FabSwingers.com forum: Far too many bi profiles on here

By *rsheelz OP Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow

The chance of us coming across a straight couple on here is a joke nearly every everyone we come into contact with over the years we hav been here is bi or curious (the female of the couple) am just questioning this because i feel alot of these profile aint even 100% verified just cause some or multipul profiles verified your profile dnt make you legit.

half the people contacting us dnt even hav the green flag icon

i know that single guys r hosting fake profile to get woman to talk back and share pics i just want to know whats going to be done about it

I dnt hav a problem with bi couples or singles but i think there is a group of ppl using this status as a means to get pics or even their jollies out of the thrill of the chase

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure about all you say but totally agree with your green flag policy.

Easy to do and should be no comebacks about authenticity.

Hope all improves for you

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

I've not been pic verified and have no intention of doing so..... Everything can be faked, and Iprefer real meeting in person veris to prove who I am.

Just because someone gets picture verified doesn't mean they will turn up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've not been pic verified and have no intention of doing so..... Everything can be faked, and Iprefer real meeting in person veris to prove who I am.

Just because someone gets picture verified doesn't mean they will turn up

well sed cutie I totally agree

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Why cant you meet a bi couple?

Just becase people are bi doesnt mean we'd try it on with someone whos str8.

We can meet and play str8 as long as boundries are set lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree miss dymomite just because your bi doesn't mean your gonna try anything with someone who's straight

I'm bi and have been in the company of straight people n never tried anything n still had a great time oh n I'm always honest and if they don't want to meet because of it then that's fine

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

"The chance of us coming across a straight couple on here is a joke nearly every everyone we come into contact with over the years we hav been here is bi or curious (the female of the couple) am just questioning this because i feel alot of these profile aint even 100% verified just cause some or multipul profiles verified your profile dnt make you legit.

half the people contacting us dnt even hav the green flag icon

i know that single guys r hosting fake profile to get woman to talk back and share pics i just want to know whats going to be done about it

I dnt hav a problem with bi couples or singles but i think there is a group of ppl using this status as a means to get pics or even their jollies out of the thrill of the chase

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plenty straight couple profiles you can take more than 50% of the bi sexual out (ask actual bi sexual single females)why aint they 100% verified if they have met they are genuine and doing nothing diffrent from yours you also want single females.what makes them legit is the fact they have met !!.

green falg aint hard to get hold a bit of paper with name on it easy and proves a person held a bit of paper nothing more.

you KNOW single guys are doing fake profiles how according to your profile these are of no intrest to you.

many would say the guy part of your profile is using fab to get his jollies off as female part of your profile has no bi tendencys but you want single fems.

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By *eganWhoWoman
over a year ago

Borders

Try looking for more "traditional" swinging rather than online.. parties/ clubs etc.

Wud be easier if your profile was spelt correctly, had more info on it and didnt seem to have mainly veris from single guys.... and you can set filters so un-verifieds can't message you!

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By *nvercoupleCouple
over a year ago

Inverness

We dont have a green tick, and likely wont ever get 1. But I would hope people looking at our profile would realise were not fakes due to the verifications we have.

Photo verifications are a good idea for new accounts I think, not for people that have been here a while.

We generally wont play with a couple if the female of that couple isnt Bi. Not that we have a problem with straight women, they are just as lovely as the Bi ones. Its just thats our main reason for swinging. For Mrs to be able to have fun and explore her Bi side.

There are plenty of straight women on here, plenty of straight guys and plenty of straight couples. Just keep at it. Try posting on meets and events when your looking for a meet and see who contacts you.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

" i just want to know whats going to be done about it

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what exactly is it you done about it?

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

" i just want to know whats going to be done about it

what exactly is it you done about it?

If you suspect a fake, report to admin and block.

If you don't want to meet bi women then that's your choice and is absolutely fine

But I don't see it as a problem as boundaries should always be agreed before a meet anyway as others have said.

But just stick with it and keep looking for single straight ladies and straight couples - there are quite a few on here

But I'm with the rest here and don't see a problem. Everyone uses fab as they see fit and if you happen across a fake or timewaster, report to admin, block and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a lot of the males on here were honest there would be lots more bi profiles. "Str8" guys are very often seen in the chatrooms asking to suck cock and meet Tv,s. If you cant be honest on a swingers site theres not much hope lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Diane is bi but that's not stopped us from meeting straight couples. You can actually trust a bi person not to jump on the same sex if the other is straight. Remember bi means they like men and women x

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By *rsheelz OP Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Why cant you meet a bi couple?

Just becase people are bi doesnt mean we'd try it on with someone whos str8.

We can meet and play str8 as long as boundries are set lol

We have had offer but they want to play bi and thats not we are after

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By *rsheelz OP Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Usually when chatting to a couple they they ask do we play bi we say no and tht the convo dead its as if its bi or bust

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By *rsheelz OP Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Just wanted to say thanks for your feedback some replies i found helpful i just wanted to state for the record that we dnt have a problem with bi couples or singles we have had a meet with a couple and the woman was bi and that was a straight forward meet we speak to alot of couples that we know are genuine and are bi

If it came across we had a problem with bi couples then we are sorry it just there is alot of them out there some more geniune than others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We dont have a green tick, and likely wont ever get 1. But I would hope people looking at our profile would realise were not fakes due to the verifications we have.

Photo verifications are a good idea for new accounts I think, not for people that have been here a while.

You do have a green tick! Do you mean a green flag? Tick is for verified and flag is for photo verified.

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Only way to find out if someone is legit, is to met them.....

There is NO other way to do it

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By *rjandmrskCouple
over a year ago

West Dunbartonshire

We are a st8 couple and agree it is very hard to find other st8 couples. We are happy to meet couples with bi fems but the problem we have been coming up against is this.

We state clearly on profile we are both st8. We contact cpls and they contact us and when we do we say in our first message that we are happy to chat and see where it takes us but ask if they are happy with it only being st8 fun. They say yes great we start chatting. Then the questioning comes why am I not bi (Mrs K). I reply never been interested does nothing for me. But surely you must want to and you would go with flow if a fem touched u during fun. Emmmm NO am not interested in bi. So they say ok. next chat it creeps in again we say sorry we are not for you and block. Had it quite a few times now.

Also went to a social a few years back and was chatting to a cpl and I went to toilet. The fem came in and we were chatting and she started questioning me again and tried to kiss me. I pushed her away and told her to cut it out. Went back out and she kept going on so we left. She actually came out and as I tried to shut taxi door she grabbed it held it open and was screaming into my face. I will have you I will turn you bi just you wait and see. She just could not accept that I didn't fancy women. Deranged or what.

We know not everyone is like that thankfully and we know there are loads of cpls out there with bi fems that will respect my choice but unfortunately we haven't met them yet but we will keep looking lol

Long post but very very true. Mrs K xxx

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