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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have come to the conclusion that single guys get a worse rep than they deserve.I have had more hassle and abuse from couples than I have from single men (just for having the temerity to say I am not interested )

What's that about? Is it because there's two of them and they feel invincible and better able to bully the single woman at the other end??

Or do I have a pyscho magnet??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have come to the conclusion that single guys get a worse rep than they deserve.I have had more hassle and abuse from couples than I have from single men (just for having the temerity to say I am not interested )

What's that about? Is it because there's two of them and they feel invincible and better able to bully the single woman at the other end??

Or do I have a pyscho magnet??"

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Il bet its the male half.........

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

What?? Eh??

But we ALWAYS get the blame!!!

Did I miss a memo? Is there a giant asteroid hurtling towards us to destroy the planet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have come to the conclusion that single guys get a worse rep than they deserve.I have had more hassle and abuse from couples than I have from single men (just for having the temerity to say I am not interested )

What's that about? Is it because there's two of them and they feel invincible and better able to bully the single woman at the other end??

Or do I have a pyscho magnet??"

can I get an amen ??

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By *illow PimpMan
over a year ago

Midlothian


"Or do I have a pyscho magnet??"

You and me both chic

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hell is in the process of freezing over too ,I hear!

You made me laugh , thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have come to the conclusion that single guys get a worse rep than they deserve.I have had more hassle and abuse from couples than I have from single men (just for having the temerity to say I am not interested )

What's that about? Is it because there's two of them and they feel invincible and better able to bully the single woman at the other end??

Or do I have a pyscho magnet??"

Welcome to our world.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What gets me is that,while I don't always answer every single message (I lose track and sometimes when there's a lot I don't answer all of them),when I do answer messages ,I am always polite, it's not in my nature to be nasty to people.Seems to just encourage them though ...

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By *uitar_antiheroMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"What gets me is that,while I don't always answer every single message (I lose track and sometimes when there's a lot I don't answer all of them),when I do answer messages ,I am always polite, it's not in my nature to be nasty to people.Seems to just encourage them though ...

"

Maybe it cos u iz a headcase or sumfin?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What gets me is that,while I don't always answer every single message (I lose track and sometimes when there's a lot I don't answer all of them),when I do answer messages ,I am always polite, it's not in my nature to be nasty to people.Seems to just encourage them though ...

Maybe it cos u iz a headcase or sumfin?"

Yeah cuz I is a pure mentaler an that !!!

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk


"What gets me is that,while I don't always answer every single message (I lose track and sometimes when there's a lot I don't answer all of them),when I do answer messages ,I am always polite, it's not in my nature to be nasty to people.Seems to just encourage them though ...

Maybe it cos u iz a headcase or sumfin?"

Says the original Buckie ned head case

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not all single guys are bad, I find 90% are lovely genuine guys just the odd clown who can't take the no thanks but yes I agree couples can be really bad at times x

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By *uitar_antiheroMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"What gets me is that,while I don't always answer every single message (I lose track and sometimes when there's a lot I don't answer all of them),when I do answer messages ,I am always polite, it's not in my nature to be nasty to people.Seems to just encourage them though ...

Maybe it cos u iz a headcase or sumfin?

Says the original Buckie ned head case "

Shutit ya hairy faggot or ah'll chib ye ya bas

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Some people.....men,women & couples....simply dont take kindly to rejection no matter how nice you say it...

Showing their true colours is always nice to see

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Some people.....men,women & couples....simply dont take kindly to rejection no matter how nice you say it...

Showing their true colours is always nice to see "

I find that fascinating ,what do they hope to achieve by heaping abuse on you? They are just proving that you were right to follow your instinct about them!!!

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By *ky HookMan
over a year ago

Dundee


"I have come to the conclusion that single guys get a worse rep than they deserve.I have had more hassle and abuse from couples than I have from single men (just for having the temerity to say I am not interested )

What's that about? Is it because there's two of them and they feel invincible and better able to bully the single woman at the other end??

Or do I have a pyscho magnet??"

