy with a cpls profile, Got the pics he wanted and then proceeded to unfriend and block you. I have the feeling this has happened to me on an occasion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Another theory could be is that it was a single guy with a cpls profile, Got the pics he wanted and then proceeded to unfriend and block you. I have the feeling this has happened to me on an occasion. "

That's possibly what's is happening, I always check there verifications and the amount of time they have been on the site before I send pics! Can never be to safe on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Assumption may be correct, that's why we we both read messages and discuss before friend invites etc. Communication is the key

Unless specifically told otherwise I always assume I am talking to both m and f. Saves any awkwardness. I have had a very bad experience with a jealous fb on here. So rather than being the trusting type I have learned to be more wary....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I never really the got the true cuckolding thing, couldn't get my head around that, but a coupl of years back a hotwife husband explained his take to me. He really gets off on seeing his wife having fun, he's secure and confident enough in their relationship that jealousy doesnt even enter into it. Jealousy is usually born out of insecurity, so without any insecurity, there's no jealousy. What he said was 'imagine that you're watching a live porn movie, and your wife is the star'. That, I totally get, and definitely think I have that kind of thinking in me."

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what you've described above doesn't, in our opinion describe cuckolding. I love seeing Diane being pleasured as do many if not all the male halves of couples but I don't consider myself a cuckold for a second.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not sure how I'd feel about all this if I was in a couple. They'd need to be much worse looking than me and have a much smaller cock too if I was inviting a guy round to help plough the wife

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

jealousy can and will always destroy relationships, but I guess it's how you manage it that determines which way your thoughts and actions go. I think that jealousy is a really healthy feeling, why?. Well to be jealous shows you care shows your protective nature, but it's how you let it manifest inside you. With such an emotive issue of loving or being loved your protective club comes out because you don't want that person to possibly take from you what you love, but if you let the jealousy smoulder and not erupt because you know that even if the hunky guy or gorgeous girl happens to be making your partner chuckle with delight you understand that it is you who are the greatest person in their life. You are the one they fell in love with. The hunk, gorgeous girl is just like a feather blowing in the wind, it may land and settle for a few seconds but soon after when another gust catches it then off it goes again. However your love is strong and true, steadfast. You can sit back and smile cause you have brought pleasure to your loved one in way that no other could so the smouldering ember called jealousy will remain just that a healthy part of you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"jealousy can and will always destroy relationships, but I guess it's how you manage it that determines which way your thoughts and actions go. I think that jealousy is a really healthy feeling, why?. Well to be jealous shows you care shows your protective nature, but it's how you let it manifest inside you. With such an emotive issue of loving or being loved your protective club comes out because you don't want that person to possibly take from you what you love, but if you let the jealousy smoulder and not erupt because you know that even if the hunky guy or gorgeous girl happens to be making your partner chuckle with delight you understand that it is you who are the greatest person in their life. You are the one they fell in love with. The hunk, gorgeous girl is just like a feather blowing in the wind, it may land and settle for a few seconds but soon after when another gust catches it then off it goes again. However your love is strong and true, steadfast. You can sit back and smile cause you have brought pleasure to your loved one in way that no other could so the smouldering ember called jealousy will remain just that a healthy part of you.

you always hit it on the head mate your words make so much sense.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

can i get a hell yeah!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hell yeh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Och I'm just a soppy fecker. I wouldn't mind but I haven't even had a glass of wine. lol, my pearls of wisdom are about as much use as a fanny fart in a wind tunnel whilst doing the can can and as welcome. Ha ha

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By *outhsider69 OP Man
over a year ago

glasgow

Well if you're a soppy fecker so am I! Couldn't have put it better myself. We can all experience jealousy, but it's how we respond to the feeling, positively or negatively, that makes the difference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"jealousy can and will always destroy relationships, but I guess it's how you manage it that determines which way your thoughts and actions go. I think that jealousy is a really healthy feeling, why?. Well to be jealous shows you care shows your protective nature, but it's how you let it manifest inside you. With such an emotive issue of loving or being loved your protective club comes out because you don't want that person to possibly take from you what you love, but if you let the jealousy smoulder and not erupt because you know that even if the hunky guy or gorgeous girl happens to be making your partner chuckle with delight you understand that it is you who are the greatest person in their life. You are the one they fell in love with. The hunk, gorgeous girl is just like a feather blowing in the wind, it may land and settle for a few seconds but soon after when another gust catches it then off it goes again. However your love is strong and true, steadfast. You can sit back and smile causee brought pleasure to your loved one in way that no other could so the smouldering ember called jealousy will remain just that a healthy part of you.

