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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

This site is getting worse for fake profiles or people saying they will meet and then no reply on the day or just complete patch!

Someone give me hope before it's 2 late!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hear you man.

Like you been let down many times in the past.

Just smile and carry on,best thing I can say.

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow


"This site is getting worse for fake profiles or people saying they will meet and then no reply on the day or just complete patch!

Someone give me hope before it's 2 late!"

You won't get very far with your profile hidden!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This site is getting worse for fake profiles or people saying they will meet and then no reply on the day or just complete patch!

Someone give me hope before it's 2 late!

You won't get very far with your profile hidden! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your not the only one buddy we have been let down last minute after sorting baby sitters and getting dressed up and getting there for no shows.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This site is getting worse for fake profiles or people saying they will meet and then no reply on the day or just complete patch!

Someone give me hope before it's 2 late!"

Let down? This site is a nightmare I'm taking a break cause its boring me shitless and sick of some desperate people who can't take no for a answer and choose to take the piss out of my weight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This site is getting worse for fake profiles or people saying they will meet and then no reply on the day or just complete patch!

Someone give me hope before it's 2 late!

Let down? This site is a nightmare I'm taking a break cause its boring me shitless and sick of some desperate people who can't take no for a answer and choose to take the piss out of my weight "

Don't forget about our party next month if you can make it down that is x

Geek

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This site is getting worse for fake profiles or people saying they will meet and then no reply on the day or just complete patch!

Someone give me hope before it's 2 late!

Let down? This site is a nightmare I'm taking a break cause its boring me shitless and sick of some desperate people who can't take no for a answer and choose to take the piss out of my weight

Don't forget about our party next month if you can make it down that is x

Geek "

Pfftttt how could I forget x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Let down? This site is a nightmare I'm taking a break cause its boring me shitless and sick of some desperate people who can't take no for a answer and choose to take the piss out of my weight "

Dude must be an asshole with knockback issues!

You, weight issue? Not on my 21" screen you haven't......Plus I have recently been to specsavers!

Yer a total fucking honey!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Let down? This site is a nightmare I'm taking a break cause its boring me shitless and sick of some desperate people who can't take no for a answer and choose to take the piss out of my weight

Dude must be an asshole with knockback issues!

You, weight issue? Not on my 21" screen you haven't......Plus I have recently been to specsavers!

Yer a total fucking honey! "

We'll on my mobile screen all I can say about you is..... Perv

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Opppps almost gave a s**t

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By *ighlandballsMan
over a year ago

perth

Best going clubs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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We'll on my mobile screen all I can say about you is..... Perv "

Yup. nae arguements there!

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

If you keep getting let down, stood up, or messed about, then you have to look at the common denominator.... you!

Or, more accurately, your selection process.

We have never been messed about etc... and we have been swinging for 5 years... I tend to believe that anyone who contacts us could possibly be a fake, and I go through their profile with a fine tooth comb, starting with veries, and moving onwards.

I dont jump at the first sign of a possible meet, if I am unsure I ask for a phone number, to speak to the lady.

If they provide an address, I go on Google maps street-view and ask a couple of questions about the area.

Sure, its a lot of work... but it does work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This site is getting worse for fake profiles or people saying they will meet and then no reply on the day or just complete patch!

Someone give me hope before it's 2 late!

Let down? This site is a nightmare I'm taking a break cause its boring me shitless and sick of some desperate people who can't take no for a answer and choose to take the piss out of my weight "

You just miss me eh fi xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well id just say the site has died over last year.

Couple years ago was spot on for meets and stuff now just getting worse.

And I sure hope it's no me that's causing it as I don't give anyone bother just wanna fuck and have fun, after all it is a swinging site!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you keep getting let down, stood up, or messed about, then you have to look at the common denominator.... you!

Or, more accurately, your selection process "

I personally don't agree with this statement, there are alot of shallow people on here who will look at a face picture straight off and say hell no! YES I think we should be picky who we meet for safety measures and also as a personal choice but we live in a society where apparently thinner is beautiful and popular is better some people still have these parts In their head. In my personal choice is love to meet a guy who is average Joe and doesn't have verifications like a Santa's list.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men always say women are bad for time wasting bollocks! men are bad too been let down more times than I've had hot dinners thinking am I doing something wrong to be constantly let down like this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men always say women are bad for time wasting bollocks! men are bad too been let down more times than I've had hot dinners thinking am I doing something wrong to be constantly let down like this? "

Nah cootie just intimidated with you big tits and sexy ass

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

then why arrange to meet grrrr it makes me so angry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"then why arrange to meet grrrr it makes me so angry "
cause people are dumplings not in the yummy sense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel like an idiot when it happens! It's hard to trust anyone really isn't it. it really puts me off meeting and completely ruins it for everyone. Also since I'm moaning lol. Something else I have noticed, especially with the guys, they put pics up the look like they were taken in the 90s! Lol. I don't know why, as I had a guy come to mine before. He looked so handsome in his pics and in real life looked about 25 years older! Lol! I asked him to leave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Also since I'm moaning lol. Something else I have noticed, especially with the guys, they put pics up the look like they were taken in the 90s! Lol. I don't know why, as I had a guy come to mine before. He looked so handsome in his pics and in real life looked about 25 years older! Lol! I asked him to leave "

I personally wouldn't arrange a meet unless I had firstly got some kind of positive response to a PM or occasional banter on the chat. From there it would maybe be an exchange of private pics and/or an ad to friends and even if something were to be set up I'd meet somewhere public on the day or at least on a prior meet so the lady feels comfortable.