I checked your profile out for the pyscho magnet and found it in that georgous ass of yours

I was wondering how they managed to get past the pyscho defence shield that is your brilliant profile filler. Then I remembered they probably just perved your pics checked youre bi (I know you dont like that label but pan isnt an option the orginisers allow. And they wouldnt have read down that far either) then made an ass out of themselfs and you and sent the message thinking "shell do for us, shes lucky were interested in her so shell come running soon as we get in touch" and their egos cant handle it when you think for yourself and say "no thanks"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just making sure you all know, I'm a single guy

Now waits for the messages from girls, now that single guys are nearly officially NOT the worst offenders, lol

looks for ma lurpak and cucumber

no be two ticks

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

How dare he/she/they say no to me/us!!!!!

Im/we are fkn gorgeous and they should count themselves lucky I/we gave them the time of day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How dare he/she/they say no to me/us!!!!!

Im/we are fkn gorgeous and they should count themselves lucky I/we gave them the time of day "

pmsl, that's what I was thinking, they should be so grateful to you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just making sure you all know, I'm a single guy

Now waits for the messages from girls, now that single guys are nearly officially NOT the worst offenders, lol

looks for ma lurpak and cucumber

no be two ticks

"

Horsey ,you wrongun!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just making sure you all know, I'm a single guy

Now waits for the messages from girls, now that single guys are nearly officially NOT the worst offenders, lol

looks for ma lurpak and cucumber

no be two ticks

"

Horsey ,you wrongun!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I need to remember and be grateful and shag everyone who asks , very remiss of me !!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have come to the conclusion that single guys get a worse rep than they deserve.I have had more hassle and abuse from couples than I have from single men (just for having the temerity to say I am not interested )

What's that about? Is it because there's two of them and they feel invincible and better able to bully the single woman at the other end??

Or do I have a pyscho magnet??

I checked your profile out for the pyscho magnet and found it in that georgous ass of yours

I was wondering how they managed to get past the pyscho defence shield that is your brilliant profile filler. Then I remembered they probably just perved your pics checked youre bi (I know you dont like that label but pan isnt an option the orginisers allow. And they wouldnt have read down that far either) then made an ass out of themselfs and you and sent the message thinking "shell do for us, shes lucky were interested in her so shell come running soon as we get in touch" and their egos cant handle it when you think for yourself and say "no thanks""

That's too accurate an assessment , you sure it wasn't you

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"I need to remember and be grateful and shag everyone who asks , very remiss of me !!"

See, your getting the hang of it now

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By *z ThongzWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

Have to say i dont really get hassle from either couples or the single male , i politely say thanks for your mail but I am not looking to meet new people at the moment but i wish u luck on the site , seems to work for me . Or maybe i am just a scary woman and they dont hassle me lol .

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

I never say "at the moment"...

They always mail again a week later and ask if looking yet

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By *ky HookMan
over a year ago

Dundee


"

That's too accurate an assessment , you sure it wasn't you "

Positive I liked your profile so much wanted to try and impress you but I was too scared to send it as mail incase it didnt. If you hadnt replied I dont think I could have handled it. I would have broke down and cried

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

That's too accurate an assessment , you sure it wasn't you

Positive I liked your profile so much wanted to try and impress you but I was too scared to send it as mail incase it didnt. If you hadnt replied I dont think I could have handled it. I would have broke down and cried "

... And called me names and stuff all because how dare I not be impressed,right ?.. Hey I am getting how this works !!!

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk


"I need to remember and be grateful and shag everyone who asks , very remiss of me !!"

Me thinks we need to remind you just how lucky you are young lady!!!!!

How dare you not shag every single person who you speak to????? You are supposed to shag on every 4th day with a Y in it, as long as the moon is in Uranus and the North Star is perfectly aligned with your bedroom window!!! (Just so you can see better obviously)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got a message from a girl on fab

now life is changing for single guys on here

lol

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk


"I got a message from a girl on fab

now life is changing for single guys on here

lol

"

Can I borrow some lurpak is NOT a message!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I got a message from a girl on fab

now life is changing for single guys on here

lol

Can I borrow some lurpak is NOT a message! "

damg I was eating a sandwich when I read your post

lol

where's the burds

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk


"I got a message from a girl on fab

now life is changing for single guys on here

lol

Can I borrow some lurpak is NOT a message!

damg I was eating a sandwich when I read your post

lol

where's the burds"

All run away cuz we are here

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By *ky HookMan
over a year ago

Dundee


"

That's too accurate an assessment , you sure it wasn't you

Positive I liked your profile so much wanted to try and impress you but I was too scared to send it as mail incase it didnt. If you hadnt replied I dont think I could have handled it. I would have broke down and cried ... And called me names and stuff all because how dare I not be impressed,right ?.. Hey I am getting how this works !!!"

