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how do u say no.politely?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I don't like just saying no thanks.

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

WTF make you think I would want to shag you!!??

Thats me being polite

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk


"WTF make you think I would want to shag you!!??

Thats me being polite "

IT IS!!

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

How about, no - you aren't my type

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

eh,not quite what I had in mind,but thanks anyway.

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Seriously.....

If you cant bring yourself to say a simple "No thanx" you are simply making things harder for yourself and not only wasting your time, but theirs also....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So short and to the point is better.

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk


"Seriously.....

If you cant bring yourself to say a simple "No thanx" you are simply making things harder for yourself and not only wasting your time, but theirs also...."

The lady is right. Why waste your time trying to let them down gently?

Just say 'no thanks, you aren't my type'

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk


"So short and to the point is better."

Yep. And if they don't take no for an answer, just block them and move on

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Id like too,but don't want people thinking I'm rude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So short and to the point is better.

Yep. And if they don't take no for an answer, just block them and move on "

I always just be honest for example "no ta your not my type"

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk


"Id like too,but don't want people thinking I'm rude."

It doesn't matter what you do, someone will always claim you are rude when most would say you weren't. Just rip off the band aid - short and sweet, to the point and don't waste your time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Id like too,but don't want people thinking I'm rude."

Who cares do you want to shag someone you don't want to meet?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm relativey new on here and I've seen some of the comments people makes about others maybe that's why I'm being so careful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm relativey new on here and I've seen some of the comments people makes about others maybe that's why I'm being so careful."

Well if there is someone you don't want to Me just say no but thank you for the message if they get abusive report them then afterwards just block them

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

I just say thanks for your message but no thanks and happy swinging

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks ,so far no one has been abusive to me but I'll know what to do of they are.

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By *stwoCouple
over a year ago

anywhere

Simple thanks but no thanks

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"Thanks ,so far no one has been abusive to me but I'll know what to do of they are."

ONE thing you dont do is reply!!!

Simply ignore/Block and move on

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I always reply,if someone has taken the time to message you surely it is bad manners not to at least give them the courtesy of an answer.

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk


"I always reply,if someone has taken the time to message you surely it is bad manners not to at least give them the courtesy of an answer."

Sometimes people get way too many messages to reply to them all - they'd need a social secretary. Don't panic about replying to every single message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always reply,if someone has taken the time to message you surely it is bad manners not to at least give them the courtesy of an answer."

Time? Half of them copy and paste but also as a single fem I get around a hundred messages a day as most women get do we all have time to reply to all I think not it's not being rude it's just that replying to everyone is time consuming

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"I always reply,if someone has taken the time to message you surely it is bad manners not to at least give them the courtesy of an answer."

I meant if they got abusive....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I get over ninty a day that's why I'm looking for advice.

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"I get over ninty a day that's why I'm looking for advice."

Take your time...

Look at their profile, do they meet what you are looking for? Do they state on their profile that you are what they are looking for?

Anyone outwith that, simply delete...

You are getting so many because you are new, that will die down eventually...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get over ninty a day that's why I'm looking for advice.

Take your time...

Look at their profile, do they meet what you are looking for? Do they state on their profile that you are what they are looking for?

Anyone outwith that, simply delete...

also you could put something on your profile... if they havent taken the time to read it then they aint worth your time lol

You are getting so many because you are new, that will die down eventually..."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

one last thing,people are sending me winks when I wink back it says they're not loooking for cd's is that normal?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"one last thing,people are sending me winks when I wink back it says they're not loooking for cd's is that normal?"

Yes

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk


"one last thing,people are sending me winks when I wink back it says they're not loooking for cd's is that normal?

Yes"

Very lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thanks guys,thought it was just me.lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How about......sorry but you are not what I'm looking for at the moment x

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By *ky HookMan
over a year ago

Dundee


"I always reply,if someone has taken the time to message you surely it is bad manners not to at least give them the courtesy of an answer."

Youve missed the point. If someone gets abusive thats when you dont reply.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

my thanks but no thanks is on my profile,if they took the time to read it they would see it there, but even so i still get abusive emails from rude men who think its their god given right to a reply just because they mailed you.

we're not wee stupid girls and boys on here surly if you dont get a reply to an email you would take that as a no thank you?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

or any conceivable moment in the next century.lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We say no thanks, and if they still pester us ......... block!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That seems to be the norm.thank you.

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By *ky HookMan
over a year ago

Dundee

You could alway be inventive. Tell them on a cold day in hell they have a chance. Or when the reach around they are offering is their own cock youll think about it. Or when they can fill all your holes with their cock similtaniously then if your desperate youll maybe think about getting in touch...

Safe Swinging

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If they could do all those things I'd say yes please.lol

Funniest reply,thank you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"its not you... Its me...

Im just not attracted to you"

Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Aye right,it's never me.lol

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