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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Has being on fab made you more confident or lessened it would you say ??

For us , we both would have to say its made us more confident , socially , sexually and within ourselves .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My confidence has neither been boosted nor taken any sort of hit whilst being on here and I'm secure enough within myself not to let it affect me either way but I can see why it could adversely affect someones confidence. Particularly that of single males on the site. This place can be hard work at times!

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

I've always been fairly confident but I guess this site has opened my eyes to a few extra things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us, being on here has given us a boost of confidence in all aspects of things, both socially and sexually. Having the confidence to join in the first instance us grand but too many just join for the thrill of the chase, it then takes further confidence to meet people either socially or privately. Having decided to go to socials takes confidence to walk in as the newbies and be accepted. That said the socials are fantastic and the people you meet make the pre-social nerves disappear!

Thinking of confidence though it's hard to know what it's like fir the single guy who gets a lot of 'no thanks' messages, but they must appreciate couples get them too! Also we wonder what it's like to have your first mmf being the single guy, going into another couples relationship and being with the woman in front if their partner.

All in all, joining the site, going to socials, meeting some great people along the way and of course the fun side always gives a boost, for Mrs kk, the fact that people find her attractive is a confidence boost ( like really? If you know her, you know 'stunning' doesn't come close!!). We've thoroughly enjoyed fab so far and look forward to so much more, if that's making us more confident then great!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being on fab has definitely given me a confidence boost.

As a bigger girl I was worried that no one would be interested but I have been pleasantly surprised

L xx

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

I'm a very confidant person but joining fab definitely gave me a bigger confidance boost until almost two years ago when I had surgery,from that I've been left with both physical and mental scars which I believe has had an effect on my confidence on here and has actually left me doubting myself .

I don't meet that often but once I've found someone I feel 100% at ease with the confidence comes flooding back and I have actually been told a few times that some guys have been attracted to me because of my confidence lol .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm a very confidant person but joining fab definitely gave me a bigger confidance boost until almost two years ago when I had surgery,from that I've been left with both physical and mental scars which I believe has had an effect on my confidence on here and has actually left me doubting myself .

I don't meet that often but once I've found someone I feel 100% at ease with the confidence comes flooding back and I have actually been told a few times that some guys have been attracted to me because of my confidence lol ."

I agree there miss D confidence can be a big attraction.I an confident on the key board but when it actually comes to meeting in person I an a very shy person until I get to know that person .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I agree there miss D confidence can be a big attraction.I an confident on the key board but when it actually comes to meeting in person I an a very shy person until I get to know that person . "

Me 2

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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I agree there miss D confidence can be a big attraction.I an confident on the key board but when it actually comes to meeting in person I an a very shy person until I get to know that person .

Me 2 "

Who said me too.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"I'm a very confidant person but joining fab definitely gave me a bigger confidance boost until almost two years ago when I had surgery,from that I've been left with both physical and mental scars which I believe has had an effect on my confidence on here and has actually left me doubting myself .

I don't meet that often but once I've found someone I feel 100% at ease with the confidence comes flooding back and I have actually been told a few times that some guys have been attracted to me because of my confidence lol .

I agree there miss D confidence can be a big attraction.I an confident on the key board but when it actually comes to meeting in person I an a very shy person until I get to know that person . "

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By *inkyBrianMan
over a year ago

glasgow


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I agree there miss D confidence can be a big attraction.I an confident on the key board but when it actually comes to meeting in person I an a very shy person until I get to know that person .

Me 2 "

I think a lot of people are like that, it's easy to open up about naughty things when not face to face. A lot of people are a bit shy when meeting new people for the first time.

As for confidence when it comes to fab, i have to admit that sometimes it takes a battering and you think you may as well just give up-but every now and again you get a reply and ray of hope lol. I recently had a meet and my faith restored, for now.

Confidence on here is a swings and roundabouts thing for me, if not most single guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Being on fab has definitely given me a confidence boost.

As a bigger girl I was worried that no one would be interested but I have been pleasantly surprised

L xx "

same here, but a bigger tranny

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"For us, being on here has given us a boost of confidence in all aspects of things, both socially and sexually. Having the confidence to join in the first instance us grand but too many just join for the thrill of the chase, it then takes further confidence to meet people either socially or privately. Having decided to go to socials takes confidence to walk in as the newbies and be accepted. That said the socials are fantastic and the people you meet make the pre-social nerves disappear!

Thinking of confidence though it's hard to know what it's like fir the single guy who gets a lot of 'no thanks' messages, but they must appreciate couples get them too! Also we wonder what it's like to have your first mmf being the single guy, going into another couples relationship and being with the woman in front if their partner.

All in all, joining the site, going to socials, meeting some great people along the way and of course the fun side always gives a boost, for Mrs kk, the fact that people find her attractive is a confidence boost ( like really? If you know her, you know 'stunning' doesn't come close!!). We've thoroughly enjoyed fab so far and look forward to so much more, if that's making us more confident then great!!!"

Really good post Mr Kk ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was always a confident person but had taken some bad knocks last couple of yrs both personally and workwise including a work accident.where I was treated very shabbily. As a result my confidence went down.

I came here and have found the old me: the one I like is back. Sure nobody likes rejection and I get plenty. However I have secured a variety of meets and things are improving all the time.

Yes I do feel quite positive but this is in general. Not just.on here.

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By *nvercoupleCouple
over a year ago

Inverness

We have gained massive confidence in all parts of our life due to this life style.

our own relationship is fantastic. Never once have we worried that the other will cheat on them. As there is simply no need. Our own sex life after the years hasnt gone stale.

Mrs has always been worried about her weight ect ect, but recently because we have been more active in the scene she is realizing that she is very attractive and it is showing in her attitude to life in general.

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By *he Bluesome TwosomeCouple
over a year ago

west lothian

We love going to socials and meeting new people but we usually try to arrange a meet post/pre social before we actually go as we dont always have the confidence to go and start speaking to new people. This we are hoping will change this year and after speaking with others we have realised that even others who have been on the scene longer still get occassional nerves so I suppose we're all in the same boat at one point. There is nothing nicer though than being on the dance floor and catching an occasional admiring eye

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We love going to socials and meeting new people but we usually try to arrange a meet post/pre social before we actually go as we dont always have the confidence to go and start speaking to new people. This we are hoping will change this year and after speaking with others we have realised that even others who have been on the scene longer still get occassional nerves so I suppose we're all in the same boat at one point. There is nothing nicer though than being on the dance floor and catching an occasional admiring eye "

Or 4 eyes !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always been a confident female though joining fab it tends to take a bashing now and again, though as soon as I roll up the stockings fasten the suspenders I get this rush of confidence and its a great feeling to have

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

I would say it definatly makes folks more confident and sexually liberated thoug not always a good thing

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By *GoodBadGuyMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I'm pretty confident face to face and happy to say what I think and what I want.

Since joining here and getting few responses to messages it does make you wonder why not but I'm comfortable being me and I know what I can offer so it won't make me change

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