Exactly lol it doesnt

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By *ky HookMan
over a year ago

Dundee


"Have to say i dont really get hassle from either couples or the single male , i politely say thanks for your mail but I am not looking to meet new people at the moment but i wish u luck on the site , seems to work for me . Or maybe i am just a scary woman and they dont hassle me lol . "

I go with the second option thongz your rep precedes you lol xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I got a message from a girl on fab

now life is changing for single guys on here

lol

Can I borrow some lurpak is NOT a message! "

...

He knicked my Curley wurly and I want if back.Not the Lurpak.Don't like straight Lurpak,dilute it with other stuff and turn it into cake and we'll talk !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most single guys are a pests some couples are pushy and what about the single fems can be picky but hey were a mixed group of people we all have preferences and different ways that may not seem to come across as desperate or harsh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I got a message from a girl on fab

now life is changing for single guys on here

lol

Can I borrow some lurpak is NOT a message! ...

He knicked my Curley wurly and I want if back.Not the Lurpak.Don't like straight Lurpak,dilute it with other stuff and turn it into cake and we'll talk !"

How did you know I can bake

lol

away to lick some icing from my ...

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By *z ThongzWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"Have to say i dont really get hassle from either couples or the single male , i politely say thanks for your mail but I am not looking to meet new people at the moment but i wish u luck on the site , seems to work for me . Or maybe i am just a scary woman and they dont hassle me lol .

I go with the second option thongz your rep precedes you lol xxx"

cheers sky and here was me thinking u liked me lol

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk


"I got a message from a girl on fab

now life is changing for single guys on here

lol

Can I borrow some lurpak is NOT a message! ...

He knicked my Curley wurly and I want if back.Not the Lurpak.Don't like straight Lurpak,dilute it with other stuff and turn it into cake and we'll talk !"

I've got your curly wurly - and it's gonna cost if you want to see it again!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I got a message from a girl on fab

now life is changing for single guys on here

lol

Can I borrow some lurpak is NOT a message! ...

He knicked my Curley wurly and I want if back.Not the Lurpak.Don't like straight Lurpak,dilute it with other stuff and turn it into cake and we'll talk !

I've got your curly wurly - and it's gonna cost if you want to see it again! "

pmsl, I so hope that was Kay who replied there

dum de dum dum

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk


"I got a message from a girl on fab

now life is changing for single guys on here

lol

Can I borrow some lurpak is NOT a message! ...

He knicked my Curley wurly and I want if back.Not the Lurpak.Don't like straight Lurpak,dilute it with other stuff and turn it into cake and we'll talk !

I've got your curly wurly - and it's gonna cost if you want to see it again!

pmsl, I so hope that was Kay who replied there

dum de dum dum

"

I know

Wait til the ransom note arrives.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wish girls would stop just using me for chat, lol

gripping tightly again, bang there goes the table

pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a conversation that'll go round & round as ive spoken to single women who have said that other bi or gay women can be just as bad as single guys then you see the constant rants all over the feeds from couples/guys/girls who are all having a go at one of the aforementioned offenders.

It seems to me that the ones that dont do any of the harrassing is TV/TS so well done you guys/gals

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By *ky HookMan
over a year ago

Dundee


"

I go with the second option thongz your rep precedes you lol xxx

cheers sky and here was me thinking u liked me lol "

I do like you thongz and its because youre scarey lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We always find that is a male of the couple that behind couple account but we have a few males on friends that we chat to in the rooms that has been all right but we do get pestered and rude message when we open it to single male's it's the two of us that's on our account or most couples just want P on our own and we don't bully single female's or anyone if you're nice to us we are nice back or we block them

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By *z ThongzWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"

I go with the second option thongz your rep precedes you lol xxx

cheers sky and here was me thinking u liked me lol

I do like you thongz and its because youre scarey lol xx"

well seeing u dont know me that well i am really not in the slightest scarey unless u mean my bulldog chewing a wasp face x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This sort of thread comes up sooooo often and always, there isn't an answer and to most people who don't know you, you might be a psycho magnet, you might be one yourself, who knows...