You make the point really well. If we are honest we all have little pangs of jealousy from time to time and in a special relationship sometimes these feelings have to be fought off or they can ruin all the best bits you have both built up together. The uniqueness of what you have together is paramount.... no one else shares the little personal details, the laughs, the memories but we can't ever own another person and should never try....as Sting says "If you love someone, set them free". As it was put to me once.. ."Others may pass through....only one takes up residence" before adding....."you're not moving in though"!!!!!! Charming! Lol.....The only relationships we should worry about really are our own.....but we're only human after all.....

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By *lamMan
over a year ago

Greenock

"jealousy can and will always destroy relationships, but I guess it's how you manage it that determines which way your thoughts and actions go. I think that jealousy is a really healthy feeling, why?. Well to be jealous shows you care shows your protective nature, but it's how you let it manifest inside you. With such an emotive issue of loving or being loved your protective club comes out because you don't want that person to possibly take from you what you love, but if you let the jealousy smoulder and not erupt because you know that even if the hunky guy or gorgeous girl happens to be making your partner chuckle with delight you understand that it is you who are the greatest person in their life. You are the one they fell in love with. The hunk, gorgeous girl is just like a feather blowing in the wind, it may land and settle for a few seconds but soon after when another gust catches it then off it goes again. However your love is strong and true, steadfast. You can sit back and smile causee brought pleasure to your loved one in way that no other could so the smouldering ember called jealousy will remain just that a healthy part of you.

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

New couple...

She sends face pic without being asked..

She gets a few short stories about your exploits....

She gets to see your private pics...

Then you are no longer a friend and you are blocked!

Yeah, you are right...her hubby is jealous

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By *ouplesloversCouple
over a year ago

near Glasgow

I can honestly say there's not a scrap of jealousy between us and I can't ever see their being any. We have been the brunt of it though when playing with a couple and in separate rooms as they wanted. The guy lost the plot and wanted to come in the room and go for me but luckily L calmed him down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Jealousy is in us all and as was said communication is the key. This being said however, Mrs fancies people I don't and vice versa but when it comes to inviting people to have fun with us it's not always about looks or jealousy but sometimes you get that "unsure" feeling about people.

As communication is big for us we have always said if either of us are unsure about someone for whatever reason, then it's a no.

We're exactly the same. Communication is absolutely key and even if one half of the couple we're looking at is stunning, if the other person doesn't feel the same way, we move on. No big deal but we have to both be comfortable.

This has actually led to us just having social meets before anything happens. We tried a few drinks and fuck meets but it usually resulted in one of us not having as good a time as they hadn't fancied one or other of the couples and we hadn't had the chance to really discuss it.

Going back to the OP's original point, it might have been a totally fake profile as well.

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow

There are a few explanations for this but it may be easier for the ego to go with the 'Jealous partner' one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought exactly that.

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland

Anyone couple who has been swinging long term will probably experience some sort of jealousy in their swinging lifetime ....especially when boundaries are pushed ....like everything else it's a learning experience .....

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

you paint a picture,of a wife hot for you,

a husband,unable to accept his wife's lust,overruling her needs,and desires,

he blocks in a fit of jealousy,

shattering her hopes,tearing her wishes, into a million peices.

with scant regard,for her thoughts,or needs.

i'll paint you a different picture.

she saw your private pics,and just didn't fancy you.

assumption,arrogance,and conceit,don't paint a true picture,

but they will paint you the picture,you want to see.

