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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

is it just me, or is it getting harder to get meets these days?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 partys and a gb later in 2 weeks, hmmm yes i think yer right,lol

T xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"is it just me, or is it getting harder to get meets these days? "

Sorry, yes it just does seem it at present, xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

has everyone gone shy lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it defo is, what we get often is the plan to meet up at the weekend, then get cancelled on an hour or so before it

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By *Y MAN n MECouple
over a year ago

FIFE

yep that sounds about right. Or the talkers and no meeters... gets on our pip. AND the ones we contact that say they will get back to us and never do,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yeah...all talk and no action!lol

Been there on more than one occasion!

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By *adcowWoman
over a year ago

kirkcaldy

soz been out of action for a bit so now playing catch up lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ok, beware of loaded replies.

The sure sign you have a potential waste of time at you, the daft asides, "will be there so long as", "all we need to do before it is", "just need to do this that or the other and will be there".

A sure sign the wee get out clause will be deployed if given these examples, others are available, ohh aye,lol

T xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

we seem to arrange things, and always get let down lol i was on this site last year and we got meet no problem! due to another family member being on this site! we had to take all face pic and body part of our main page, maybe this has something to do with it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

whats a meet? its been a while

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By *acreadCouple
over a year ago

central scotland

Just a thought swinglovers but the fact that you have cant travel and cant accom on your profile might put ppl off where do you meet then?

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By *Y MAN n MECouple
over a year ago

FIFE

good point mac.... have seen other profiles saying this and did wonder....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If everyone is of the same censure that "meets" today is getting harder to achieve , due to time wasters or people cancelling ...... who are these people ??? if Everyone thinks this surely they must be some of the people that's cancelling ?? No? ...lol

Why don't you all take each others names and getting chatting and arrange meets... at least you'll know then that these meets wont get cancelled lol

not wanting to offend anyone its just a thought for today on this " good friday " lol

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

might be that.... might the the fact that a lot more people are going down the "social" route.... as in meeting people that they have met at socials...

as i single guy it is great for me... because I get to interact with people in a normal atmosphere before deciding if i want to take it any further.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it defo is, what we get often is the plan to meet up at the weekend, then get cancelled on an hour or so before it "

im soz pretty it wont happen again lol il be there on time ffrom now on hehe xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well in the past 3 wks iv been let down 4 times but out of 3 of them i had the sneakin feelin they were all talk no trouser action!!

but i know that i have my wee trusted and tested buddies around so things aint that bad and also got the company of my lovely forum dwellers!!! apart from _abio cause he doesnt like jammie wagon wheels the weirdo!!! xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have never even aranged a meet with anyone yet never mind let them down

dont know if am not comeing online enuff or what i do need to work

well i will keep ploding along

kev x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anytime Ive had a meet (a while back granted) Ive not cancelled or let anyone down at short notice and wouldnt do it anyways as its just not polite and god forbid almost everyone thinks single guys are a plague on here as it is without adding fuel to the fire lol

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By *alakMan
over a year ago

Milan

it's awful getting stood up at the last minute, I make a point of never doing it but still too many single males spoil the market!!!! And after you build a reputation you find your meet message diluted in a mess of timewasters' messages! Got to do something about it...

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

I think when ppl r given their time and making arrangements to free themselfs for meets and even turning down other genuine ppl to meet theses so called swingers then somethings gotta be done but what? i say word of mouth is best policy once uve spoke to a few friends they will find it very difficult to get meets and word does get around very quickly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i seem to be able to get meets, but then either get cancelled at the last minute, or are no shows, which is annoying as change plans or say no to doing things with friends and then end up with bugger all to do...starting to get annoyed with it now!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"is it just me, or is it getting harder to get meets these days? "

uve done well 2 get two meets in 6weeks

if this post was done by a single guy

he'd got slaughterd by now lol an told 2

be patient xx

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By *ountrypairCouple
over a year ago

edinburgh

as said before i think a lot do go down the social route. we have had soo many meets that didnt erm go right that we have found the socials the best way to meet people, just our way though everybody has difo views mind xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

finding it more difficult myself to get meets but thats mostly down to finding windows of opportunity on my part through work n family commitments. was supposed to have meet yesterday but between myself and the girl our free time didnt quite match up. then today thought i was going to have a free day to myself only for daughter to change her shifts at work so yet again tied up with family stuff, its tough but makes you apreciate meets more when things do eventually fall into place for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" word does get around very quickly "