The bottom line is there are 100's of different types of people on here, as there are in real life and frankly, some are brilliant people, some are ignorant fuckwits and some are to be plain avoided! The fact is that while there is no barrier to messaging anyone (aside from the filters being on of course), you may well get messages from fuckwits and the simply avoid crew. You've clearly tried to be civil and pleasant to them and, as in 'normal' life, some people won't take no for an answer and some react in a completely unreasonable manner. You can't do anything about it short of blocking and reporting them if its bad enough or telling them they're mentalist fuckwits then blocking and reporting them!

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk


"

He knicked my Curley wurly and I want if back.Not the Lurpak.Don't like straight Lurpak,dilute it with other stuff and turn it into cake and we'll talk !

I've got your curly wurly - and it's gonna cost if you want to see it again!

pmsl, I so hope that was Kay who replied there

dum de dum dum

I know

Wait til the ransom note arrives....... "

Can't get these bloody letters I've cut out of the paper to stick to the screen!!

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow


"I have come to the conclusion that single guys get a worse rep than they deserve.I have had more hassle and abuse from couples than I have from single men (just for having the temerity to say I am not interested )

What's that about? Is it because there's two of them and they feel invincible and better able to bully the single woman at the other end??

Or do I have a psycho magnet??"

Don't think you have a psycho magnet!

The more I read these forums the more it seems that there's a fair amount of aggro dished out and caused by couples. In some circumstances the culprits would no doubt trot out the 'choices' arguement, which is fair comment, but they still appear to be causing people aggro.

I know of one couple on here of whom I'm reliably informed that the profile's actually a joke and that only one of them is meeting! If only 1 is meeting then would it not be more logical to have a single profile? Call me simple if you like, but how does 1 = a couple??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This sort of thread comes up sooooo often and always, there isn't an answer and to most people who don't know you, you might be a psycho magnet, you might be one yourself, who knows...

The bottom line is there are 100's of different types of people on here, as there are in real life and frankly, some are brilliant people, some are ignorant fuckwits and some are to be plain avoided! The fact is that while there is no barrier to messaging anyone (aside from the filters being on of course), you may well get messages from fuckwits and the simply avoid crew. You've clearly tried to be civil and pleasant to them and, as in 'normal' life, some people won't take no for an answer and some react in a completely unreasonable manner. You can't do anything about it short of blocking and reporting them if its bad enough or telling them they're mentalist fuckwits then blocking and reporting them!

"

You're right of course and really I do know that , just sometimes you just do need to rant about it and the Forums are great for letting off steam and hearing other's stories so you're reminded that you're not alone in having to deal with psycho petri dish dwellers.So the post was less about the practical advice ,-which you have covered nicely - but more about letting off steam , it's worked a charm as you can see

Oh I am creepy looking psycho b**ch, ask anyone who knows me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

right let's all agree, there are hunners of timewasters on here, single guys, couples, single girls, Tv, etc..

But remeber there are genuine ones as well.

But all you girls need to know is ...

that I'm genuine and I wont bring any Lurpak with me on the first meet

cough, cough

wonder if my latest post will work

dum de dum dum, again

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk


"

You're right of course and really I do know that , just sometimes you just do need to rant about it and the Forums are great for letting off steam and hearing other's stories so you're reminded that you're not alone in having to deal with psycho petri dish dwellers.So the post was less about the practical advice ,-which you have covered nicely - but more about letting off steam , it's worked a charm as you can see

Oh I am creepy looking psycho b**ch, ask anyone who knows me "

Our work here is done if you're smiling again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This post made me smile

Men generally but not in all cases are being told we are a problem and its not fair that a few rotten eggs of the bunch were to ruin our reputation.

Respectable men unite lol !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Respectable men unite lol !!"

Grabs the first thing that cums to hand and waves it in the air in unison

lol

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk


"Respectable men unite lol !!

Grabs the first thing that cums to hand and waves it in the air in unison

lol

"

Put down that fecking lurpak!!!

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"right let's all agree, there are hunners of timewasters on here, single guys, couples, single girls, Tv, etc..

But remeber there are genuine ones as well.