;-)

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By *outhsider69 OP Man
over a year ago

glasgow

Sounds like you'd made up your mind about what kind of person I am before you even started, that's a shame because so many other people have approached the thread with an open mind and contributed a lot of interesting viewpoints.

If you'd read the initial posting, you'd see that private pics were sent by me prior to us friending, which she responded positively to, saying said she loved, then subsequently accepted the friend invite.

It's oh so easy to assume this is just an arrogant single guy having a rant about being blocked by a couple.

But thanks for your input nevertheless, says more about you than about the topic in my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few years ago my husband and I met this couple for some fun. We initially started playing in the living room but before we knew it the wife was kicking her husband and saying remember our rules!! We thought this was strange but we all carried on. Again she started kicking him, stood up and stormed out to the bathroom. Her husband, now very embarrassed rolled his eyes, apologised and explained he's not allowed to enjoy other people more than his wife!!!!! Needless to say we asked them to leave, had a wee cocoa and went to bed

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By *an and wifeyCouple
over a year ago

n lincs

The green eyed monster can pop up all over lol. I can be a little jealous with my lovely wife when we go out as I do love her to bits. Yet when swinging I have surprised my self as I don't get jealous at all if any thing I get turned on with the fun the wife is receiving as long as I am involved one way or another I just love getting the misses all horned up. Yet out in the pub. Total green ogre pops out once in a while

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By *outhsider69 OP Man
over a year ago

glasgow

I totally get that, and I think that's all about knowing that the people you play with are like minded and respectful. The guy in the pub leering however, isn't necessarily. You can't judge on one look, but chances are his intentions are all about his pleasure and not so much her's.

Men that play with your wife have been carefully selected by both of you, whereas the guy in the pub is just a random, there's bound to be different emotions stirred in these cases

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By *outhsider69 OP Man
over a year ago

glasgow

I'm sorry this really made me laugh! How does someone quantify levels of enjoyment to compare lol

Did he have an enjoyment-ometer which he turned up a bit to high?

You never know, maybe it was their secret role play, and they got off on her giving him a kicking!

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

"Sounds like you'd made up your mind about what kind of person I am before you even started, that's a shame because so many other people have approached the thread with an open mind and contributed a lot of interesting viewpoints.

It's oh so easy to assume this is just an arrogant single guy having a rant about being blocked by a couple.

But thanks for your input nevertheless, says more about you than about the topic in my opinion."
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No you failed to mention in your original post,any messages after friends invite was accepted.

Oops you wrote it,I would expect you to know what was in it,perhaps you should read it again,then get back to me.

You also fail to mention in your original post,you are a married man,

cheating on his wife,oops again.

Perhaps this has more to do with their sudden lack of interest,and subsequent blocking.

There are many scenarios that could cause them to take the action they did,

The least likely of which,

is the arrogant,conceited,fantasy scenario,you dreamt up.

For some reason,some couples,find it hard to trust a man,

who is cheating on his wife,

hmmmmmm I wonder why.

I hope my first post,does say more about me,

It says I can spot an untrustworthy chancer,

from his very first post.

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

It's oh so easy to assume this is just an arrogant single guy having a rant about being blocked by a couple.

But thanks for your input nevertheless, says more about you than about the topic in my opinion.-

No you failed to mention in your original post,any messages after friends invite was accepted.

Oops you wrote it,I would expect you to know what was in it,perhaps you should read it again,then get back to me.

You also fail to mention in your original post,you are a married man,

cheating on his wife,oops again.

Perhaps this has more to do with their sudden lack of interest,and subsequent blocking.

There are many scenarios that could cause them to take the action they did,

The least likely of which,

is the arrogant,conceited,fantasy scenario,you dreamt up.

For some reason,some couples,find it hard to trust a man,

who is cheating on his wife,

hmmmmmm I wonder why.

I hope my first post,does say more about me,

It says I can spot an untrustworthy chancer,

from his very first post.

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shhhhhh careful you will upset the masses never make it known you detest cheats its quite a proportion of the site will bite your ass back for it

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By *outhsider69 OP Man
over a year ago

glasgow

Unlike many men, I was upfront about my situation in my profile. The open minded folk on this site I've met took the time to listen to my situation and made an informed choice

You response is so full of inaccuracies it's not even worthy of a full itemised response. The whole point of this thread was about the topic of jealousy, not the specific case if this couple.