Yep, but we all need to tread carefully as "word" can be very one sided and isn't always fair to all parties involved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" word does get around very quickly

Yep, but we all need to tread carefully as "word" can be very one sided and isn't always fair to all parties involved."

couldnt agree more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well we also had been let down a couple of times, that is why we decided to go to a club and that worked for us. xx

no timewasters there anyway. xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

meets as a couple, well for us anyway looking for girls is now just simply impossible, but thats just due to the amount of couples looking for the same really. So much so that we are thinking of just changing the profile to a single girl for P and G take no sexual participation on the site, so that Ps emails to girls for girl play have a better chance of being noticed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no complaints here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

got to say i generally have no probs with meets.my work usually gets in the way alot but when i arrange one i dont get any no shows..(maybe im just on a hot streak ).lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think a lotta it comes down to the fact loadsa folks know each other, loadsa folks are mates, loadsa folks flirt etc.........and no-one asctually asks each other to meet.....i have found that anyway !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think a lotta it comes down to the fact loadsa folks know each other, loadsa folks are mates, loadsa folks flirt etc.........and no-one asctually asks each other to meet.....i have found that anyway !"

Yip, and you do absolutely everything to make the idea of meeting fun, just drop short of sending jeeves round in the limo to pick them up,still folks opt to simply sit at pc n just think about it instead of trying it.

Tx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its because ive been away for 2 weeks sorry hahahahahaha Im always happy to meet not let or been let down yet.

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

well its always been difficult getting meets but does seem to be a tad worse now. i thought after talking awhile and getting to know a single guy that was pretty high chance theyd turn up . how wrong could i be !!! you make arrangements and all of a sudden they go off the radar !! no txts or mails or exsplaination in most cases .im very choosey about who i meet and even choosier about taking things further so disapointing when you get let down and not even the common decenencey to apologise. i can fully appricate that "life happens " sometimes and no doubt that genuine things throw a spanner in to plans. however when they just stop all communication jsut leads you to the conclusion that they are a) just here for the thrill of the chase or b) are just in to the idea of swinging and when it gets become more of a reality they freak . even in second case id have more respect for the guy if they just were up frount about it .

as its far from an ideal world well all just have to realise no matter how carefull you are you cant out all the dreamers and time wasters and there is never any garentee the other person will turn up .if they do great its a bonus ,if not then just enjoy the afternoon/evening anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it near impossible to get a meet with a single bi girl. Its hard for me and hubby to meet couples unless its short notice when we have a sitter. I like to meet just one on one with girls an can meet anytime but its hard meeting someone. Glad its not just me that's not getting anyone interested. x

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By *urvy N TeaseCouple
over a year ago

Stirling

Dont know if its is getting harder to arrange a meet from here or not. We have not tried to organise one on here, we tend to meet people at parties (such as CJ's) becasue then you are meeting people in a social environment and its easier to see if you all get on ok rather than organise a meet then travel (or them to us) and finding out they are not what you were expecting and possibly ruining a night of potential fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first week on this site i found it hard to meet irls but since then i have managed to meet 4 new people in the past week and a half. All good now. Keep them coiming and i will. Im not the type of guy who will cancel or not show up. Whats the point we are on here for more of the same. Maybe the timewasters just get off on chatting about the possibility so maybe dont feed them with there wee fantasies until your sure they are Genuine. Having the phone number of the person your are going to meet might clarify things easier,who knows but im sure it's in the post for me in the future and then i will eat my words haha

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