But all you girls need to know is ...

that I'm genuine and I wont bring any Lurpak with me on the first meet

cough, cough

wonder if my latest post will work

dum de dum dum, again"

Dont have any curly wurlys....Will a wispa do????...

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman
over a year ago

kinky land


"I have come to the conclusion that single guys get a worse rep than they deserve.I have had more hassle and abuse from couples than I have from single men (just for having the temerity to say I am not interested )

What's that about? Is it because there's two of them and they feel invincible and better able to bully the single woman at the other end??

Or do I have a pyscho magnet??"

I concur 100%.

Its couples pretending to be single that cause more harm than good. They feel they are owed something as 'real swingers' are yet are quick to complain about single females that arnt single.

Im sick of the single man bashing!!

A small few of each group are either horrid or sad but the men on this site always get it in the neck :-\

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By *ugyukMan
over a year ago

dundee


"I need to remember and be grateful and shag everyone who asks , very remiss of me !!"

im still waiting !!!!

just in case eyv forgotten or summit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cake someone mentioned cake.

I don't send messages to single guys nor do I meet them so I can't vouch for their rep.

However, don't think I have had an abusive message on here ever. If I see a profile I like and I decide to break the ice to try and evoke some chat they usually must delete and move on and that goes for both single women and couples. Neither is worse than the other I get rejected equally from both.

My back is like a duck and there is a waterfall running around there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This post made my day. I enjoy meeting couples or singles. I did notice though that some couples do the old " your loss" thing when i've chosen not to take things further.

Maybe they are deluded due to the demand but it works both ways. Maybe it was their loss maybe I did miss out. You know what I guess i'll survive....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have come to the conclusion that single guys get a worse rep than they deserve.I have had more hassle and abuse from couples than I have from single men (just for having the temerity to say I am not interested )

What's that about? Is it because there's two of them and they feel invincible and better able to bully the single woman at the other end??

Or do I have a pyscho magnet??

I concur 100%.

Its couples pretending to be single that cause more harm than good. They feel they are owed something as 'real swingers' are yet are quick to complain about single females that arnt single.

Im sick of the single man bashing!!

A small few of each group are either horrid or sad but the men on this site always get it in the neck :-\ "

Yup there are arseholes no matter the conjugal status

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

LOVE when people say "Your loss"!!!

Exactly what im losing out in is beyond me when I have already expressed the opinion that I wouldnt touch them with a stick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This sort of thread comes up sooooo often and always, there isn't an answer and to most people who don't know you, you might be a psycho magnet, you might be one yourself, who knows...

The bottom line is there are 100's of different types of people on here, as there are in real life and frankly, some are brilliant people, some are ignorant fuckwits and some are to be plain avoided! The fact is that while there is no barrier to messaging anyone (aside from the filters being on of course), you may well get messages from fuckwits and the simply avoid crew. You've clearly tried to be civil and pleasant to them and, as in 'normal' life, some people won't take no for an answer and some react in a completely unreasonable manner. You can't do anything about it short of blocking and reporting them if its bad enough or telling them they're mentalist fuckwits then blocking and reporting them!

You're right of course and really I do know that , just sometimes you just do need to rant about it and the Forums are great for letting off steam and hearing other's stories so you're reminded that you're not alone in having to deal with psycho petri dish dwellers.So the post was less about the practical advice ,-which you have covered nicely - but more about letting off steam , it's worked a charm as you can see

Oh I am creepy looking psycho b**ch, ask anyone who knows me "

I can see from your pics that you're one to be avoided at all costs! I mean, you spend half your time covered in water and bubbles by the looks of it, whats that about?

Apologies if my reply come over a bit high and mighty, didn't mean to take out my biggest soap box and clamber on! You're absolutely right in being able to let off steam and if, like us, Fab is a bit of a 'life extra', its not like you can sit and talk to work colleagues about the nutjobs on here! Unless of course your work colleagues are on her as well and in that case, can I have at job at your place!

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Single guys for the most part aint a problem fact is most of the apparent single guys are nothing more than cheating hubbys or boyfriends

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This sort of thread comes up sooooo often and always, there isn't an answer and to most people who don't know you, you might be a psycho magnet, you might be one yourself, who knows...