You, however, win first prize for being the most narrow minded and judgemental contributor in this thread by a country mile

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

It's oh so easy to assume this is just an arrogant single guy having a rant about being blocked by a couple.

But thanks for your input nevertheless, says more about you than about the topic in my opinion.-

No you failed to mention in your original post,any messages after friends invite was accepted.

Oops you wrote it,I would expect you to know what was in it,perhaps you should read it again,then get back to me.

You also fail to mention in your original post,you are a married man,

cheating on his wife,oops again.

Perhaps this has more to do with their sudden lack of interest,and subsequent blocking.

There are many scenarios that could cause them to take the action they did,

The least likely of which,

is the arrogant,conceited,fantasy scenario,you dreamt up.

For some reason,some couples,find it hard to trust a man,

who is cheating on his wife,

hmmmmmm I wonder why.

I hope my first post,does say more about me,

It says I can spot an untrustworthy chancer,

from his very first post.

shhhhhh careful you will upset the masses never make it known you detest cheats its quite a proportion of the site will bite your ass back for it

Lol

live and let live I say,

But don't come on here,

whinging with some fantasied bull,like the op.

When the answers staring you in the face.

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

"Unlike many men, I was upfront about my situation in my profile. The open minded folk on this site I've met took the time to listen to my situation and made an informed choice

You response is so full of inaccuracies it's not even worthy of a full itemised response. The whole point of this thread was about the topic of jealousy, not the specific case if this couple.

You, however, win first prize for being the most narrow minded and judgemental contributor in this thread by a country mile

...

And you the most arrogant,conceited,

bullsh.....,by a country mile.

Ps Perhaps the jealousy was all in your head.

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

"Unlike many men, I was upfront about my situation in my profile. The open minded folk on this site I've met took the time to listen to my situation and made an informed choice

You response is so full of inaccuracies it's not even worthy of a full itemised response. The whole point of this thread was about the topic of jealousy, not the specific case if this couple.

You, however, win first prize for being the most narrow minded and judgemental contributor in this thread by a country mile

...

And you the most arrogant,conceited,

bullsh.....,by a country mile.

Ps Perhaps the jealousy was all in your head.

"
pmsl wonder how many addendums you caused to be written on profiles caused a few myself

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By *outhsider69 OP Man
over a year ago

glasgow

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By *outhsider69 OP Man
over a year ago

glasgow

Haha! Manners cost nothing, and the vast majority of folk I've chatted to and met are lovely, well mannered and respectful people. There's just a few that spoil it for the rest.

If a profile has a bunch of addendum's that reads like a health and safety document, is it really worth messaging lol

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By *outhsider69 OP Man
over a year ago

glasgow

There are literally thousands of people more open minded, more articulate, and more worthy of intelligent debate with than you.

You don't know me, you're not interested in getting to know me, and given your input so far, I'm relieved as fuck about that.

Maybe you have issues about being cheated on that made you like this, there's people you can talk to about that, it might help you

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

"There are literally thousands of people more open minded, more articulate, and more worthy of intelligent debate with than you.

You don't know me, you're not interested in getting to know me, and given your input so far, I'm relieved as fuck about that.

Maybe you have issues about being cheated on that made you like this, there's people you can talk to about that, it might help you"

No issues here,

And may I add,you seem to dislike judgemental people.

Even though you played judge,jury,and executioner,on the couple you messaged,in your op.

Double standards,are not really a standard,you know.

Your whole fantasy scenario, is based on massaging your own ego,rather than any facts or reality.

My opinion of you won't really change,a whinging,

arrogant,conceited,

bullsh.....

Oops it did change,forgot about the whinging bit.

Ps I'm thinking,we were never really going to be friends anyway.

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"New couple...

She sends face pic without being asked..

She gets a few short stories about your exploits....

She gets to see your private pics...

Then you are no longer a friend and you are blocked!

Yeah, you are right...her hubby is jealous

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