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The appeal of SM

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I had my first proper experience with SM while attending CJ's last night. I wasn't keen on it before I tried it and after last night nothing has changed What it was, was that one of the women at the party was a dominatrix and was showing off her SM equipment. She wanted a guy to use them on and in front of an small audience. Purely for a laugh I volunteered and the way my arse felt afterwards I wish I hadn't. The first few times she spanked me with something she was gentle and it didn't hurt but the last time although not as hard as it could have been was still quite hard. Never again! Each to their own but I just don't get what the appeal is. And now I have to make sure I don't ever go anywhere where I might have to use a public shower

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's all about experimenting and finding your likes and dislikes....so now you know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same sketch for me too. I tried this at cjs a while back. All it did for me was confirmed I have a decent pain threshold and that I can take it. I know a few were entertained by what was going

On but similarly I am not fussed about repeating this. My arse.was left badly bruised . The ego was fine though.

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By *issyForDommeTV/TS
over a year ago

glasgow

Each to their own, at least you can say you had a bash. I had a great night last night at the fet club, two women double teamed me to paddle my ass-my cheeks are still scarlet and stinging...but hey as i said, each to their own lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From how you described your experience it was more a display/show with very little, if any sexual enjoyment/involvement.

For some a more intimate surrounding and sexual atmosphere is needed to enjoy various forms of SM play.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not for everyone, and while I do enjoy a bit of BDSM play, a meet without can be just as much fun..

You need to have a bit of a chat about that kind of stuff before you launch into it with someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do like the appeal of it. But would love to pursue other traits further.

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Met a few Dominatrix.....

Pain in the feckin arse and they not laid a finger on me...

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By *YKellyMan
over a year ago

Aberdeen

The appeal of SM like any sexual activity is very personal thing. But to generalise, it is often about an exchange of control. Giving and taking that trust and power can be a powerful turn on. For it to work at its best communication and understanding of each other's needs and desires is essential. Often there is a complicated relationship between the partners.

A random spanking if you are not sure you even want it for some people misses the point. On the other hand you did volunteer twice.

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By *erverts R usCouple
over a year ago

Stirling

Well you will play with strange women tutt tutt

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