The bottom line is there are 100's of different types of people on here, as there are in real life and frankly, some are brilliant people, some are ignorant fuckwits and some are to be plain avoided! The fact is that while there is no barrier to messaging anyone (aside from the filters being on of course), you may well get messages from fuckwits and the simply avoid crew. You've clearly tried to be civil and pleasant to them and, as in 'normal' life, some people won't take no for an answer and some react in a completely unreasonable manner. You can't do anything about it short of blocking and reporting them if its bad enough or telling them they're mentalist fuckwits then blocking and reporting them!

You're right of course and really I do know that , just sometimes you just do need to rant about it and the Forums are great for letting off steam and hearing other's stories so you're reminded that you're not alone in having to deal with psycho petri dish dwellers.So the post was less about the practical advice ,-which you have covered nicely - but more about letting off steam , it's worked a charm as you can see

Oh I am creepy looking psycho b**ch, ask anyone who knows me

I can see from your pics that you're one to be avoided at all costs! I mean, you spend half your time covered in water and bubbles by the looks of it, whats that about?

Apologies if my reply come over a bit high and mighty, didn't mean to take out my biggest soap box and clamber on! You're absolutely right in being able to let off steam and if, like us, Fab is a bit of a 'life extra', its not like you can sit and talk to work colleagues about the nutjobs on here! Unless of course your work colleagues are on her as well and in that case, can I have at job at your place! "

I am a mermaid clearly , like the ones in Pirates of the Caribbean ...I will lure you to your watery grave,I'll leave you to figure out what the lure is

I work at Me.inc so yeah , you can come work for me ,you can rant about Fabs all day long and you won't get fired!!

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow


"Single guys for the most part aint a problem fact is most of the apparent single guys are nothing more than cheating hubbys or boyfriends "

And most of the rest are a bunch of xxxxxxx.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey give us our bad rep back

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"right let's all agree, there are hunners of timewasters on here, single guys, couples, single girls, Tv, etc..

But remeber there are genuine ones as well.

But all you girls need to know is ...

that I'm genuine and I wont bring any Lurpak with me on the first meet

cough, cough

wonder if my latest post will work

dum de dum dum, again

Dont have any curly wurlys....Will a wispa do????... "

Pass the wipa,couldn't afford the ransom for the curley wurly so it's a gonner !

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes


"Or do I have a pyscho magnet??

You and me both chic "

I'm not a psycho and I have a certificate to prove it!!!!! Lol

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk


"right let's all agree, there are hunners of timewasters on here, single guys, couples, single girls, Tv, etc..

But remeber there are genuine ones as well.

But all you girls need to know is ...

that I'm genuine and I wont bring any Lurpak with me on the first meet

cough, cough

wonder if my latest post will work

dum de dum dum, again

Dont have any curly wurlys....Will a wispa do????...

Pass the wipa,couldn't afford the ransom for the curley wurly so it's a gonner ! "

Mmmmmmmmmmm curly wurly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have some faith, we're not all fakes, liars, moody, stroppy mares!

There are some great couples out there, trust me!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have some faith, we're not all fakes, liars, moody, stroppy mares!

There are some great couples out there, trust me! "

Of course there are, I don't doubt that for a second,the trouble is lately I seem to attract the attention of the decidedly nasty and unevolved ones.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Single guys for the most part aint a problem fact is most of the apparent single guys are nothing more than cheating hubbys or boyfriends "

Does that matter to you? You're a straight male, I don't think you'd be meeting males of any kind.

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"Single guys for the most part aint a problem fact is most of the apparent single guys are nothing more than cheating hubbys or boyfriends

Does that matter to you? You're a straight male, I don't think you'd be meeting males of any kind."

of course it matters because i get tarred as a lying cheating shitbag as that ends up folks perception of single guys as that is the behaviour that is the norm surrounding single guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Single guys for the most part aint a problem fact is most of the apparent single guys are nothing more than cheating hubbys or boyfriends

Does that matter to you? You're a straight male, I don't think you'd be meeting males of any kind.of course it matters because i get tarred as a lying cheating shitbag as that ends up folks perception of single guys as that is the behaviour that is the norm surrounding single guys "

Yeah true

The more cheaters that are on here, (will eventually get caught), timewasters, egits etc.. they all piss off single girls and couples, thus makes it harder for the genuine hot, sexy, (drop your panties girls), sexy people, (like me) to have a genuine chance of a meet

But there are timewaster sin every cliché, it's something we have to deal with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Single guys for the most part aint a problem fact is most of the apparent single guys are nothing more than cheating hubbys or boyfriends

Does that matter to you? You're a straight male, I don't think you'd be meeting males of any kind.of course it matters because i get tarred as a lying cheating shitbag as that ends up folks perception of single guys as that is the behaviour that is the norm surrounding single guys "

Ok, as a single guy, would you meet a married woman behind her husbands back? Or would she be a lying cheating shitbag too?