I'm a rough/rugged looking dirty mouth bastard most of the time but underneath I have manners and a bit of consideration for others and if your comfortable and made to feel safe then it's all fireworks and earthquakes in the end! . Cannae see why guys would want to make a dick of themselves after putting in the effort to get to the meeting stage???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I feel like an idiot when it happens! It's hard to trust anyone really isn't it. it really puts me off meeting and completely ruins it for everyone. Also since I'm moaning lol. Something else I have noticed, especially with the guys, they put pics up the look like they were taken in the 90s! Lol. I don't know why, as I had a guy come to mine before. He looked so handsome in his pics and in real life looked about 25 years older! Lol! I asked him to leave "

Scared to meet you now I have more wrinkles than stated hahaha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well must agree with fi

I don't think that statement is true. Most of the people on here think there special and stuff. It's just a fucking sex site.

I say it gets stripped back to basics again and start getting used as a sex site and no for people to upload pics and think there amazing with 15+ veris and got a wee internet family

Anyway rant over

Peace and love to the real people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ahem hope thats not aimed at me am nothing special never claim to be just sik of constantly let down and men blaming it all on women when they are just as bad and no i don't mean all of them either

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ahem hope thats not aimed at me am nothing special never claim to be just sik of constantly let down and men blaming it all on women when they are just as bad and no i don't mean all of them either"

Not aimed at anyone

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow


"Well must agree with fi

I don't think that statement is true. Most of the people on here think there special and stuff. It's just a fucking sex site.

I say it gets stripped back to basics again and start getting used as a sex site and no for people to upload pics and think there amazing with 15+ veris and got a wee internet family

Anyway rant over

Peace and love to the real people"

Lol maybe we should all forego our preferences,

change our meet criteria.

Jump through hoops,

whilst juggling burning coals.

At the same time as reciting the bible in full.

Just so you can get your end away,

and judging by your posts,you fucking need it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well must agree with fi

I don't think that statement is true. Most of the people on here think there special and stuff. It's just a fucking sex site.

I say it gets stripped back to basics again and start getting used as a sex site and no for people to upload pics and think there amazing with 15+ veris and got a wee internet family

Anyway rant over

Peace and love to the real people

Lol maybe we should all forego our preferences,

change our meet criteria.

Jump through hoops,

whilst juggling burning coals.

At the same time as reciting the bible in full.

Just so you can get your end away,

and judging by your posts,you fucking need it.

"

Take it that post is also meant for me if he agrees with me

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow


"Well must agree with fi

I don't think that statement is true. Most of the people on here think there special and stuff. It's just a fucking sex site.

I say it gets stripped back to basics again and start getting used as a sex site and no for people to upload pics and think there amazing with 15+ veris and got a wee internet family

Anyway rant over

Peace and love to the real people

Lol maybe we should all forego our preferences,

change our meet criteria.

Jump through hoops,

whilst juggling burning coals.

At the same time as reciting the bible in full.

Just so you can get your end away,

and judging by your posts,you fucking need it.

Take it that post is also meant for me if he agrees with me"

Dita,It's not always all about you.

Life's can be fun,but sometimes you've got to look beyond the clouds.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well must agree with fi

I don't think that statement is true. Most of the people on here think there special and stuff. It's just a fucking sex site.

I say it gets stripped back to basics again and start getting used as a sex site and no for people to upload pics and think there amazing with 15+ veris and got a wee internet family

Anyway rant over

Peace and love to the real people

Lol maybe we should all forego our preferences,

change our meet criteria.

Jump through hoops,

whilst juggling burning coals.

At the same time as reciting the bible in full.

Just so you can get your end away,

and judging by your posts,you fucking need it.

Take it that post is also meant for me if he agrees with me

Dita,It's not always all about you.

Life's can be fun,but sometimes you've got to look beyond the clouds.

"

Erm ok and yeah agree with you on that on life can and should be fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We get people who ask for face photos and say" if we're attracted we'll consider chatting". We then send the face photos and then they wander off. They judge you based on a photo rather than how you are as a person. I just think it's shallow.

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"We get people who ask for face photos and say" if we're attracted we'll consider chatting". We then send the face photos and then they wander off. They judge you based on a photo rather than how you are as a person. I just think it's shallow."

Not shallow if they dont see the attraction....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well they said our non face photos looked great so must have been basing it on our actual faces.

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"Well they said our non face photos looked great so must have been basing it on our actual faces."

You may find that most do actually care what the face looks like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well we personally don't criticise anyone for their looks or otherwise but well aware a lot do. We are more against people who are bullies or pushy than anything which is more a personality thing than anything else. Just because somebody is good looking doesn't mean they are going to be good in bed or be a nice person and just because somebody isn't as good looking doesn't mean their going to be crap in bed or not a nice person.

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"Well we personally don't criticise anyone for their looks or otherwise but well aware a lot do. We are more against people who are bullies or pushy than anything which is more a personality thing than anything else. Just because somebody is good looking doesn't mean they are going to be good in bed or be a nice person and just because somebody isn't as good looking doesn't mean their going to be crap in bed or not a nice person. "

We all know that.....

But its one of the hardest things to work out when you are dealing with people online....

Socials are a huge part of swinging for a reason....

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow


"Well they said our non face photos looked great so must have been basing it on our actual faces.

You may find that most do actually care what the face looks like "

In that respect,Swinging is just like real life,there has to be some kind of attraction.

The difference is,if your not shagging in real life,you know it's likely to be your own fault.

If your not shagging on a swingers site,it's everybody else's fault.

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