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What's in a wink?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok is it just me, but if you wink at some one on here, then does that not imply a note of interest? So if you send a nice email to the persons thanking them for said wink, it is then deleted with no correspondence back?

There appears to be a lot of multiple profiles appearing on Fab that are basically the same person masquerading as cpls . Anyhoo rant over happy swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm with you m8. If people used winks more it would be a lot simpler. Wink, wink returned, email.....etc.

Saves wasting your time and is not lazy just saves feckin about wasting my prose on folk who are busy exploring lesser opportunities......

Meeiow.....saucer o milk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Peeps that wink me get a poke in the eye and blocked. Just cos.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I send a wink as I'm quite shy honestly. I'm rubbish at introducing myself and if I get one back then I'll message just saying hi if you want to chat that's great if not that's fine xx

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow

I've never seen the harm in winking, but most women rate it as guys being lazy, but that's women for you!

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

I dont mind winks at all and if someone winks me il take the time to check them out and read their profile.

if its someone i may be intrested in il return the wink and if not i just delete it,I really dont see the harm xxx

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

Winks don't bother me in the slightest, I have to admit I don't often check them but I've been known to send one if someone catches my eye

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I send a wink as I'm quite shy honestly. I'm rubbish at introducing myself and if I get one back then I'll message just saying hi if you want to chat that's great if not that's fine xx"

I agree with the above!

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By *ustforalaugh1Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I send a wink as I'm quite shy honestly. I'm rubbish at introducing myself and if I get one back then I'll message just saying hi if you want to chat that's great if not that's fine xx

I agree with the above!"

Yup! Me too! Saves time drafting messages only for them to be deleted without being read!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't mind winks, no harm in them. If we see a wink and like, we usually send a message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I am a total and utter " winker "!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I (D) send winks most of the time, again just shy. Not lazy and no insult intended just some people are much better at starting online conversations.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like winks, im rubbish at the initial message, never know what to put, so a wink works for me, and people either like what they see and wink back or message or dont! Its up to them!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm rubbish at starting conversations on here so generally wink but never seem to get much interest from them lol x

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By *issyForDommeTV/TS
over a year ago

glasgow

It seems a lot of winkers just ain't great at the opening message or too used to taking the time to write a thought out message that shows you've read the profile and point out shared interests just for it to be deleted-I'm a bit of both depending on the info in the profile.

I say in my profile if you wink back to mine then I'll send a message and if i wink back to yours then you should send me a message-the people i don't get are those who wink and then ignore your message, what's the point of even winking in the first place!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to use a wink as a sign of interest, if that wink is returned then I'll message the woman or couple. What I don't understand is when I wink an they wink back but then dont respond to my message!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That's exactly my thoughts, if I return a wink with a message that basically says hi, then it gets deleted? Just don't get it, fair enough if you're shy but a if the other party makes the effort to start a convo in reply to the wink, it's only fair to respond back even if it's only to say no. Oh well away for a wink lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sign of interest

Geek

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By *akedninjaMan
over a year ago

edinburgh

fly in my eye...that's why i winkity wink all the time lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just means there is something in their eye .......spunk perhaps?

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By *ustforalaugh1Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"That's exactly my thoughts, if I return a wink with a message that basically says hi, then it gets deleted? Just don't get it, fair enough if you're shy but a if the other party makes the effort to start a convo in reply to the wink, it's only fair to respond back even if it's only to say no. Oh well away for a wink lol"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Must admit, it's a massive pet hate of mine when you take a bit of time to put a message together, complying totally with what's been asked of you..... Only for it to be deleted without reply.

'Title your message 'potato' to show you've read my profile' - check

Respect my age range - check

Include a face pic - check

No cock pics - check

No generic copy / paste messages - check

No requests for meets in first message - check

You go through all these wee checks, then get slapped with a 'Deleted'. Can defo see why folk decide to go for the 'lazy' option.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't even look at them any more. Such a pointless part of fab.

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By *ustforalaugh1Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Must admit, it's a massive pet hate of mine when you take a bit of time to put a message together, complying totally with what's been asked of you..... Only for it to be deleted without reply.

'Title your message 'potato' to show you've read my profile' - check

Respect my age range - check

Include a face pic - check

No cock pics - check

No generic copy / paste messages - check

No requests for meets in first message - check

You go through all these wee checks, then get slapped with a 'Deleted'. Can defo see why folk decide to go for the 'lazy' option. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Must admit, it's a massive pet hate of mine when you take a bit of time to put a message together, complying totally with what's been asked of you..... Only for it to be deleted without reply.

'Title your message 'potato' to show you've read my profile' - check

Respect my age range - check

Include a face pic - check

No cock pics - check

No generic copy / paste messages - check

No requests for meets in first message - check

You go through all these wee checks, then get slapped with a 'Deleted'. Can defo see why folk decide to go for the 'lazy' option. "

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