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"Single guys for the most part aint a problem fact is most of the apparent single guys are nothing more than cheating hubbys or boyfriends

Does that matter to you? You're a straight male, I don't think you'd be meeting males of any kind.of course it matters because i get tarred as a lying cheating shitbag as that ends up folks perception of single guys as that is the behaviour that is the norm surrounding single guys

Ok, as a single guy, would you meet a married woman behind her husbands back? Or would she be a lying cheating shitbag too?"

what you think because its a fem its ok nope i dont meet lying cheating fems either they are no better but getting away from the point the main reason for single guys bad perception imo is the lying cheating married guys pretending to be single

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn't say it was ok for a fem to cheat, Iam trying to establish whether or not there would be double standards here, and as you are quite vocal, I asked you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

YES! as much as some guys act like arse holes to the women some of the couples attitudes' are ridiculous. Takes two seconds to write a knockback or a few minutes to construct a message, no need for being horrible or intrusive to people.

And that's from one of the dreaded 'single guys!'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"YES! as much as some guys act like arse holes to the women some of the couples attitudes' are ridiculous. Takes two seconds to write a knockback or a few minutes to construct a message, no need for being horrible or intrusive to people.

And that's from one of the dreaded 'single guys!'"

very TRUE manners cost nothing lol

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Dont know whats worse....

The lying cheating waste of timers or the ones that blame them for not getting any meets!!

Christ almighty, IF we all thought that every other man/woman/couple were as bad as the select few that let us down we would all have given up by now and left....

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow

Just checked the OP and as I suspected, not a mention of cheating marrieds, in fact the OP was about couples!

This place really is getting awfy boring, time after time threads degenerate into rants against cheating marrieds, and what do they achieve? Not a thing, other than the usual culprits queuing up to vent their spleens! Hope they get some sort of relief!

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"Just checked the OP and as I suspected, not a mention of cheating marrieds, in fact the OP was about couples!

This place really is getting awfy boring, time after time threads degenerate into rants against cheating marrieds, and what do they achieve? Not a thing, other than the usual culprits queuing up to vent their spleens! Hope they get some sort of relief!

"

the op was about single males no longer being the worst offenders should the facts be hidden that a fair few of these apparent single males are lying cheating males no it shouldnt why should true single males be tarred with the same brush as the ones who are incapable of truth and why is it such an issue for you something you would like to share

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

**puts crown on head and doc marten boots on feet ***

My forum rant, go start your own wee fight elsewhere

Really it's fine fight away, to your heart's content, it's a free country and what an enjoyable way to spend your time too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"**puts crown on head and doc marten boots on feet ***

My forum rant, go start your own wee fight elsewhere

Really it's fine fight away, to your heart's content, it's a free country and what an enjoyable way to spend your time too "

Oh I love it when your angry.

Bet make up sex is amazing

lol

bet I get a doing

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"**puts crown on head and doc marten boots on feet ***

My forum rant, go start your own wee fight elsewhere

Really it's fine fight away, to your heart's content, it's a free country and what an enjoyable way to spend your time too

Oh I love it when your angry.

Bet make up sex is amazing

lol

bet I get a doing

"

I'd give you a doing ,but you'd enjoy it too much!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"**puts crown on head and doc marten boots on feet ***

My forum rant, go start your own wee fight elsewhere

Really it's fine fight away, to your heart's content, it's a free country and what an enjoyable way to spend your time too

Oh I love it when your angry.

Bet make up sex is amazing

lol

bet I get a doing

I'd give you a doing ,but you'd enjoy it too much! "

pmsl

OH you know me so well

Are you going to take a runny from your long hallway

pmsl

definite !, am gonna get it now

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow


"Just checked the OP and as I suspected, not a mention of cheating marrieds, in fact the OP was about couples!

This place really is getting awfy boring, time after time threads degenerate into rants against cheating marrieds, and what do they achieve? Not a thing, other than the usual culprits queuing up to vent their spleens! Hope they get some sort of relief!

the op was about single males no longer being the worst offenders should the facts be hidden that a fair few of these apparent single males are lying cheating males no it shouldnt why should true single males be tarred with the same brush as the ones who are incapable of truth and why is it such an issue for you something you would like to share "

Why should it be such an issue for you?

This thread was running along quite happily until you introduced the old chestnut of cheating marrieds. My understanding is that you're a genuine single male so why don't you just get on with it?

And is there something I'd like to share? Well it isn't really any of your business, you're a guy after all, but I don't have a problem sharing the fact that I'm married. And this is the first profile I've had on here that doesn't state that fact, and the reason for that is that I'm not meeting at the moment, so it isn't relevant!

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By *illow PimpMan
over a year ago

Midlothian

I'm sat here reading mostly dribble and contemplating who actually gives a fuck who fucks who, when, where, how and why.

Folk register on here for a variety off reasons and think its a god given right to fuck and be fucked upon signing up well its not.

Folk fuck who they want to fuck when they want to no one has the reserved right to send a message and expect a reply from any particular gender.

Drama, conflict and jealousy surrounds people day in day out in real life and this scene simply offers an escape for whatever reason you see fit.

Next week, next month next year, next century folk will still be moaning whilst those who don't give a fuck carry on regardless having fun and enjoying escapism from life and curve balls in general.

No one should feel the need to justify they're actions to what is predominantly strangers playing the game how they want to.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"I'm sat here reading mostly dribble and contemplating who actually gives a fuck who fucks who, when, where, how and why.

Folk register on here for a variety off reasons and think its a god given right to fuck and be fucked upon signing up well its not.

Folk fuck who they want to fuck when they want to no one has the reserved right to send a message and expect a reply from any particular gender.

Drama, conflict and jealousy surrounds people day in day out in real life and this scene simply offers an escape for whatever reason you see fit.

Next week, next month next year, next century folk will still be moaning whilst those who don't give a fuck carry on regardless having fun and enjoying escapism from life and curve balls in general.

No one should feel the need to justify they're actions to what is predominantly strangers playing the game how they want to. "

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow


"I'm sat here reading mostly dribble and contemplating who actually gives a fuck who fucks who, when, where, how and why.

Folk register on here for a variety off reasons and think its a god given right to fuck and be fucked upon signing up well its not.

Folk fuck who they want to fuck when they want to no one has the reserved right to send a message and expect a reply from any particular gender.

Drama, conflict and jealousy surrounds people day in day out in real life and this scene simply offers an escape for whatever reason you see fit.

Next week, next month next year, next century folk will still be moaning whilst those who don't give a fuck carry on regardless having fun and enjoying escapism from life and curve balls in general.

No one should feel the need to justify they're actions to what is predominantly strangers playing the game how they want to. "

Couldn't agree more!

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By *illow PimpMan
over a year ago

Midlothian

Just reread my post think I'm suffering Tourette's, i love the word...

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Just reread my post think I'm suffering Tourette's, i love the word... "
ffffuuuckkkk it so you do lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some men are nuts, some women are nuts, some men and women who come as a couple are twice as nuts.

That's life I'm afraid.

Deal with, block, move along

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk


"Just reread my post think I'm suffering Tourette's, i love the word... "

Nah, not Tourette's - just surprised you made so much sense in such a long post

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow


"Drama, conflict and jealousy surrounds people day in day out in real life and this scene simply offers an escape for whatever reason you see fit.

"

Sorry PP, just one thing I'd disagree with you on.

Sadly, the green-eyed monster inhabits Fabland too!

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By *illow PimpMan
over a year ago

Midlothian


"Sorry PP, just one thing I'd disagree with you on.

Sadly, the green-eyed monster inhabits Fabland too! "

Course it does, hence the snippets below.

Folk fuck who they want to fuck when they want to no one has the reserved right to send a message and expect a reply from any particular gender.

Next week, next month next year, next century folk will still be moaning

No one should feel the need to justify they're actions to what is predominantly strangers.

The above was in relation to fabland.

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